St. Michael's Catholic Church
379 Division St.,
Cobourg
Columbus Community Centre
232 Spencer Street East,
Cobourg
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John Joseph Patrick "Pat" Redmond, beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather,
and friend, passed away peacefully on June 19, 2026, at the age of 97.
Born on March 10, 1929, to Robert and Louise (née Bergeron) Redmond, Pat was raised in Verdun, Quebec. A gifted athlete in his youth, he excelled in baseball and basketball and maintained a lifelong love of swimming, enjoying the activity well into his nineties. One of five children, Pat is survived by his sister Rita and brother Joe, both of Burlington, Ontario. He was predeceased by his sister Margaret and brother Gerry.
The great love of Pat's life was his cherished wife, Barbara. He first noticed her at church and later found an opportunity to meet her while collecting donations for Catholic Charities. They were married at St. Willibrord's Church in 1954 and shared 69 wonderful years together before Barbara's passing in 2023. Her loss was deeply felt, and Pat missed her every day.
At the heart of Pat's life were his Catholic faith and his family. Together, Pat and Barbara were blessed with eight children: John (Louise), Peter (Elisa), Mark (Jacqui), Paul (Ella), Patrick (Heather), Robert (Denise), Ann-Marie (Tamsin), and Valerie (Richard).
He was a proud grandfather to thirteen grandchildren: Jackie, Robin, Richard, Mitchell, Tara, Chelsea, Spencer, Jackson, Curtis, Ilish, Emma, Harrison, and Jude. His legacy continues through his twelve great-grandchildren: Hunter, Grace, Dylan, Logan, Brooke, Avery, Quinn, Dawson, Jacob, Rebel, Rowan, and Cillian.
Pat enjoyed a distinguished career in the insurance brokerage industry, spending most of his professional life with Lukis, Stewart, Price, Forbes. Beginning in Montreal, he quickly rose through the ranks and, at the age of 38, was appointed to the company's Board of Directors in 1967.
Widely respected for his sound judgment and unwavering integrity, Pat was instrumental in expanding the firm's national footprint. He led and negotiated the acquisition of several regional brokerages, growing the company from two to ten offices across Canada. In addition, he oversaw the management of the Western and Central Canada regions, helping to drive the firm's national growth and success.
When the Board moved the head office from Montreal to Toronto, Pat’s role as head of the Toronto office required that he relocate. Rather than uproot his family, he chose to commute, flying to Toronto each Monday morning and returning home every Friday afternoon. After five years, despite being offered the opportunity to become Chief Executive Officer, recognizing that the role would take him away from his and Barbara’s family life purpose, Pat chose early retirement. Years later, Peter and Robert, who followed their father into the insurance industry, would often hear fellow brokers describe their Dad as a man of exceptional integrity and the best boss they had ever worked for.
Pat and Barbara built a rich and adventurous life together while raising their family. They first settled in Pointe-Claire, Quebec, and spent summers at their cottage in Willsboro, NY. As their older sons reached their teenage years, they embraced a new challenge by purchasing a 100-acre hobby farm in Dalkeith, Ontario. Weekends and summers were spent there, with the children baling hay, driving tractors, milking cows, and learning the value of hard work alongside local farmers.
As several of their sons developed a passion for farming, and amid growing uncertainty in Quebec during the 1970s, Pat and Barbara moved their family across the provincial border to an operating dairy farm near Vankleek Hill, Ontario. A new chapter was laid, and two sons, Paul and Patrick, would go on to farm there for more than forty years. During these years, Pat commuted by train from Rigaud to downtown Montreal for work.
Following his retirement, he and Barbara continued to enjoy summer life on the farm before purchasing a winter home near Sarasota, Florida, where they spent twenty-five happy winters. In 2007, they moved into the town of Vankleek Hill, and in 2016, at Barbara's encouragement and at the age of 86, Pat relocated to Cobourg, Ontario. There, alongside Barbara and their son Patrick, he found a warm welcome in the New Amherst community. New friendships quickly developed through shared interests in golf, cribbage, and good company. Robert and Denise, who lived only a few houses away, remain especially grateful to the many New Amherst neighbors who embraced Pat, Barbara, and Patrick with such kindness and friendship.
With many of their children living in the Greater Toronto Area, Pat and Barbara treasured frequent family visits and especially enjoyed summers at the nearby cottages of Peter, Mark, and Ann-Marie.
Above all, Pat will be remembered as a man of deep faith, humility, generosity, and profound devotion to his family. He led not through words but through example, demonstrating throughout his life the true values of hard work and love. His influence will continue to be felt for generations through the family he and Barbara rooted and cherished.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on June 26th at 10am at St. Michael's Catholic Church in Cobourg, Ontario followed by interment at St. Michael's Cemetery. A reception will be held at the Columbus Community Centre at noon.
The family extends its heartfelt gratitude to the staff and physicians of Northumberland Hills Hospital and Extendicare Port Hope, especially Dr. Haunts, who cared for Pat throughout his years in Cobourg. Special thanks are also extended to his many caregivers at Extendicare and his private caregiver, Carol, whose compassion, understanding, and dedication helped make Pat's final year, as he faced dementia, more comfortable and navigable for both him and his family.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Pat's memory may be made to Northumberland Hills Hospital or the St. Vincent de Paul Society. Both organizations held special meaning for Pat, and
contributions in his honour would be sincerely appreciated.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
Heaven has truly gained another angel. We are blessed to have known Pat, to hear the music of his laughter, the richness of his voice, the wisdom and humour of his stories. He was a gentleman, and a gentle man. His curiosity knew no bounds, and he was always eager to listen to what was going on in our lives. His devotion to his faith and his love for his family shone brightly. He was always ready to welcome anyone into his circle, and his favourite goodbye was "Well have to get together soon." We will miss seeing him sitting on his front porch but are comforted knowing he is reunited with his precious bride, Barbara. Our heartfelt sympathy to all the Redmond family, and our deepest thanks for sharing Pat with us.
Peter, I was saddened to hear of your dad’s passing. What an incredible life he had. Reading the obitiary made me yearn for our home in eastern Ontario. You, Neil Mitchell, Ken Arthurs and I (eastern Ontario insurance mafia 😂) shared many good moments. It is those shared values from people like your father that formed the basis for success. Condolences to you and your extended family.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
Patrick and your family, my heart is with you all during this difficult time. May you find Peace in knowing that your life was fully enriched by the presence of your father and may all your memories of him bring you joy. Hugs to all
We were saddened to hear of Uncle Pat's passing. He was fortunate to have such a large and wonderful family and was lucky to spend the majority of his long life with his true love who he can now be reunited with. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Robert and Denise we were very saddened to hear about the loss of your Dad. Please know we are thinking of you and your family. May he rest in peace!
Dear Patrick and Family, I want to send my deepest sympathies to you. I am thinking of you all. Jody Carr
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
So sorry to hear about Pat’s passing. He was a true family man, and leaves a strong legacy behind. Have nice memories of times shared with Pat, Barbara, and Patrick. Sending healing thoughts and hugs to the whole family.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
Please accept my sincere condolences at this very difficult time.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
So sorry to hear of Uncle Pat's passing. We have great memories of him, Auntie Barb and all our cousins spending time at the farm in our youth. I remember his smile and quick humour, always encouraging us to visit. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of the family, rest in peace Uncle Pat.
Dear Redmond Family, Frida and I want to send you all our deepest condolences. You are such an incredibly strong and dynamic family… I’ve always been in awe of what your parents accomplished both in their lives and with all of you. I will be thinking of your dad and your mom - beside one another again. All our love. ❤️
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
A fine and true gentleman who put family and faith above all else. A man of great integrity with a sharp sense of humor. He will be deeply missed. My sincere condolences to the Redmond family. Cindy Widdrington
Dear Patrick and family ~ Gary and I were honored to become acquainted with Pat and Barbara and Patrick through St. Michael's Church parish. It was so easy to be attracted to their warmth and genuine friendly dispositions. We grieve their passing and offer our prayers and condolences to all their family and many friends. May they both rest in the peace of Christ. Sincerely Trish
Thinking of you all with deepest sympathy at this sad time. Mr. Redmond lived a full life, and will be missed by family and people who knew him. 🌹
We are so sorry to hear of Uncle Pat's passing. There are so many wonderful memories of family gatherings, holidays and summer days spent at the farm. The most precious memories I hold close to my heart are those of laughter that was heard when our parents were together. He will be missed. Our deepest condolences, Laura & Peter
He lived a long and full life. Your parents were wonderful people! Memories stay with us forever. In some ways our parents feel like they are still with us as we are part of them. They will always be in our hearts. Our condolences to all of the family.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Vincent de Paul Society
We are so saddened to hear of Pat's passing. He lived such a full and rich life, and touched everyone around him so deeply. We will always treasure the time we had with him. Even though we knew him for only a short while, it never felt that way — Pat had a gift for making you feel like you'd been friends for years. And that twinkle in his eye during a serious conversation — you always knew there was warmth and wisdom just beneath the surface. He was truly adored, and it's easy to understand why. He missed Barbara so deeply after she passed. There is real comfort in knowing they are together again. With our deepest sympathy and fondest memories of a wonderful man.
We were saddened to hear of Uncle Pat’s passing. We have many wonderful memories of get togethers in Pointe Claire and the farm in VanKleek Hill. His sense of humour and card playing bring a smile. He did indeed live a full life. Our prayers are with you all at this difficult time.💕
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Barry and I were honoured to know Pat. He was a true gentleman and neighbour who will be missed beyond measure. Pat had a wonderful welcoming smile and always a kind word as he would sit on the front porch. You always just felt better just being in Pats company. Barbara as well! You could always see the love they shared together. You could see the love in the beautiful family they have raised. Thank you for giving us a glimpse of their lives together. Please accept our sincere condolences. Love Cathy and Barry
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
I am certain that your father, grandfather and great-grandfather will be missed. I have many fond memories of Pat and Barbara from my youth, spending a lot of time at the house on Prince Edward. Sincerely, Steve and Judi
I am certain that your father, grandfather and great-grandfather will be missed. I have many fond memories of Pat and Barbara from my youth, spending a lot of time at the house on Prince Edward. Sincerely, Steve and Judi
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
Such wonderful years and memories after Pat and Barb moved to Cobourg. Greg and I enjoyed many events and evenings with Barb and then after her loss, kept close to Pat. I was blessed to have had a lovely visit and conversation with him the week before his death. He even comforted me with his kind words about Greg. He will have many Guardian Angels with him now! Respectfully and with Love and Heartfelt Sympathy to all the family, Lynne and in spirit, Guardian Angel, Greg RIP Dear Friend!
I am going to miss my friend Pat. Not only as a neighbor but a cribbage and golf partner. It always amazed me that even in his nineties he could score better than me! We are going to miss his favorite expression when playing cribbage - " make 15 out of that"! The term - "he was a good Man" can only be used sparingly because they seem to be in short supply. However, the term reflects perfectly the man named Pat Redmond. Rest in peace, my friend. I am sure Barbara is so happy to be with you once more.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
Our sincere condolences to the Redmond family. Pat and Barbara were such a lovely couple and I enjoyed my brief conversations with them before and after mass on Sundays. I know Pat is at peace now with his beloved Barbara. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this sad and difficult time. Cyndy and Rob Harper
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Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
SIncere condolences to the entire Redmond family, on the Passing of our neighbour Pat Sr. He was a person who was hard not to like. He always had a smile or a wave from his front porch. And always an open invite to stop for a chat. Pat is with Barbara now, may they rest together in peace.