MacCoubrey Funeral Home
30 King St. E.,
Cobourg
MacCoubrey Funeral Home
30 King St. E.,
Cobourg
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We are sad to announce that Antonia Aiello (nee Ielo) died peacefully with family by her side at her home, Extendicare Cobourg, on May 21, 2026, nine days after her 97th birthday.
Antonia was born in Reggio Calabria, Italy, and was the oldest of seven children. In 1953, she bravely left Italy as a young bride to join her husband, Francesco. Together, they built a home, a family, and a life in Cobourg. Antonia loved spending her days in her large vegetable and flower gardens and cooking big Italian meals for her family. Her greatest love in life was caring for her children and their families.
Antonia was the cherished wife of Francesco (d. 1994), and mother to her children Giovanna (Fred), Domenico (Penny), Carmelo (Debra), Anna (Stephen), Frank (Pam), and infant daughter Diana (d.1968). She was Nona to Darryl (Lynn), Brandon (Tanya), Jamie (Laura), Alyssa (Mitchell), Elizabeth, Christopher (Alexandra), and Timothy (Sarah), and seven great-grandchildren. Loving sister to Angela Pedace and Tony Ielo and her predeceased brothers Domenico, Francesco, Santo, and Carmelo. Antonia was the cherished Zia to many nephews and nieces in both Italy and Canada.
Antonia was loved by many wonderful caregivers at Extendicare Cobourg and her previous home at Palisade Gardens. Her family is deeply grateful for the loving and compassionate care provided to Antonia over the years, and in her final days. We are especially grateful for the friendship and special care provided by her honorary family member Jeannie.
A service to honour Antonia’s life will be held at MacCoubrey Funeral Home, 30 King St. E. Cobourg on Tuesday May 26th 2026 at 2 pm with visitation from 1 pm. Reception will follow the service. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial donation to Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation (www.nhhfoundation.ca/donate/) or Extendicare Cobourg Resident’s Council Fund.
To the Aiello family, I had the privilege of delivering meds to Antonia at her home and at Palisades. She had a great love and enthusiasm about her. She was also very funny. A genuine treasure
Carmen, Debra, Chris & Tim sorry to read the passing of your mom/grandmother. Keep your memories with you.
Hi Frank So sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom . Steve and Marlene Cole
Carmen and Family sorry to hear of your loss
So sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. May your many memories help ease your pain.
To the Aiello Family, sorry to hear that your Mom passed. She was a great and kind neighbour.
I am so sorry to here of Antonia passing sending condolences to the family thinking of you all.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Extendicare-Cobourg Resident Council
Cesca and Family, We are saddened to hear your dear mother has passed. I never met her but Anne thought a lot of her. She lived a long, beautiful and full life. On behalf of Anne and I, and all the ball hockey boys, please know you are in our thoughts. RIP Terry and Anne
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
Sorry for your loss. We met Antonia at Extendicare while our mum, Sheila, was there. Antonia always had a sparkle in her eyes.
Mrs. Aiello was a member of our church family at Calvary Baptist usually attending with Mrs. Seale. Sometimes I would visit her and we would sew. However her greatest love was her family and garden. Seldom would you leave without hearing a story about Anna 's kitty kitty, Carmen 's boys or taking a walk around her garden. The world has lost a lovely soul. Kim and Reg
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
We are sad to hear of the passing of our friend Tim’s Nona and send our deepest condolences to the Aiello family 🤍 We hope her service tomorrow brings out many wonderful stories and memories that you will keep with you forever in your hearts❤️ Sending big hugs from Heather and Dietrich (and Ozzie and Koi) in Rockwood
Dear Anna, Steve and Family. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May your dearest memories bless you and your family as you celebrate a wonderful life well lived and loved. Christine ❤️
To all the Aiello family, we send our sincere condolences to you on the passing of Antonia. Her love of her family was always evident and I was lucky enough to enjoy some of her cooking delicacies. I will remember her beautiful smile and her joy of life. Sincerely, Susan Finlay and Glenn Legault.
Frank and Pam, So very sorry Frank to hear of your mom’s passing. Cherish your memories to help through your loss. Al and Michelle
So sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. She was a wonderful lady and made some amazing cookies which our boys would look forward to enjoying as she would bring some over to their grandmas house as she lived next door to Mrs Aiello. Sending love and prayers to the will families.
Dear Aiello family, so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. Thinking of you at this difficult time.
Sincere condolences to the Aiello family. Antonia was such a lovely person. May your friends and memories help you through your loss.
To the Aiello family, We are saddened to hear of the passing of your mother. Our hearts go out to all of you during this difficult time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers as you grieve this loss. We hope you find comfort in the love of family, friends, and the many cherished memories you shared with your mom. With our deepest condolences, Cory and Tina Taylor
To the entire Aiello family… we offer our deepest condolences for the loss of Antonia. Although we did not know her personally, Frank is a great friend in our family and we know how great of a Mother Antonia was to raise such a great son and thoughtful Human being. Those who pass away will always be greatly missed by those who loved them. We are all thinking of you during this difficult time. Love Chris, Michelle, Kaleb and Kara Tatarek.
Condolences to the Aiello family. I have known Antonia through her children for many years. She was a very caring person and will be missed.
Dear Frank, Pam and family. Our deepest sympathy on the passing of your mom, grandma & great grandma. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Antonia was the most wonderful woman! So bright and loving. Sincere condolences to her beautiful family and all who loved her.
Frank, I Am sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom.
Thinking of all my cousins, the children of Aunt Antonia, as you experience the loss of your mother at this time.
Frank, We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom. Thinking of you and Pam during this difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort and peace in the days ahead.
I’m so sad to hear this, Antonia has always had a special place in my heart. Rest peacefully ❤️
My sincere condolances on your moms passing 😪 I always enjoyed spending time with her when I worked in Harmony. Antonia always had the biggest smile! Rest peacefully Bella ~ I am sure you will tend to Heaven's Gardens ⚘️🪻⚘️🌺⚘️🌼⚘️🌻
Frank, so sorry to hear about your dear mother. Our thoughts are with you, and your family Danielle, Melissa & Michelle
Frank - Sending our condolences on the loss of your mom. A life well-lived based on Peter’s memories of her, summed up simply as “such a great lady”. Thinking of you and your family.
Pl;ease accept our condolences in the loss of your dear Mother . Cherish all the good memories
Dear Aiello family, We are sorry to hear of your mom’s passing . We enjoyed chatting with her at Palisade Gardens, she was always so happy . May your memories bring you peace and comfort. Our sincere condolences to all her family .
So sorry to hear of your Moms passing. May your memories bring you comfort.
Dear Frank & Pam & the Aiello Family: We are thinking of you and are sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. May your happy memories help to ease your pain at this difficult time.
I'm so sorry to hear of your mother passing. Keeping her in my thoughts and prayers.
Very sorry to hear of your loved ones passing. Cherish the memories.
Sympathy to Frank a General Foods/Kraft colleague
We enjoyed worshipping with Antonia for a short time while she visited at Calvary Baptist church. She was just a joy to be with always so happy. Sincere condolences to her family Tony and Carol
I am so very sorry for your loss. Atonia was a very special woman. I met her when I sold Avon and I always saved her delivery for last as it was a visit. I learned a lot of things about gardening from her over the years and my grandson went with me a few times. She always gave him homemade cookies. He loved visiting her and she would tell him about all the plants in her garden. I think he was 4 or 5 years old. When we left one time with his prized cookies he commented, "wouldn't she the best grandma ever" which made me smile. She was a very dear and kind soul. Kathy