MacCoubrey Funeral Home Reception Centre
30 King Street East,
Cobourg
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(William) Patrick Stayner of Toronto, Ontario, passed away peacefully on May 28, 2026, surrounded by family at the home of his daughter Susan and Randy where he lived. Pat was born on June 26, 1937, in Toronto, Ontario, to William and Marie Stayner.
He was predeceased by his beloved first wife, Joan Stayner, with whom he shared 37 years and raised their five daughters. He was also predeceased by many cherished family members and friends. Pat is survived by his wife Ludmila Semeniva Stayner. Pat is survived by his daughters, Janice, Susan, Deborah, Lisa, Renee as well as his many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He is also survived by his brothers, Paul Stayner (Audrey), Martin Stayner, and Jeff (Teri) Gibbens, affectionately known as his "bro", nieces and nephews.
Pat was a highly respected financial investor whose insight, integrity, and thoughtful guidance earned the trust of many throughout his life. He took great pride in helping others achieve their goals and was always willing to share his knowledge and experience. Known for his practical advice and words of wisdom, Pat left a lasting impression on countless friends, colleagues, and family members who benefited from his guidance and generosity.
Pat was a devoted Christian whose faith was an important part of his life, naming his boat Romans 10:9. Pat had a passion for sailing and for many years lived and sailed in Victoria BC, discovering great restaurants overlooking the water. He enjoyed good food and sharing meals with family and friends.
Throughout his life, Pat had a well-known love of sweets, especially cookies and ice cream. In his more recent years, he developed a particular fondness for a Frosty from Wendy's, and he couldn't leave the house without an initial stop at Tim Hortons for an Ice Capp. These simple pleasures brought him great happiness and became part of the charm that family and friends will always remember.
In his final years, Pat was surrounded by love and support in Castleton, Ontario. With dogs by his side he spent many happy days arm wrestling his grandchildren, fishing by the pond and watching the boats at the Cobourg Marina. These moments brought him great happiness and will be remembered fondly by all who knew him.
A Celebration of Life will be held at MacCoubrey Funeral Home on June 26 at 11:30am at 30 King St E. K9A 1K7 (905-372-5132). A fitting tribute on what would have been Pat's 89th birthday. Pat will be laid to rest beside his beloved first wife, Joan Stayner, at Royal Oak Burial Park in Victoria, British Columbia.
He will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by his family and friends.