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Elmer George Grills
Visitation

MacCoubrey Funeral Home
30 King St. E., Cobourg

Friday February 27, 2026
4:00pm - 7:00pm

Visitation

MacCoubrey Funeral Home Reception Centre
30 King Street East, Cobourg

Saturday February 28, 2026
12:00pm - 2:00pm

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Elmer George Grills

April 20, 1927 - February 19, 2026

With heavy hearts and deep sadness, we announce the passing of Elmer George Grills on February 19, 2026, in his 99th year. He was born on April 20, 1927, in Hilton, Ontario, to the late Ekel and Florence (née Begg) Grills.

Elmer was predeceased by his sisters Ellen and Ina, and is lovingly remembered by his siblings Ella, Jim, and Clara.

A devoted and loving husband, Elmer shared 66 wonderful years of marriage with his beloved wife, Evelyn Grills (née Graham). Together they continued to build a life full of hard work, laughter, and deep devotion to their love for each other on their homestead in Baltimore, Ontario, on what is now known as Grills Road, named after his hardworking family who established themselves in the area in the 19th century.

He was a proud father to Larry (Janet) and Barry (Melissa) and a deeply cherished grandfather to Meghan (Cory), Wesley (Lucia), Katlyn (Donny), Courtney (Austin), and Chase. Nothing brought him greater joy than becoming a great-grandfather to Radson and Brynn, who added new excitement to his later years.

Elmer spent his life doing what he loved most — dairy farming. Beyond the fields, he found great happiness around the card table playing euchre with friends, on the dance floor with Evelyn, and gathered around a table full of family. Time spent together meant everything to him.

Known for his quick wit, gentle and compassionate nature, Elmer had a way of making everyone feel welcome, loved (and tall). He valued community, family, and believed that the greatest success in life was the love you cultivated along the way.

In his 99 years, Elmer witnessed a century of change, yet remained constant in what mattered most — family, hard work, kindness, and love.

He will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and forever present in the stories shared, cards played, dances remembered, and the fields that carry his legacy forward.

The family would like to recognize the compassionate care provided by the nurses and staff at both Northumberland hills hospital and Ed’s House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre during Elmer’s last days. Also, a heartfelt thank you to the home care support team and Dr. Mulé for the exceptional care and support they provided to both Elmer and Evelyn.

Friends are invited to call at the MacCoubrey Funeral Home, 30 King St., E., Cobourg on Friday February 27th from 4:00pm-7:00pm and Saturday February 28th from 12:00pm – 2:00 pm.

In lieu of flowers, the Grills family kindly asks that friends and family consider donating to Ed’s House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre or to the Centreton Cemetery.

Waiting at the gates to greet him will be his beloved dog Sparky. Rest in peace, Elmer. Your memory will forever live on in our hearts.

Message Of Condolence

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MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

Cassie and Mike Doyle (Aird) - March 20, 2026

I am so sorry to hear this. Elmer was one of the nicest people I’ve met and always had a smile every time I saw him. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.

Wayne Llewellyn - March 15, 2026

My condolences to you and your family Larry....

Gordon and Marg Jibb - March 10, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Craig Moore - March 7, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Gordon Jibb - March 6, 2026

Elmer and Evelyn are just the salt of the earth. Humble and kind! Marg's father (Rev Bill Sunter) married them and they loved him forever for it. Mentioned the fact every time they saw us for the very fact that they cherished their marriage so greatly. Elmer will be so sadly missed. Marg & Gord Jibb

Betty Smith - March 3, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Sally and Bernie Reinert - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Sally and Bernie Reinert - March 2, 2026

Dear Evelyn, Larry, Barry and all of Elmer's family. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Elmer was such a kind man and always had a smile on his face. He will be missed by so many. Please accept our sincere condolences.

Charlie Rumsey - March 2, 2026

Dear Evelyn and family, I am truly sorry to hear about the loss of Elmer. He was a wonderful neighbour. My condolences.

Leslie Raitt (Stewart) - March 2, 2026

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Elmer. I remember him and the family fondly from my years living in the area. My condolences to all.

Fenella Community Horizon Club - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Barbara and John Budd - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Barton and Nancy Nelson - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Coni and Ron Reid - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Joan Stover - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Ella Weatherup - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Liz Champion - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Rose McMurray - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Steve and Carrie Bailey - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Royce McCracken - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

June Drain - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Faye Baxter - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Donald and Lynda Gardner - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Lois Stephen - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Arnold and June Bowman - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Phyllis Richardson - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Sharon Martorino - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Don Sandercock - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Patricia Adams - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Marie Watkins - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

LeeAnn Jones (the barber) - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Jeff and Anita Taylor - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Londa Robinson and Family - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Dan and Pat Elliott - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Faye Brown - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Arthur and Linda Lansley - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Julie McKenzie - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Wilfred and Helen Sheppard - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Linda DeJong - March 2, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Pamela Spear - March 1, 2026

Many years ago Deb Archer and I had the privilege of playing dominoes as a church fund raiser. We were taught to not waste time and be alert. We had many laughs and great talks. Thank you for the time we spent with you. RIP Pamela Spear

Sidonie Wilson - February 28, 2026

It didn’t take long to find out how funny, caring and sweet the soft-spoken Elmer Weatherup was. I wish I had had a chance to know him much longer. A life well lived, Elmer. My condolences to all of his family. I know he will be greatly missed.

Lesley and Simon - February 28, 2026

Dear Evelyn, you and Elmer were our first visitors when we moved into the area recently. You and your family have made us so welcome and we are very grateful for your kindness. Our heartfelt condolences to you, Evelyn, and to Larry, Barry and all of the family. Rest In Peace Elmer.

Linda Stephen - February 28, 2026

My condolences Evelyn and family. You were both so kind taking Mom to euchre times. She looked so forward to the outings. May their games and friendship continue.

Kim Keeler Clarke - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Marlene Thompson - February 27, 2026

Evelyn and family sending condolences to in memory of Elmer.. Remember all your good times. Marlene Thompson, Doreen May and Hayden Ferguson.

Marlene Thompson - February 27, 2026

Evelyn and family sending condolences to in memory of Elmer.. Remember all your good times. Marlene Thompson, Doreen May and Hayden Ferguson.

Judith Bamsey - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Gwen Watkins - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Gaye and Gail Hoskin - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Audrey Molenaar - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Brenda and Phil Niles - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Linda Harvey - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Nigel and Brenda - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Leslie and James Woof - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Kathryn Patton - February 27, 2026

Dear Evelyn and family So sorry to read of Elmer's passing, always enjoyed our visits at the music shows and was great to reminisce of the past years. Thinking of you you at this difficult time and sending our sincere sympathy. Kathy and Earl Patton (Millbrook)

Jacquie Halligan - February 27, 2026

Evelyn, Larry, Barry and families. It was so sad to hear of Elmer’s passing. He was truly a gentleman, with a kind and caring soul. Always greeting you with a smile, laugh and heartfelt conversation you know he honestly, took interest in. He will be remembered as one of the great ones. Passing that legacy lovingly on to his family. Evelyn our thoughts are with you and your family. Ian & Jacquie Halligan

Patricia Adams & Don Sandercock - February 27, 2026

Dear Evelyn and Larry' so sorry to hear of Elmers passing ,He will Be missed by Many, Rest in Peace Elmer .We will donate to Ed's House.

Brenda Keller - February 27, 2026

A donation has been made to Ed’s House

Fay and Dorothy Reid - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Ronald Macklin - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Linda Bye - February 27, 2026

Dear Evelyn & Family: My heartfelt love & deepest sympathy…I’ll miss my hug & kiss on the cheek at the dances & dinners, and that fabulous smile!

Don and Louise Marchione - February 27, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Sean & Alana Smith - February 26, 2026

Our most sincere condolences to Evelyn and the family. We remember Elmer always having a smile, a chuckle and good story to tell whenever we saw him. He will be missed.

Wayne & Yvonne(Jones) Smith - February 26, 2026

We are so very very sorry to hear of the passing of Elmer , please accept our sincere condolences to the Family ,and our thoughts & prayers are with you all at this time 🙏

David Greydanus - February 26, 2026

Evelyn, Larry and Barry So sorry to hear of Elmers passing. He always seemed to have a smile on his face when I talked with him. Any time I drove by and he was outside he would always wave. Rest in peace Elmer

Barbara Clarkson - February 26, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Kathy Livingston. Nee Strphen - February 26, 2026

Just the other day I was thinking of Elmer and Evelyn and how they were so good to visit with Mom. I remember Elmer’s quick wit and quick genuine smile. My condolences for the family with the passing of a great generation of good people of which your Dad was a steward.

Audrey May - February 26, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Linda Stephen - February 26, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Joe and Gladys Bailey and family - February 25, 2026

Dear Evelyn, Larry, Barry and family, Joe and I send our sincerest condolences on Elmer’s passing. His was a life well lived, full of love for his family and care for his community. We have many fond memories of the Grills family. Our thoughts are with you.

John Johnston - February 25, 2026

Lots of memories of the Grills family, his father used to come over and visit my parents, really nice picture of him,

Bryan Marjoram - February 25, 2026

Dear Larry, Wesley, Courtney, and the entire Grills family, Thinking of you during this difficult time. Elmer lived life well. I hope the many fond memories of your father and grandfather will ease your period of mourning. Sincere condolences to your family. Elmer George Grills April 20, 1927 - February 19, 2026 "Rest in Peace"

Bruce, Jaine (Klassen) Jeninga and Shirley Jeninga - February 25, 2026

Sending our deepest sympathies to Evelyn, Larry, Barry and families. Elmer will be missed as a long-time member of the Centreton community.

John and Rose Dobie - February 25, 2026

So very sorry for your loss. Larry and Courtney, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, along with the rest of the Grills family...Clara, Kevin and Hayley!! Take care!!

Ann Day - February 25, 2026

Sorry for your loss Barry. Your dad was a great man and I am thinking of you and your family at this sad difficult time.

Brighton Auto - February 25, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Brighton Auto - February 25, 2026

We were so sorry to hear of Elmer's passing. Our thoughts are with all his family

Joe and Ruwa Tomlinson - February 25, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Joyce Millen - February 25, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Lucas & Alanna Toupin - February 24, 2026

Condolences to the family

Ella Weatherup - February 24, 2026

God Bless Brother your at peace, will Love and Miss you!!

Sandra Pearson - February 24, 2026

Keeping Elmer's family in my thoughts and Prayer's, God Bless, So sorry for the loss of such a wonderful man..you will be missed !!

Gary and Anne Parker - February 24, 2026

Condolences to the family in the loss of your loved one.

Angie Barry - February 24, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Geraldine Miedema - February 24, 2026

Evelyn, Larry and Barry and families - I am so sorry to hear of Elmer's passing. He was such a wonderful man, always ready with a smile and a kind word. He will be missed by so many as he touched so many lives. May your memories give you comfort and strength at this time. May these same memories make you smile with the remembrance of times together.

Wesley M Grills - February 24, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Courtney, Austin, Brynn, and Larry Grills - February 23, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Debbie & Shawn McBride - February 23, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Greg Linton - February 23, 2026

Larry and Barry, so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. I always had good memories of your family from the years spent in 4-H.

Jim and Jamie West - February 23, 2026

Evelyn, Larry and Barry and families our condolences on Elmer's passing . Always a pleasure to talk with,a true gentleman.

David and Brenda Begg - February 23, 2026

Evelyn, Larry and Barry So sorry to hear of Elmers passing. I have many fond memories of family gatherings at the farm when I was young. He was a good man.

Jean (Aird) Morrow - February 23, 2026

Evelyn and family, my condolences to you at this difficult time.

Hotze and Jane( Miedema) Dewal - February 23, 2026

Evelyn, Larry and Barry, our deepest condolences on the passing of Elmer. I have many childhoods memories of your family. Always a smile and a kind word.

Sandra Miedema - February 23, 2026

So sorry for your loss. Hugs

Fran Munro - February 23, 2026

Dear Evelyn and family, please accept condolences on behalf of the Burns family. We were neighbours for many, many years! I always enjoyed going by your farm, the well cared for lawn and garden, and the beautiful jersey cows! Elmer was a credit to his family and his community.

Teresa Smith - February 23, 2026

So sorry to hear of Elmer;s passing My thoughts and prayer are with you Teresa and family

Sheldon & Carrie MacInnis - February 23, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Sheldon & Carrie MacInnis - February 23, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Jim and Brenda Kloostra - February 23, 2026

Sincere condolences to the entire Grills family, will always remember his wave and smile, Jim and Brenda

Betty Lou Minaker - February 23, 2026

My sincere condolences to your family. May Elmer have the rest and peace he so richly deserves. Betty Lou

Steve Cole - February 23, 2026

Hi Larry and Barry Sorry for the loss of your Dad. He lived a long and good life Steve and Marlene Cole

Karen & Chris Hoskin - February 22, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Chris & Karen Hoskin - February 22, 2026

Evelyn, Larry & Barry and families, sending our deepest sympathy on the passing of Elmer. Ninety-nine years of love, hard work and devotion to farming and family is a beautiful legacy that will not be forgotten. Wishing you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Liz Champion - February 22, 2026

Evelyn, Larry, Barry and family I am so sorry to hear of Elmers passing. He was so kind and a great friend to everyone in the Centreton community.

Barbara Garrick - February 22, 2026

I would like to offer my sympathies to Elmer’s family. In particular Evelyn is in my thoughts after losing her wonderful partner of so many years.

Darlene McBride - February 22, 2026

I am very sorry regarding Elmer's passing. Elmer and you Evelyn, are and have been, a highly respected part of our community.

Ann budgell - February 22, 2026

I’m so very sorry Evelyn to hear about the passing of Elmer, my thoughts are with you and your family ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Ric & Marion McIvor - February 22, 2026

Dear Families of Elmer, so very sorry to hear of his passing , such a gentle man and always had a smile for everyone . Our sincere condolences to the Family . Marion & Ric McIvor

Scott Clouston - February 22, 2026

Sorry to hear of Elmer's passing. They don't make them like that anymore. Condolences to Evelyn, Larry and Barry.

Rick and Faye foster - February 22, 2026

So sorry to hear about Elmer. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Scott Clouston - February 22, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Allan Greer - February 21, 2026

Sorry to hear Elmer passing ,He was so well known in the farming community for so many years. He lived a good life, and got to see so many changes , during his farming life. He was a very kind ,and caring man. RIP Elmer .

Jackie Innis - February 21, 2026

My sincere sympathy to Evelyn and family

Kathy and John Pearson - February 21, 2026

Evelyn, Larry, Barry and families. John and I are sorry to hear of Elmer’s passing. We have many fond memories of time spent with him.

daniel baker - February 21, 2026

Dear Evelyn and all the Grills family so sorry to here of Elmers passing he was one of the good ones and a role model for a lot of us, make that all of us.

Jan Bangs - February 21, 2026

Dear Evelyn, Larry and Barry and family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. Always a very nice, genuine, and kind man to talk with. I will think of him fondly and with great respect when I drive along Grills Road and the surrounding area. Thinking of you all. With sincerest condolences.

Harry and Fran Giddings - February 21, 2026

Our condolences to Evelyn and family on the passing of Elmer

Joice Anne Parcels Schofield - February 21, 2026

Evelyn, Larry, Barry & Families I am so sorry for the loss of Elmer. Joice Anne (Parcels) Schofield

Dennis & Cindy Sherwin - February 21, 2026

Heartfelt condolences to all the family, cherish all the wonderful memories. RIP Elmer

rosemary broomfield - February 21, 2026

Evelyn Larry and Barry so sorry for your loss. Your Dad was a very good husband and father. He was a hard worker cared for everyone in the community over the years, he will be missed. Rest in peace Elmer.

Mark and Cindy Bickle - February 21, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Mark and Cindy Bickle - February 21, 2026

Evelyn, Larry, Barry and family Our sincere condolences on the passing of Elmer. May all the memories that you shared help you through this difficult time

Wayne and Marjory Mutton - February 21, 2026

Evelyn and family so sorry to hear of Elmers passing . Will never forget conversations and visits with you and Elmer at the dance hall or wherever. Condolences from Wayne and Marj

John &Phyllis Tinney - February 21, 2026

Our sincere condolences to the Grill Family On the passing of Elmer.

Elaine Hope - February 21, 2026

Dear Evelyn and family, please accept my sincere condolences in the passing of Elmer. A life well lived. May your happy memories give you comfort at this sad time. Sincerely, Elaine

Judy Marsden - February 21, 2026

Condolences from Scenery Drive Restaurant. Elmer was a sweet soul, and will be missed.

Larry and Sue Bowman - February 21, 2026

Evelyn, Larry, Barry and families, our sincere condolences on the loss of Elmer. He was always kind and always had a smile. Thinking of everyone at this difficult time.

Blaine and Lynda Darling - February 21, 2026

Evelyn, Larry, Barry and families, We were so sad to hear of Elmer’s passing. He was such a kind and gentle soul, always smiling and such a quick wit. The last time I saw him we had a good time reminiscing about the old days and his great friendship with my dad. May you all find comfort in the memories you have of this wonderful man.

Barbara and Tracy Budd - February 21, 2026

Dear Evelyn. We feel honored to have known your husband Elmer. He was such a gentleman; happy and kind to all who were lucky to meet him. We can only express our heartfelt sadness and condolences to you and your family for your loss. May he rest in peace. We cherish the memories. Barbara and Tracy

Gary Woods - February 21, 2026

Our sincere condolences to Evelyn and family. Always fun to play cards against Elmer and enjoyed his company at social gatherings. Will always have great memories of him and he was definitely a great and gentle person. Rest in Peace Gary & Judy

Audrey Molenaar - February 21, 2026

Dear Evelyn Larry Barry and families My deepest sympathy to you at this sad time Elmer was a wonderful man He always had time to have a big visit and always with a huge smile, RIP Elmer

Barbara and Tracy Budd - February 21, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Ward & Penny Beebe - February 21, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Mark & Angela - February 21, 2026

Our thoughts are with the Grills family. So many wonderful memories

Bonnie Timlin - February 21, 2026

So sorry to hear of Elmer’s passing, he was a true gentleman! Always enjoyed a visit with him & Evelyn,! Many years of great memories for his family! Take care!

Terry McBride - February 21, 2026

Evelyn,Larry,Barry and family.So sorry for the loss of Elmer.My Condolences.

Dorenda Turk - February 21, 2026

My sincere condolences to Evelyn and family on Elmers passing. Always enjoyed playing cards with him and Evelyn.

Jim and Nancy Maguire - February 21, 2026

We are so very sorry for the loss of a wonderful husband, father, and grandfather. We always enjoyed catching up with what was happening with the family and enjoying a few laughs. Our Prayers go out to the family at this sad time.

Vaidila family - February 21, 2026

Our hearts ache as we say goodbye to Elmer. How blessed we were to share precious time with Elmer and Evelyn last summer — gathered around their kitchen table, and later around ours — and celebrating their wedding anniversary together. Sitting in their kitchen enjoying a roast beef dinner, surrounded by family , warmth and easy laughter, is a memory we now hold especially close. There was something so special in those simple moments — the comfort of their home and the quiet love that filled the room. We did not realize at the time just how sacred and irreplaceable those hours would become. It is often the ordinary, beautiful scenes that stay with us the most. We will miss driving by in the summer and seeing Elmer contentedly cutting the grass on his riding lawn mower, taking pride in his yard. His gentle spirit, his sweet laugh, and that unforgettable smile brought light to everyone who knew him. Elmer will be deeply missed and forever remembered . We are holding Evelyn and the entire family close in our hearts, praying that the memories you shared bring comfort and peace in the days ahead. With our deepest sympathy, The Vaidila family

Kim Cline - February 20, 2026

Sorry to hear about your Dad's passing Barry. I'm sure you and your family have so many great memories of him. Keep them close to your heart.

Sandra Smith - February 20, 2026

I am so sorry to hear about Elmer. He was a wonderful neighbour to my parents Bob and Anne Fenton. Elmer always had a smile on his face. A very kind and good man! Fondly, Deborah, Sandra & Martha (Fenton)

Carol Buttar - February 20, 2026

Eric & Carol Buttar send their sincere condolences to the Grills family on Elmer's passing. Cherish your memories.

Carol Buttar - February 20, 2026

Eric & Carol Buttar send their sincere condolences to the Grills family on Elmer's passing. Cherish your memories.

Ruth Richardson - February 20, 2026

Dear Evelyn, I am truly sorry to hear of Elmer's passing. When I think of the Grills family, I think of that beautiful farm that once housed my paternal grandparents followed by the Grills family. I do hope you find some peace in the happy memories that you and Elmer built there. With kind and loving thoughts, Ruth.

John Stillwell - February 20, 2026

Evelyn and family please accept my condolences on the passing of Elmer. He always had a smile whenever we crossed paths and he will be missed. Rest in peace Elmer

From the Hobart Family - February 20, 2026

Deeply sorry for your loss of Elmer he was a true gentleman always and will be missed by all

Frances Varden - February 20, 2026

Evelyn and family; I am so sorry to hear that Elmer has passed away; he had a wonderful sense of humor and I enjoyed our conversations about old fashioned farming.

June Drain - February 20, 2026

Evelyn & Family - Thinking of you & sending sincere condolences - June Drain (Birney)

Crystal Walker & Keith Stevenson - February 20, 2026

Our deepest condolences to the Grills Family

Judy George ( Tackaberry) - February 20, 2026

Mrs. Grills and family..so sorry to hear of Mr. Grills passing.He was a gentlemans gentleman thats for sure always so kind and always a big smile..My mom and dad spoke very highly of him. R.I.P. Mr. Grills you will be missed..

Forrest Rowden - February 20, 2026

Sorry to hear of your loss my condolences go out to you and your family. I will miss his hugs. Bev

Rose & Larry Buttar - February 20, 2026

Evelyn and family. We are so sorry for your loss. We will always remember Elmer’s kind smile and always up for a chat. Rose & Larry Buttar

Jennifer Darrell - February 20, 2026

I am so sorry to learn of Elmer's passing - I thought he would live forever esp when I heard that he had survived not one, but two, ligthening strikes as a much younger man. 99 years is no small feat esp since I know he lived a hard life. He also lived life as a good man so that probably explains his longevity. My deepest sympathies Evelyn - you made the perfect couple and I can only imagine how painful it must be for you to be without your soul mate and constant companion.

Clara manning - February 20, 2026

We had some good times. You will be missed . I have many fond memories .

Faye Baxter - February 20, 2026

Dear Evelyn and Family.So sorry to hear of Elmers passing.l will miss the card games we had.Cherish the memories.

Sue Tryon - February 20, 2026

Evelyn and family sorry to hear of Elmer's passing. My condolences.

Rob and Kathy Ugolini - February 20, 2026

Evelyn, Larry, Barry, and families. We are so sorry to hear of Elmers passing. Elmer always had a smile to share with anyone who passed by him. What a blessing you were able to cherish Elmer for many, many years. Your memories will always bring you joy. Treasure them daily. Our deepest condolences. Rob and Kathy

Mike Gabel - February 20, 2026

Thoughts and prayers with Elmer today.

Sharon Martorino. - February 20, 2026

Evelyn & family. I was so sorry to hear about Elmer passing away. Please accept my deepest condolences at this difficult time.

Rocky and jazz Lamanna brother in law of wesley - February 20, 2026

Sorry for your loss Grill's family.

Art & Deb Jeninga - February 20, 2026

Condolences Evelyn Larry and Barry Our community has lost a beloved neighbour

Sheldon & Carrie MacInnis - February 20, 2026

Our deepest condolences to all the family for your loss. May you cherish all your wonderful memories.

Dennis and Joanne Ivatt - February 20, 2026

To Evelyn and family our condolences.

Cindy Trew - February 20, 2026

My sincerest condolences to you Evelyn, Larry and Barry. I will always remember Elmer as a very kind and gentle man.

Susan Harris - February 20, 2026

DearEvelyn....so very sorry to hear of Elmers passing...my sincere condolences

Donald W. Robins - February 20, 2026

Evelyn and all family. my condolences to you at the loss of Elmer. Elmer will be missed by all, always a pleasant smile, quick wit and firm in his resolve. Elmer with you carried on the hardworking life of his and your parents.

Jay Sherwin - February 20, 2026

Evelyn, Larry and Barry. I was saddened to learn of Elmer’s passing. I thought of him often and you too Evelyn, as I passed by the farm. You as a couple set a wonderful example of living actively well into your 90s. Please accept my sympathies.

Heather McDonald - February 20, 2026

Evelyn and family..my heartfelt sympathy to all of you in the loss of Elmer . A pillar of the community , a great neighbour and a proud family man . Thinking of all of you ❤️

Michelina Micky Lamanna - February 20, 2026

My condolence to all the families sons daughters, grandkids and wife. May he rest in peace and may God be with you all.🙏🙏🙏❤️

JEFF C TAYLOR - February 20, 2026

Evelyn, Larry & Barry. Our deepest heart felt condolences from the both of us, and Mom. I remember the story my Dad told me. Dad saw this person walking across the field ( which was a long way in the snow )and came into the barn and introduced himself. My name is Elmer Grills and I live on a dairy farm down the road and I was wondering if Dad was hiring. Elmer worked for Dad. They became great friends, and still remain. We loved the time I got to spend with Elmer and Evelyn last fall. He will be missed but never forgotten. Love Jeff & Anita Taylor.

Tony Van leeuwen - February 20, 2026

To the Grills family,sorry for your loss, I'm sure you'll treasure the memories, take care.

John Grozelle and Heather Atkins - February 20, 2026

Words can not express the loss of Elmer.. I always looked forward to seeing him at the Friday night meals and have fond memories of playing euchre over the years. Thank you Evelyn for calling us yesterday to let us know. He will be missed

Francis and Lynn Prentice - February 20, 2026

Sending sincere condolences to the Gill family. Our thought and prayers are with you at this difficult time

Sharon Weese - February 20, 2026

So sad to hear of Elmer's passing. I'm sure going to miss him when they came to the Grafton Legion for supper. Going to miss that great smile and the kiss on the cheek. RIP my dear friend.

Eva Cartwright - February 20, 2026

Barry & Family Sorry for your loss. Cherish the memories when your almost 99 there’s wonderful memories Condolences Eva

Nancy Hompus - February 20, 2026 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Centreton Union Cemetery

Nancy Hompus - February 20, 2026

Evelyn, I am so sorry you have lost Elmer. I have so many memories of the two of you as our McBride family’s neighbours and your dedication to the community. Take good care.

John and Tammy Elliott - February 20, 2026

We are so sorry to hear about Elmer. So many great memories of him playing cards at Fenella hall. Please know we are thinking about you all during this sad and difficult time.

Bill Graham & Colleen Moore - February 20, 2026

Our deepest condolences, Evelyn, Larry, Barry and Families, on the passing of Elmer. We always enjoyed our chats when our paths crossed and Elmer always had a smile for everyone he met. Take Care.

Barb & Wayne Linton - February 20, 2026

Evelyn, Larry, Barry & families: So sorry to hear Elmer has passed away. He will be remembered by all who knew him. He lived a long & full life doing what he loved most. Our thoughts are with all of you at this sad time.

NANCY GAUTHIER - February 20, 2026

Sincere condolences to Evelyn and family. I will remember him as a true gentleman with a big smile and a great euchre player.

Cash/Paul Eddy - February 20, 2026

We have know Elmer for a great many years He was always the same and made you feel welcome and at home. he enjoyed his card games and music he will be missed by all ..

Helen Ann Parker - February 20, 2026

Evelyn, I am so sorry to hear of Elmer's passing. He was a great person and I so enjoyed the cards games we played. He is now at peace and his suffering is over. Deepest sympathy. Stay strong.. Will see you soon. Hugs. RIP Elmer.

Jackie Russell-Spooner - February 20, 2026

Dear Ella I am sincerely sorry to hear of your brother passing. Jackie and Jackie Russell

Mary Wright - February 20, 2026

Condolences to the family of Elmer always the Gentleman..Mary and Bev

Bill & Pat Bekkers - February 20, 2026

Evelyn & family So sorry to hear of Ellmers passing he was a great guy at the dances in Port Hope our thoughts are with you at this time Bill & Pat