Royal Canadian Legion Branch 580 Grafton
10240 Hwy. 2, Cobourg, ON,
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CALDER, Margaret (nee Sharp) - Peacefully, on Saturday, December 27th, 2025 surrounded by her loving family at Northumberland Hills Hospital at the age of 87. Beloved wife of the late Alex (Ronnie) and cherished mother of Alex (Jackie), Jean, Ken, Wilma (Ron), Heather (John) and Darlene. Beloved grandmother to Lesley, Craig, Terri (Scott), Heather, Emma, Makayla (Steven), Mariah (Tyler), Ethan, Cameron, Robert (Shauney), Trish (Riley) and great grandmother to nine. Loving sister to the late Wilma (Sam) and Jean (Howard). Margaret will be missed by many extended family and friends in both Canada and Scotland. Margaret was the face of Calder’s Meats in Grafton for 21 years before retiring and keeping in touch with lifelong customers turned friends. She will be dearly missed by all.
A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, January 24th at the Grafton Legion from 1:00pm to 4:00pm.
Sending deepest condolences to the family. My girls and I have many fond memories of Mrs Calder. She always greeted us with warmth and smiles and had a little treat for the kids every time we came to the store. At Halloween and Christmas she always had a special treat for the girls. Keep all your fond memories close❤️
Condolences to all of the Calder Family, Your mother will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marg was an amazing lady. So kind with that wonderful welcoming smile on her face. She always made you feel special every time she seen you. She will definitely be missed. Condolences to all Marg's family. The Gill family
Our deepest condolences Makayla and the Calder family. We had the privilege of meeting her a few months ago and she was the sweetest lady. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sending sincere condolences to the Calder Family. Mrs Calder will greatly missed by all those who knew and loved her.
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Although it has been many years since we last saw Mrs. Calder, I wanted you to know how fondly she is remembered by my husband, my children, and me. She was always so kind and welcoming, and we all thought she was the sweetest, nicest person. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Dear Calder family, please accept my heartfelt condolences. I have many warm memories of shopping at Calders. Marg always had a warm greeting, and remembered our meat preferences. She also remembered our kids names and usually asked about each of them. It was a real treat to go to Calders! I remember how Marg looked forward to the Norwood fair! What a wonderful butcher shop, and Marg was the heart of it! Sorry to say we will be out of the country on the 24th, so we will miss the celebration, but we will think of all of you!
So sorry for your loss, your Mom was a beautiful lady . Sending our condolences to the family.
Dear Heather, Wilma, Jean, Ken, Terri, Alex and the rest of the family: I’m so sorry for your loss. Please receive my deepest condolences. I pray for your peace during these days of mourning. Your mom was such a special lady. She was always so kind and paid special attention to the people she talked to, caring about the details in their lives. Who didn’t love Mrs Calder?! I am very grateful for the privilege of being welcomed into your family and the precious moments that we shared over a cup of tea. Love you all. I’ll miss your mum. May God bless you. - Love, Chris
Our deepest condolences to all of you. Your mom had a special gift by remembering everyone's name and making everyone feel special. Sending our prayers.
Condolences from the Comrades of Branch 580 Grafton
My deepest condolences to Wilma and Heather and all the Calder family
Sorry for your loss sending prays
Dear Wilma and Heather My thoughts and prayers are with you both during this difficult time.
So sorry to hear of Margaret's passing Condolences to all the Calder family She was a very special lady to all I'm going to miss her phone calls.Rest in peace lovely lady God Bless
My deepest sympathy to the Calder family. Your mum was a lovely person to talk to when I shopped at the shop.
My Dear Calder Family. When I think of Mrs. Calder, I will always think of her beautiful smile and the way she greeted people with such warmth and sincerity. Going to Calders to pick up Fred’s favourite meats and those little homemade pizzas was one of our favourite things to do. Mrs. Calder’s home was always open to friends and ready with a refreshment and those delicious toffee squares and time to catch up on the family news. I always looked forward to her Christmas cards. She truly is a blessing to her family and friends. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Sending you hugs filled with love. Chris
Heather and the Calder families Please know my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Margaret was a wonderful lovely lady that will be missed by many. Hugs
My Dear Calder Family. When I think of Mrs. Calder, I will always think of her beautiful smile and the way she greeted people with such warmth and sincerity. Going to Calders to pick up Fred’s favourite meats and those little homemade pizzas was one of our favourite things to do. Mrs. Calder’s home was always open to friends and ready with a refreshment and those delicious toffee squares and time to catch up on the family news. I always looked forward to her Christmas cards. She truly is a blessing to her family and friends. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Sending you hugs filled with love. Chris
I am so sorry to hear of Margaret's passing. She was such a lovely kind lady who will be missed. Liz Champion( McBride)
I'm sending my sincere condolences to the entire Calder family Mrs. Calder was always such a kind, sweet woman. Hold your memories close, she will be missed.💐 Jeanie Haig
Sorry to hear of your family's loss. Your family is remembered with warmth
Our sincere condolences on your Mom’s passing. Hold the memories close.we are thinking of you all at this difficult time
My condolences to the family Many fond memories of Mrs Calder when I was growing up in Grafton My heart goes out to you all
Jean and family So sorry Your Mom was a special person RIP
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Your mom was a kind wonderful lady and will be miss by all.
Wilma and Heather...I'm so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She was a sweet lady. Praying God's comfort will surround all of you at this time.
I'm sorry for your loss she was a wonderful person
Wilma and Heather...I'm so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She was a sweet lady. Praying God's comfort will surround all of you at this time.
My deepest condolences to the Calder family, she was a special lady. Wishing you all peace, comfort, and strength as you remember and honor a life so dearly loved.
Rest peacefully in paradise dear Mrs. Calder
So sorry to hear of Margaret's passing. I still make her caramel squares at Christmas. She will be missed by many. My condolences to all the family members and friends.
Sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom. She was a very kind person.
Sorry to hear this my condolences go out to the Calder family. I know she will be missed
Sending sincere sympathy to all the family. The lady who once told me she didn't think she could go and work in the shop became the welcoming face to all the community. Hold on to your wonderful memories.
Sending our condolences and keeping the Calder family in our thoughts
My heartfelt condolences going out to the Calder Family,Your Mom was a beautiful lady,Always had a smile on her face,May she rest in peace
My deepest sympathy to all the Calder family. A great and wonderful lady. We'll miss you, Mrs. C.
My. Sincere sympathy to the Calder family. will miss talking to her on the telephone
Sending our deepest condolences to you and your family. Your Mother/grandmother was one of the sweetest women we knew. May she rest in peace .
My condolences to you Heather and Wilma. Your mom was such a wonderful person. She will be missed.
My deepest condolences on your loss. May your many years of memories give you comfort. Such a kind. Loving lady.