Royal Canadian Legion Branch 580 Grafton
10240 Hwy. 2, Cobourg, ON,
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CALDER, Margaret (nee Sharp) - Peacefully, on Saturday, December 27th, 2025 surrounded by her loving family at Northumberland Hills Hospital at the age of 87. Beloved wife of the late Alex (Ronnie) and cherished mother of Alex (Jackie), Jean, Ken, Wilma (Ron), Heather (John) and Darlene. Beloved grandmother to Lesley, Craig, Terri (Scott), Heather, Emma, Makayla (Steven), Mariah (Tyler), Ethan, Cameron, Robert (Shauney), Trish (Riley) and great grandmother to nine. Loving sister to the late Wilma (Sam) and Jean (Howard). Margaret will be missed by many extended family and friends in both Canada and Scotland. Margaret was the face of Calder’s Meats in Grafton for 21 years before retiring and keeping in touch with lifelong customers turned friends. She will be dearly missed by all.
A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, January 24th at the Grafton Legion from 1:00pm to 4:00pm.
To Ken So sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom!!! Take care of yourself!!! Steve
My heart goes out to you during this incredibly difficult time. Wishing you strength as you navigate the days and weeks ahead—you’re in my thoughts. Please accept my deepest condolences to you and your family.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
SickKids Foundation
Our sincere condolences to all the family. Mrs Calder was always so pleasant when we shopped. She used to give my little boy, at the time, a wee piece of bologna for a treat. He loved it.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Fare Share Food Bank
Grafton would not have been the same without a trip to the meat store. Your mom knew every one by name as well as their children. Her smile will always be associated with her name. Her family were raised with in a loving close way. So many stories her children and grandkids must have so many memories To treasure. We are very glad to have known her. May you all find comfort in knowing what a wonderful mom you had.
My deepest condolences to you all. Your Mom was always so sweet and kind, always with a smile. My thoughts are with you.
Sending our condolences to the Calder family at this difficult time. Joe Ferguson and Cindy Greer
We are so sorry for your loss. She was an amazing lady and we will remember her with very fond memories.
So sorry to hear of the passing of your mom.. I can remember playing hockey with Ken being coached but Alex...she was a lovely lady ...thoughts and prayers for the family at this sad time ❤️
I am very sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Calder. I remember her well from my days of growing up in Grafton as a very kind and lovely lady. My sincere condolences to all of the Calder family.
Heather and family; So very sorry for your loss of your mom, with deepest heartfelt sympathy.
Truly a kind soul to everyone. A friendly face of Grafton through generations and always asked how the person not accompanying me was. Thank you Margaret.
Our sincere condolences to the Calder family on the passing of Margaret Calder. She was truly a gem. We have such sweet memories of her in the store and still remember her after all these years. Rostetter-Saunders family
Dear Calder family. so sorry to read about your Mother's passing. She was such a lovely person, always so kind. My sincere condolences.
We were sad to hear of the passing of your wonderful mother. We have know your family for so many years and appreciated your friendship. May you all be comforted by the conutinuation of the relatuonships in Grafton , started so long ago. Love to you all at this sad time.
Margaret Rest in peace. You will have wings of an angel looking over us all. ❤️
To the Calder Family, Bill and I send our deepest condolences to all of you.Cherish all your beautiful memories. May your Mom rest in Peace. Bill & Sue Shannon
So sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to each one of you.
Dear Calder Family, Our sincere condolences on the loss of your mom/grandmother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time 🌹
Mrs. Calder was an amazing woman. Always the friendly smile at the store or on the soccer field cheering the grandchildren on. So sorry for you loss truly a wonderful woman.
Margaret is well remembered, too, by members of my family in Edinburgh who met on their visit to Grafton.
We share the sadness of Margaret's passing. She was a lovely neighbour for many years, with a lovely family. Her greetings cards were a joy to receive these many years, a mark of her concern for others.
Jeannie. I was so sorry to read about your mum . Deepest sympathy to you all. May you have many happier monent to look back on and enjoy . HUGS to you all.
Jeannie. I was so sorry to read about your mum . Deepest sympathy to you all. May you have many happier monent to look back on and enjoy . HUGS to you all.
My Condolences to the Calder family. Mrs Calder was a very nice lady.
Heather, John and family, I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I've been thinking of you and the times we shared many years ago. Take care, Isobel
Sorry for your loss Alex and Jackie
Alex and family so sorry to hear about your mother’s passing. Thoughts and prayers.
Dear Calder family, I am so sorry to hear of Mrs Calder's passing. She was such a sweet and kind lady with always a greeting and a kind word for everyone. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Rita
Alex Leslie and family We are sorry to hear your mom has passed.You are in our thoughts at this difficult time.
Dear Family I was sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. May your happy times sustain you during this difficult time. A donation has been made to the Shriners Hospital for Children Canada, Montreal. Sue and Joe La Berge.
I am sorry to hear of your moms passing. Margaret was such a lovely warm person. She was known to all in the Grafton area and very much loved. Kind and funny always over the years that I knew her. My deepest sympathy to all her family. You have many memories to help you I am sure Mary and Robert Martorino
Condolences to the Calder family. Growing up in Grafton we took the bus together, played hockey (Alex coached our Woman's team), as well as events at the arena and of course the butcher shop. Your Mom was a kind lady with a beautiful smile. May good memories help bring you comfort. Sharon Lynn and Carol Lynn
Sincerest condolences to the Calder family. I remember always being met with a warm smile from Mrs. Calder when I walked through the front door of Calder Meats.
Our deepest condolences go out to the entire Calder family upon your mother/grandmother passing. No matter what age a person passes there is always shock and sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Such a sweet lady. Always so sincerely happy to meet you ..we know the family will miss her.
A shy, welcoming smile, twinkling eyes, caring soul, fierce love of family and friends, a work ethic that inspired, she was all this, and more. God hold you close, and may you feel His love and strength surround you, comfort you, guide you.
Alex, Jean, and families please accept my condolences on your loss of your beloved mother. Remember your special days together and at the ball fields or rinks. Cherish all your memories! ❤️.
My condolences to the Calder family, Mrs. Calder was a very special lady. I will always remember her smile. I do remember coming into the store one day and she exclaimed ,oh Dave you know a good cut of meat and I have one that’s a little brown, we both knew it was just aged ,one of the best steaks I ever had may she now rest peacefully after a hard earned rest
So sorry to hear of Marg's death, She was such a nice woman Teresa Smith and Family
Our condolences to the Calder family at this difficult time.
We still miss the butcher shop here in Grafton. My condolences to Margaret's family, it was the best butcher shop in Northumberland for years.
We still miss the butcher shop here in Grafton. My condolences to Margaret's family, it was the best butcher in Northumberland for years.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
NHH - Lions & Lioness Cancer & Supportive Care Clinic
Our condolences to the Calder family on Margaret's passing. A genuine, wonderful lady who always had a smile on her face. She will be missed. Thinking of you all.
Alex and family my deepest condolences
I'm so sorry to hear that Mrs. Calder has passed. She was such a special person. My condolences to the family at this difficult time.
Very sorry to hear of Mrs. Calder passing. It was always a pleasure to chat with her. My thoughts are with the family. Karen Marshall
To All The Calder Family. Our thoughts are with you all at this time. Margaret was a very nice Lady and we have many memories of our visits to the Calder Meat Store.
To the entire Calder family, my sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Mother. She was such a wonderful person; I don't ever recall a time when I saw her without a smile on her face. So many memories as a child going into the shop in both locations to get some meat, especially the Sunday roast with a wee bit of fat, as she always said when wrapping it up for Mom. Thoughts are with you all.
We have the fondest memories of Grandma Calder. Her candy dish, her lovely smile and contagious giggle. When we moved away, she was the most faithful letter writer and we delighted to receive her hand written notes in our mail box full of news about her family. We are thinking of all of you and praying that your memories which must be even more lovely than ours, will sustain you at this time. God bless you all. Connie and Isaac
sincere condolences to the Calder family
To the Calder family, I offer my sincere condolences on the passing of Mrs. Calder. Our family knew yours from the days of Calder's Meats in Grafton and later at the original Fisher's in Cobourg. And my mother knew a lot of the family members from her days at Grafton Public School. More recently. The Cobourg Legion Pipe Bamd would pause in front of Mrs. Calder's house in Grafton to serenade her during our parades. We will all miss her.
Dear Calder family, We are very sorry for your loss. Mrs. Calder was a lovely person with a warm smile and made going to the Calder's meat store a special time. She will be remembered fondly. Many will continue to walk or drive through Grafton and feel Mr. and Mrs. Calder's warm presence. Thinking of you all. Our deepest condolences. Bangs Family
My Sincere Sympathy to all the Calder Family. I am certain I have never known anyone sweeter than your Mother. I don’t recall ever seeing her without her Beautiful smile and friendly greeting. She was ‘one of a kind’ and she certainly shone as the official greeter at the store. As a Family you have lost your loving Mother. As a community we have to say Good Bye to one who won the hearts of all who walked into the Store. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Mrs. Calder, what a beautiful person! My condolences to all the Calder family. May she rest in peace.
To all the Calder Family: Ah, Mrs. Calder! Such a kind lady with a beautiful soul and wonderful smile. She was the official greeter for years at Calder's Meat Market. Everyone looked forward to her welcoming smile and then went on to order the best meat in the country. As a Mom, Grandmother & Great Grandmother she was so proud of each member of her family. She will be greatly missed by the community. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Alex, Jackie & all the Calder family, I never had the honor of meeting Mrs. Calder but from what i hear she was a lovely lady. My sincere condolences . Hugs Alex from Auntie Marlene.
Gosh, I was really young when Calder’s was on the corner.. I want to say somewhere between 3 & 6 years old. However, I can still remember the smiles that welcomed me every time mom and dad would send me in. This is such sad news. She was a wonderful person. Thinking of everyone during this incredibly difficult time. Monique (Bernadette and Gerry Gatien)
To the entire Calder family, so very sorry to hear of your tremendous loss, such a wonderful lady! You’re in our thoughts and prayers 💕
Sending my condolences to the entire Calder family. Sorry for your loss.
My sympathies to the Calder family. Grafton lost a pillar of the community when Calder's Meats closed. A sweet woman who remembered all her customers by name no matter how infrequent one might visit the store. Loved her accent.
We are very sorry to hear of your mom’s passing, sending our deepest condolences to the family. We have fond memories of your mom, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
What a lovely person Margaret was. Her easy manor and friendly ways everyone took to her. Janice and I knew her from the early 80’s and became firm friends. Sleep well Margaret you will be sadly missed💜
Wilma, Heather & Families, Sincere condolences to you during your time of sorrow.
Sending deepest condolences to the family. My girls and I have many fond memories of Mrs Calder. She always greeted us with warmth and smiles and had a little treat for the kids every time we came to the store. At Halloween and Christmas she always had a special treat for the girls. Keep all your fond memories close❤️
Condolences to all of the Calder Family, Your mother will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marg was an amazing lady. So kind with that wonderful welcoming smile on her face. She always made you feel special every time she seen you. She will definitely be missed. Condolences to all Marg's family. The Gill family
Our deepest condolences Makayla and the Calder family. We had the privilege of meeting her a few months ago and she was the sweetest lady. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sending sincere condolences to the Calder Family. Mrs Calder will greatly missed by all those who knew and loved her.
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Although it has been many years since we last saw Mrs. Calder, I wanted you to know how fondly she is remembered by my husband, my children, and me. She was always so kind and welcoming, and we all thought she was the sweetest, nicest person. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Dear Calder family, please accept my heartfelt condolences. I have many warm memories of shopping at Calders. Marg always had a warm greeting, and remembered our meat preferences. She also remembered our kids names and usually asked about each of them. It was a real treat to go to Calders! I remember how Marg looked forward to the Norwood fair! What a wonderful butcher shop, and Marg was the heart of it! Sorry to say we will be out of the country on the 24th, so we will miss the celebration, but we will think of all of you!
So sorry for your loss, your Mom was a beautiful lady . Sending our condolences to the family.
Dear Heather, Wilma, Jean, Ken, Terri, Alex and the rest of the family: I’m so sorry for your loss. Please receive my deepest condolences. I pray for your peace during these days of mourning. Your mom was such a special lady. She was always so kind and paid special attention to the people she talked to, caring about the details in their lives. Who didn’t love Mrs Calder?! I am very grateful for the privilege of being welcomed into your family and the precious moments that we shared over a cup of tea. Love you all. I’ll miss your mum. May God bless you. - Love, Chris
Our deepest condolences to all of you. Your mom had a special gift by remembering everyone's name and making everyone feel special. Sending our prayers.
Condolences from the Comrades of Branch 580 Grafton
My deepest condolences to Wilma and Heather and all the Calder family
Sorry for your loss sending prays
Dear Wilma and Heather My thoughts and prayers are with you both during this difficult time.
So sorry to hear of Margaret's passing Condolences to all the Calder family She was a very special lady to all I'm going to miss her phone calls.Rest in peace lovely lady God Bless
My deepest sympathy to the Calder family. Your mum was a lovely person to talk to when I shopped at the shop.
My Dear Calder Family. When I think of Mrs. Calder, I will always think of her beautiful smile and the way she greeted people with such warmth and sincerity. Going to Calders to pick up Fred’s favourite meats and those little homemade pizzas was one of our favourite things to do. Mrs. Calder’s home was always open to friends and ready with a refreshment and those delicious toffee squares and time to catch up on the family news. I always looked forward to her Christmas cards. She truly is a blessing to her family and friends. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Sending you hugs filled with love. Chris
Heather and the Calder families Please know my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Margaret was a wonderful lovely lady that will be missed by many. Hugs
My Dear Calder Family. When I think of Mrs. Calder, I will always think of her beautiful smile and the way she greeted people with such warmth and sincerity. Going to Calders to pick up Fred’s favourite meats and those little homemade pizzas was one of our favourite things to do. Mrs. Calder’s home was always open to friends and ready with a refreshment and those delicious toffee squares and time to catch up on the family news. I always looked forward to her Christmas cards. She truly is a blessing to her family and friends. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Sending you hugs filled with love. Chris
I am so sorry to hear of Margaret's passing. She was such a lovely kind lady who will be missed. Liz Champion( McBride)
I'm sending my sincere condolences to the entire Calder family Mrs. Calder was always such a kind, sweet woman. Hold your memories close, she will be missed.💐 Jeanie Haig
Sorry to hear of your family's loss. Your family is remembered with warmth
Our sincere condolences on your Mom’s passing. Hold the memories close.we are thinking of you all at this difficult time
My condolences to the family Many fond memories of Mrs Calder when I was growing up in Grafton My heart goes out to you all
Jean and family So sorry Your Mom was a special person RIP
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Your mom was a kind wonderful lady and will be miss by all.
Wilma and Heather...I'm so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She was a sweet lady. Praying God's comfort will surround all of you at this time.
I'm sorry for your loss she was a wonderful person
Wilma and Heather...I'm so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She was a sweet lady. Praying God's comfort will surround all of you at this time.
My deepest condolences to the Calder family, she was a special lady. Wishing you all peace, comfort, and strength as you remember and honor a life so dearly loved.
Rest peacefully in paradise dear Mrs. Calder
So sorry to hear of Margaret's passing. I still make her caramel squares at Christmas. She will be missed by many. My condolences to all the family members and friends.
Sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom. She was a very kind person.
Sorry to hear this my condolences go out to the Calder family. I know she will be missed
Sending sincere sympathy to all the family. The lady who once told me she didn't think she could go and work in the shop became the welcoming face to all the community. Hold on to your wonderful memories.
Sending our condolences and keeping the Calder family in our thoughts
My heartfelt condolences going out to the Calder Family,Your Mom was a beautiful lady,Always had a smile on her face,May she rest in peace
My deepest sympathy to all the Calder family. A great and wonderful lady. We'll miss you, Mrs. C.
My. Sincere sympathy to the Calder family. will miss talking to her on the telephone
Sending our deepest condolences to you and your family. Your Mother/grandmother was one of the sweetest women we knew. May she rest in peace .
My condolences to you Heather and Wilma. Your mom was such a wonderful person. She will be missed.
My deepest condolences on your loss. May your many years of memories give you comfort. Such a kind. Loving lady.