Brenda Lee Graham

Margo Kevin and Families So sorry to hear about your sister Brenda, she was such a lovely lady. Please accept our condolences during this difficult time. Thinking of you all with love. Sandra and Rick

Sorry for your loss. May your memories, family and friends help during the difficult days ahead.

My condolences Cathy, Jane and Louis, Margo and family on your loss.

Brenda has been the most wonderful neighbour for over 20 years. She was always kind. Always ready with a smile and a big hello. I'll never forget her, when my son was small, he'd grab his bubble mower and wait by the fence for Brenda. She'd get her lawnmower and they'd mow "together". Over the years we've grown to love her dearly and will miss her so much

Ed, Cathy, Jane, Margo, Krista, Steven and extended families. We were all deeply saddened to learn of Brenda's passing. Brenda and I kept in touch over the years and shared news about our families. We always enjoyed visiting with Brenda on our trips back to Baltimore/Cobourg and her visits with us in B.C. A caring and loving person and a great cousin we will miss her smiles and laughter. We are sorry we will not be able to attend the Celebration of Life for Brenda, but our thoughts and prayers will be with all of you. Rest in peace Brenda.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

To the families: Brenda will be missed by all who knew her. She had such a great laugh (more of a giggle) and infectious smile always. Thinking of all of you at this sad and difficult time. RIP

I knew Brenda from working at Darcy Place.She was a sweet pleasant lady.Always a chuckle an a smile when we met.My heartfelt condolences going out to her family & friends.Share your memories. She will always live on in your heart ♥ RIP

Brenda was one of a kind. She was not just our neighbour for the last 21 years but our treasured friend. She was so kind and compassionate helping others and taking them to their doctor appointments even after her own diagnosis. We shared lots of stories and had the best time in the summer sitting in her carport having a glass of wine and sharing laughs. We called it "Carport Wine" When Susan was hospitalized she made sure to bring over home made meals to Tom. To Susan she was the best friend she had ever had. Always sharing recipes of the wonderful meals she would prepare. We cannot look across the street and believe she is gone. She is missed deeply. Our most sincere condolences to Krista and Stephen and their families.

I am so sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. My thoughts are with her family at this time.

I am deeply saddened to hear of Brenda’s passing. As a dear friend to my grandmother, Carol, I had the privilege of knowing Brenda for most of my life. She was truly a bright light, always smiling, kind, and full of warmth, with a laugh that stayed with you. She will be fondly remembered and deeply missed. Sending my heartfelt condolences to her family during this difficult time.

Our deepest sympathy for your loss

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Ed and family, sending our deepest condolences. We were stunned to learn of Brenda's sudden passing. Her friendly smile, laughter and warmth will be definately missed around our boat group. Keeping you in our thoughts. Sherie & Barry

Jane, Louis and family Very saddened to hear of your sister Brenda's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Roger & Barbara Jean Fournier & Families

My sincerest sympathy to Brenda’s family. I had the privilege of working with Brenda many years ago at Darcy Place and I so loved working with her. She had a smile that would light up a room and laugh that was so contagious that you just had to laugh with her. Although I haven’t seen Brenda in several years I always treasured the time that we spent together. She had such a zest for life and touched so many lives ❤️

Cathy, Krista and all of Brenda's family. I am sorry to hear of Brenda's sudden passing. I will always remember her beautiful big smile and wonderful laugh. Please know that I am thinking of you all during this difficult time. Sending my sincere condolences. Lynne Sherwin

Brenda was definitely one in a million. Her laughter was infectious, her stories of her travels were that of a great adventurer and always loved a good joke. She will be missed greatly. Condolences to the whole family.

Ed, Krista, Stephen and your families, we are so sad and shocked to hear of Aunt Brenda’s passing. We will remember her for her adventurous and kind spirit. In particular we hold close the great memories we have of her at our wedding cruise 20 years ago. It still brings us a smile and a giggle. For her family, extended family and friends, may your memories help to comfort you. We cannot be there in person as you celebrate her life, so we will do so at our end privately on Friday. We will miss her dearly ❤️

To Brenda’s family, her husband Ed, her children, grandchildren, siblings, and many family members, I am so deeply saddened and heartbroken to hear of her passing. Brenda was such an endearing and wonderful friend with such a beautiful heart that embraced so many. Her love of family, friends, travel, stories told and shared, she truly enjoyed life, meeting new friends, near, far and wide. Always a helping hand, evidenced in her devotion to her Legion and community, always a kind word and a joy to be with. Her laughter and “joi de vive”, will always reverberate in my memory of her forever. Please accept my sincerest and deepest condolences. Brenda,,, may you lay in gentle peace and rest in God’s loving embrace. You will be sadly and deeply missed. Lovingly remembered my dear friend. 💔🙏 Marion Chalut

My condolences to all of Brenda's family.

Cathy, Jane and Margo I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister Brenda. Thinking of you and your family.

What a sudden loss of a classy lady who was always smiling and when you suddenly met her, she conveyed a friendly and special interest in how you were doing and she was always glad to see you. The last time we saw her was when she and Arlene had non similar appointments at Cobourg hospital on January 23rd and she both looked and said that she felt well. Our heartfelt condolences to family members and her sisters Cathy, Jane and Margo on the passing of Brenda. She will be sorely missed.

Sorry for your loss

We worked with Brenda for many years at D’Arcy Place Developmental Centre. Brenda was always a pleasure to be around. Quick to smile and Quick to share a laugh. She will be missed by those she shared her life with and will be remembered fondly. She was a coworker but mostly she was a friend. Paul & Melanie

My condolences to Brenda’s family. We worked together at Darcy Place.Such a sweet and caring lady.

The family of Brenda; We are deeply saddened by your loss xoxoxo Brenda was a very loving woman, who accepted people for who they were and loved many. For those that don't know us; we are a part of her extended family - niece of Eds'. She will be sadly missed, but never forgotten. RIP, no pain, just lots of love waiting for you ~ until we meet again xoxoxo

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

None of you in Brenda's family will know me. My mother was a Little and for many years Brenda would accompany my cousin Janet to the Little family picnic in Little Britain. Janet Urch and I are first cousin's and I had the pleasure of having in my home mid October along with Janet and another cousin Bev, and I took the girls to Oktoberfest. I have only very fond memories of Brenda through travel and her presence in Janet's life. She was a wonderful, friendly lady who spoke highly of all of you. Please accept my sincere condolences. I probably cannot attend the Celebration of Life because I fell and broke a vertebrae in my back mid January. I do hope when the weather improves I can come and see or visit with some of you. Sincerely Margaret Fannon

I was so sad to hear of Brenda’s passing. She will forever be my Aunt Brenda and I will always cherish my many, many happy memories of her…specifically our pub crawl in Key West 20 years ago! Whenever we reminisced about that time we still laughed hysterically. It will continue to be one of my most favourite memories of her. Rest well Brenda, you will be missed forever. My sincerest condolences Ed, Krista, Stephen and all of Brenda’s extended family.

To the Penold, Calvert and Williams Families. I am so very sad to hear of Brenda's passing. She has been a part of my life for so long that I can hardly think of her being gone. Ed, Krista, John, Stephen and Stephanie, my heart goes out to you with this terrible loss. Please know that you are all in my thoughts. I will miss her smile and infectious giggle, and her memory will always be treasured.

To the Penfold family, I am so truly sorry to learn of Brenda’s passing, she was a beautiful person, my thoughts are with you all at this difficult time 💕

To the Penfold family, I am so truly sorry to learn of Brenda’s passing, she was a beautiful person, my thoughts are with you all at this difficult time 💕

Krista and John, so sorry to read of your mum's passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Cherish your memories, which I am sure you have many.

We were so sorry to hear of Brenda’s sudden passing. It seems like only yesterday that we were emailing back and forth, talking about travel, recipes and everyone’s accomplishments , fun times and sometimes trials and tribulations! She was a loving, caring friend and cousin! To Christa and Stephen and all the family we send our deepest sympathies. We will be thinking of you all and of Brenda as you celebrate her life and wish we could be there with you! Rest in peace, Brenda.

I happened to see Brenda about 15-20 years ago and started to talk and we realized that she worked with my mom at the Ontario Psych Hospital in Cobourg years ago. After that initial meeting a friendship and mutual respect grew. I found Brenda to be a soft spoken, beautiful soul who would help those in need. But she could also speak her mind and not be walked all over. My last encounter with Brenda happened to be at Cobourg Hospial 20 January for mutual reasons. She was upbeat, looked great, and said she felt good. So I'm shocked to hear of her passing and unfortunately for medical reasons cannot attend her service. Please cherish your memories!

Graham family so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with your Mom when she worked for Donna. She was always a delight to work with. Blessings to everyone.

Steve and family. So sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. Thinking of you all

Sending our deepest condolences to Krista and Stephen and all of Brenda’s friends and extended family. Your mom was always ready for anything, with a big smile and lots of enthusiasm.