Plainville United Church
Plainville
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It is with heavy hearts and profound sadness that we announce the passing of Cindy Buttar at Northumberland Hills Hospital in Cobourg on Saturday, January 18th, at 59 years of age.
Cindy was the beloved wife and partner of Bruce, sharing a life full of love and unwavering support. She was the cherished mother of Katie (Jon), Emily (Lachlan), Hannah (Sam), Harrison (Alex), and Leighton, and the proud and devoted Nannie to Myles, Mabel, Forrest, Pearl, and Cash. Cindy was also a loving sister to Andrew and the daughter of the late Addie and Boyd Simms.
She was the heart and soul of our family, always creating a warm and welcoming home filled with love and laughter. She also had many cherished friends whom she embraced as part of her extended family. Cindy was a devoted wife, mother, and Nannie who always put her family first. She approached life with kindness, determination, and a boundless capacity to care for others.
Cindy found joy in the simple pleasures of life—gardening and working on the farm, and spending time with her children and grandchildren. Her positive outlook and incredible courage shone brightly during her two-year battle with cancer. Cindy faced every challenge with grace and strength, supported by her deep love for her family and friends.
The family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the staff at Northumberland Hills Hospital, particularly Dr. Mulé and Victoria Winter, for their exceptional compassion and care. Your kindness and guidance have been a source of comfort during this difficult journey, and we are forever grateful.
A celebration of Cindy’s life will take place at Plainville United Church, Cavan Road, Plainville, on Thursday, January 30th, 2025, at 11 a.m. A reception will follow at Cold Springs Hall.
In honour of Cindy’s memory, please consider donating to Plainville United Church Cemetery, the Canadian Cancer Society or planting a flower in your garden—a tribute to her love for nurturing both people and nature.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
Bruce & family, sorry for your loss of Cindy
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
So sorry to hear of your loss Katie. Our condolences to you and your family.
I always felt that Cindy was the cool cousin in a family full of cool cousins. She lived her life to the fullest and leaves behind many great memories and family to carry them on. She will be missed but never forgotten. Kxx
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
Bruce and family, I would like to send my condolences to the family, may she rest in peace.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
Bruce ... my sincere condolences to you and your family. I am so sorry to hear of Cindy's passing. Wendy
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
Dear Bruce, Kate, Emily,Hannah, Harrison, Leighton Cindy has left this Earth too soon. Her light will now be seen in Heaven.❤️ My sincerest condolences, Cindy’s Aunt Jean
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
I was sorry to learn of your loss, Bruce. Sending my sincere condolences. Marian Davidson.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
My condolences, Bruce, to you and your family
Hannah and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Cindy's smile could light up a room, and her outgoing personality was admired. Cindy lived life to the fullest - we always loved seeing the photos of her adventures through Hannah. Cindy will always be loved and never forgotten. Thinking of you, and sending hugs from afar. <3
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
We were so sorry to hear the sad news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Leighton, Bruce, as well as the extended family.
Bruce and family, I am sorry to hear about Cindy. I first met Cindy during exercise class many years ago. She was always a very strong, encouraging and inspirational woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
Caring thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow. May the happiness you shared with Cindy be warmly remembered and may those memories help to ease the pain of your loss. With deepest sympathy! Larry and Marcia.
Bruce and family. We are so sorry to hear of Cindy's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Marilyn and Terry.
Deepest sympathy Bruce and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
I hope that the love of family and friends will comfort and strengthen you in the days ahead. Sincere condolences to the entire family.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Community Care Northumberland - Hospice Palliative Care
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
Dear Bruce and family, We are sorry to hear of your loss. May she rest in peace 🕊️
We're so sorry to hear of the loss of Cindy. May blessings and peace be with you all as you share your memories of such a wonderful lady.
Bruce and family So sorry for your loss Thinking of you
BruceOurs sincere condolences to the family. The Rollin
Bruce and family we are sorry to hear of cindys passing. Our sincere condolences
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
My heartfelt condolences on the huge loss of Wife, Mother Grandmother and dear friend.. May you all feel God's comforting arms..
Bruce - Our heartfelt condolences to you and family.
Bruce- Cindy was always a force of nature, kind with a great ability to laugh. She will be missed. You and the family are in my thoughts. Pat
Dear Bruce and family .im so sorry to hear of Cindy’s passing .She was a wonderful women .sending my thoughts and prayers to all of you
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
Sending our deepest sympathies to Bruce and Families. May all of the wonderful memories you made with Cindy, help comfort you through this very difficult time. 🙏🏻 🕊️ Thinking of you all, The Yorke Family
To all those that loved Cindy, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. She was always such a supporting woman, I could always count on words of encouragement and kind words from her when she knew something exciting was happening, or even just a float down the river. Having her see my home, and share such a beautiful day with her was so special to me. As we walked along the mountain side through beautiful foliage, we found a strong and tall tree. Mum put her hands at the base and closed her eyes, pulling the strength from the roots then I put my hand over hers and the other against the treee and Hannah did the same on the other side. You could feel the powerful surge or energy in flowing into Cindy. It was one of the most powerful and beautiful moments of my life. I think of it often. Then after a long beautiful day, we ate pizza by my river and for the first time in the 4 years ive lived in Fernie, we spotted a moose crossing the river, she held fast in the current as of waiting for us to take in the moment. I will always hold these moments close to my heart, thank you all for sharing Mum, Cindy, with me. She is missed in such a big way. I love you guys
My sincere sympathy to Bruce and family.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
We are deeply saddened by Cindy's passing and send our sincerest condolences to Bruce and Leighton, Harrison, Hannah, Emily, Katie and extended family members.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, so sorry for you and family.
Cindy brought so much light and love to the lives of her children, which almost tripled in these past two years. Watching her live life to the fullest, traveling the country, skiing, gardening, and swimming all with her beloved children and grandchildren in tow was inspirational to say the least. We lived vicariously through Hannah on these adventures, which allowed us to learn what an amazing mom Cindy was. The world is a darker place without her but hopefully the incredible memories she’s made with her family will bring some light. Hannah (and the whole clan) we love you from the depths of our hearts and we’re so incredibly sorry for your loss. Love, Holly & Danika
I worked with Cindy at the LCBO in the 1990's. Back then we called her Sinbad. Remembering her laughter and fun spirit. Sincere condolences to the family.
Bruce and family, Sincere condolences to u all We know u have hearts full of beautiful memories Thinking of u all
Deepest Sympathies to you...Kate, Jon & family.
Our sincere condolences to Bruce and Family. May your happy memories sustain you through this difficult time. Allan and Debbie Elder
Cindy was a wonderful, fun, caring person. From grade school til the day she passed. She was an inspiration and the world was a better place with her in it. I will miss her dearly.
Bruce and family. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Cindy. She was someone who embraced life. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Bruce and family we are so very sorry for your loss.
Bruce and Family, I am so very sorry and I am Sending you the strength and courage you need to face the days ahead.
Our deepest sympathies on your loss of Cindy. We are very sorry to hear of her passing. Mike and Debi Godon
Bruce and Leighton, I am so sorry for your loss. Cindy had such a sweet and loving heart, and I’ll always remember the kindness she showed me. Sending my deepest condolences.
Our deepest condolences to all of Cindy’s family. We were so sorry to hear of her passing. RIP Cindy
Thinking of you at this difficult time.
We are so sorry for your loss. Your mom was full of fun and loved to laugh. Sending big hugs to you all❤️
We are truly sorry for your incredible loss. Our prayers are with you, and hope your cherished memories help you throughout this truly difficult time. RIP Dear Cindy
Bruce , Leighton and extended family … our heartfelt condolences to all of you at this very sad time… Dalton and Heather McDonald
Bruce and family, our sincere sympathy for the loss of your beloved wife and mother.
Bruce and family condolences on loss of your wife, mom and grandmother. Allan and Terry Carruthers
So sorry for your loss to you Bruce and your family
Bruce & family - please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of Cindy. I am honoured to have been her friend and to have experienced many good times with her. I’ll miss our chats, outings and her constant supply of pickled beets.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
So sorry to hear , Emily. Teri and I send our deepest condolences to you and family . will be thinking of you and praying for peace .. Love Bill & Teri
So sorry for your loss
My sincere condolences to all of you. Cindy will shine in your hearts forever God bless
It is with heartfelt condolences that I send to you, Bruce and your family. Cherish the life and opportunities that you and Cindy had created together. Through the times of struggle, there is also been joy and love.
Dear Bruce, Katie, Emily, Hannah, Harrison and Leighton Cindy was an incredibly courageous person who lived life on her own terms. Her caring spirit and lust for life certainly lives on through both her children and grandchildren. I remember visits to Cindy’s over the years; spending time with Katie, Emily and Hannah. Cindy always at work behind the scenes, orchestrating all the fun and good times for us. What an amazing Mom! She will be missed. ❤️ Sending lots of love, Natalie, Adam, Nolan and Sonny
Dear Bruce, Leighton, and family, l am so sorry to hear of Cindy’s passing. May all your happy memories give you strength during this difficult time. Sincere condolences and hugs, Elaine
Bruce,Leighton and family. Wishing you strength and comfort at this difficult time. My deepest condolences.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
Bruce & family: We are so sad to hear of Cindy’s passing. It was lovely to get to know her before and after your home renovations. Our heartfelt sympathies to you and the children.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
Our thoughts are with you Bruce and all the family at this sad and difficult time. May your happy memories with Cindy bring you some comfort.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
Bruce and family so sorry for you and your family. Doug and Esther
Thinking of you and Leighton and the extended family. Cindy was always so kind and gracious.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
Our sincere condolences to Bruce and Leighton for your loss, our prayers and thoughts are with you.
our sincere condolences to Bruce and family
You be very sadly missed, Thoughts & Prayers Love Mark
Bruce we were so sorry to hear of Cindy's passing, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
My heartbreaks for your loss. I am sending so much love to you all.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
Katie, Emily, Hannah, and all that loved Cindy; I am so sorry for your loss. I met Katie in Junior Kindergarten. We became quite close where our families would spend time together on many adventures. From camping at Emily Park, to zoo trips and many beach visits. Katie and I would have sleep overs (what felt like every other weekend). Cindy would take me on a fourth daughter on those weekends. So many of my childhood memories was made with The Walker gang. Thanks to social media, I have recently reconnected with Katie and Emily, and even Cindy too. She was also so loving, caring, and adventurous. She will be missed terribly by those who loved her, but I can see will live on in her children and grandchildren.
Dear Katie Sorry for the loss of your mother. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time. Deepest Sympathy God Bless Eva
Bruce & family, so sorry to read of this passing of Cindy, she will be missed in the community.I remember u guys hosting Calvin Stones retirement party, keep ur memories close, RI P Cindy, ur cancer battle is over. Take care Bruce & esp. Leighton! 🙏🏻
I have such fond memories of Cindy from my childhood. I vividly recall putting on concerts in her basement as a child and loved how much joy she brought to every event we held. She was a proud mother, and caring person who was always so supportive of everyone around her. She will be missed, but I know her legacy will live on in her children and those who loved her. Thank you for making my childhood a little brighter Cindy. ❤️
Dear Bruce, Leighton, Harrison, Hannah, Kate and Emily. We are heartbroken for your loss. Cindy taught us all so much about gratitude, grace, and living life to its fullest. I will forever treasure the time we spent together over the years. She was an A+ cousin and she will be dearly missed. We are thinking of you all and sending big love. Love Jules (Adam, Eamonn and Callum)
Deepest Condolences to Bruce and extended families.
Dear Bruce & Family I am sad to hear of Cindy's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. 🙏 God Bless 🙌
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts & prayers to all. Janice & family
Our deepest condolences, Emily and family. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
My deepest condolences to Bruce and family. Cindy is now resting peacefully after she was in so much pain near the end. I will always remember her as always smiling and fun loving person. She will be missed. Love Julie Jackson
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
Bruce, We were deeply saddened to hear about Cindy. Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this incredibly difficult time.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Canadian Cancer Society
My sincere condolences on your loss.
So sorry to read this. She gave it quite a fight. Treasure your memories. Sending prayers to you all. Carol & Eric
Katie, Emily, Hannah and family. I was so saddened to hear of your mom’s passing. We had many fun times and Ashley, Coady and I have fond memories of our adventures (and misadventures) with you girls when you were young. Sending our love. The Pickerings
We are so very sorry to hear of Cindy’s passing, Cindy will be missed by all whom she touched in life, Port Hope Terry Fox Run was honoured by Cindy’s determination, hugs to you all
I became friends with Cindy when I taught, Hannah and Harrison. She was an intelligent, dedicated, loving parent with the best interests of all her children at heart. Bruce, I am so sorry for your loss. I know she cared deeply for you and was so proud of Leighton and her older children. She will be missed!
So sorry Bruce, Katie, Emily, Hannah, Harrison and Leighton and grandchildren. Our Church family has lost a prescious member. Cindys heart was in everything we endeavoured as a congregation.From her singing in the quartet, teaching Sunday school,preparing food for the suppers and even vacuuming up those pesky flies. Leightin will always be one of our children, even as he ages. Our hearts are broken love Joan J.
Our condolences to everyone. Cindy lived life to the fullest. We will remember her smile always. 🙏🙏
Sincere condolences Bruce, to you and your family.
Emily, Katie, Hannah and family- I am so sad to hear of your mom’s passing. Sending my condolences to all of Cindy’s loved ones. She raised some incredibly kind and loving kids who bring joy to this world. One of the many things I’m certain Cindy taught them. She will be missed by so many!
Emily & Family. We are thinking of you and sending our love. I'll always remember her beautiful smile and laugh and will forever see it live on in her children and grandchildren. We are sending you love Jenna
Bruce and Family....please accept our deepest sympathy in the loss of Cindy.
My deepest condolences to you Bruce, Leighton & extended family and to all who heart she touched.
She was very special. So glad I was able to visit one final time, and that she enjoyed the sour dough bread so much. Hugs and love to her family and all those that will be missing her.
Heartfelt condolences to Bruce and Leighton. Our prayers are with you in raising that wonderful boy. What a blessing he is! Marg & Gord Jibb
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Plainville Cemetery
Bruce and family; on behalf of Trisha and I, we extend our deepest sympathies on the loss of Cindy. I got to know Cindy about 10+ years ago as a fellow gym class member. The friendship grew to good times with her and other friends around the your pool, fire-pit, and many other social gatherings. The revelation of her diagnosis proved surreal and her loss has left a gap in many people's lives. Our tradition of Christmas ornament exchange has left me with many memories to draw on. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
Bruce, we extend our deepest condolences on the loss of Cindy. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this very sad time.
Words alone cannot express our heartfelt condolences to you, Bruce, and your family. Praying for you during this difficult time.