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Heaven has welcomed an angel, Barbara Helen Mouncey (Lemoire). She passed away peacefully at Regency Long Term Care Facility on Sunday, September 29, 2024 in her 98th year. Loving wife of the late Trevor Mouncey (2015) and cherished mother of Karen Sanders and Lynn Haas (Brian). Dear grandmother of Carol Benetin (Adam), Andrea Sanders (Kyle Anderson) and Sheri Sanders. Precious great grandmother of Kayla, Kaitlyn, Owen, Skye and Jillian. Predeceased by siblings, Doreen Kemp, Paul, Donald, Laverne, Frank, and stepbrother of Arthur Wheeler.
Lifelong friend of Marietta Cowley (Leahy) and special aunt to her daughters Cheryl Belanger and Sue Rehel.
Barbara’s life was one of hardship, love, kindness, service, and deep faith. As young children Barbara and her siblings, suffered the loss of their beloved mother, Madeline. Barbara and her sister were sent to an orphanage while their brothers were sent to work at various farms in the Peterborough area. The death of their mother affected all of the children.
As teenagers, mom and dad met on the bridge in Hastings Ontario. Years later, they reconnected at the water fountain while both working at Canadian General Electric in Cobourg, Ontario. Mom always described him as her handsome Richard Burton. The rest is history.
Mom loved all of us with her whole heart. Her grandchildren often said “Grandma, you hug too tight.” She remembered everyone’s birthday. Always sending cards and letters to relatives. Many of whom have recently shared “aunt Barb was my favourite!” Testaments like that have filled us with joy in the recent months.
Mom also shared her love by cooking and baking for neighbours, sick friends, the church etc. At dinner she kept inching bowls of food, closer and closer always encouraging us to eat more.
Mom represented her brothers who served in the war as a member of the Ladies Auxiliary of the Cobourg Legion Branch 133. She also volunteered at Horizons of Friendship and was a member of the CWL of Saint Michael’s Church.
Knitting outfits, playing cards and darts, playing the piano and listening to Elvis were some of her favourite activities. However, she lived for Friday night bingo. If she won $10 she would share it with everyone. The highlight of mom’s life was attending church on Sunday. She had been a member of St. Michael’s Parish for 66 years prior to her dementia diagnosis. Even while residing at Regency she tried to feed others and care for the baby dolls. We wish to send a special thanks to all of the caregivers at Regency for their kindness and support over the years.
This special woman who selflessly devoted her life to others is undoubtedly, resting in the arms of God.
A visitation will be held Wednesday, October 2, 2024 from 6:00Pm – 8:30Pm at MacCoubrey Funeral Home. A Mass will be held the following day Thursday, October 3rd 2024 at St. Michael’s Church, Cobourg ON at 1:30Pm. Following the service, burial will take place at St. Michael’s Cemetery with a reception at MacCoubrey Funeral Home Reception Centre. Donations may be made to the Alzheimer Society.
When you speak of her
Speak not with tears
For thoughts of her
Should not be sad
Let memories of the times you shared
Give you comfort
For her life was rich
Because of you
Karen condolences to all of your family at this difficult time.
Barbs loving personality, her beautiful smile, and her kindness were fondly shared with me while she lived at Regency. I enjoyed my shifts caring for her, and spending time together. She was special. Thinking of Barbs family, and friends. RIP dear Barbie.
Lynn and Brian. Your mom was so friendly and although I didn't see her very much, I remember her fondly. We know you and your family, will, of course, miss her. Thinking of you. Chris and Jim
Barb was a true force of nature. I met her when I was ten years old when Lynn (Muntz) and I became best friends. There was always a place for me at her dinner table in her tiny kitchen. An excellent cook, what we really looked forward to were her signature desserts: pinwheel pastries and date squares. (secret ingredient orange juice) She taught herself to play the piano, and sometimes you could coax her to play a lively tune. Her generosity and spirit were unmatched, and will be missed by all who knew her.
Sorry for you loss. It is so hard to lose a mother. Hugs.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Alzheimer Society
The Auffrey Family will miss you Barb. Our condolence
Karen, Lynn .....deepest sympathy in your loss. I remember your Mom when I stayed over like some 50+ yrs ago. Dementia is such a cruel affliction. Wow, 98 is pretty awesome just the same. I would have visited but just saw obit too late. Karen, please keep in touch. Evyonne
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Alzheimer Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Alzheimer Society
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Alzheimer Society
Karen and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolence.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Alzheimer Society
I am sorry to hear of your mother’s passing Lynn.
Sorry to hear the passing of your mother
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Alzheimer Society
Sorry to hear of your mother's passing Lynn.
Karen, Lynn and families: Sorry to learn of your mother, she was a lovely person, both of your parents were great friends of our family. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Karen, Lynn and families. My heart felt condolences to you with the passing of your mom.
So sorry to hear of Barb’s passing she was a wonderful person and so caring. I spent a great deal of time going to different functions with her.
Sorry for your loss our thoughts an prayers are with you an your family
Thinking of you Karen and Lynn so sorry for your loss.She was a lovely lady.
I know Mrs. Mouncey best through her daughters, especially Lynn. I can only guess what an extraordinary woman she was because her daughter is so kind, so loving, so true, and so much fun to be around. I do recall a few evenings back in the day, playing cards and drinking orange “pop” with Barb. May she rest in peace and may her family find peace and comfort in the memories left behind.
Karen, Lynn and Brian. My sincerest condolences during this time and in the coming days. Your mom's light and love shone through her smile, her gentle giving heart and care for others. I will forever cherish her devotion to her family, her never ending support to my mom and the memories they created together for our family. Much love to you as we prepare to say our farwell as she reunites with all those gone before her.
So sorry to hear of your mother’s passing, Lynn.
I remember your Mom from when as a child we lived on Furnace St. My mom spoke of her often with fond memories.
I will always remember this cute little lady,, she was tiny, like my mother. I always made a point of going to the Horizon shop on the days she worked just so I could see her. We had some great conversations, she would point out the good items that arrived and would make a point of telling me to come by and see her again. I truly enjoyed those occasions that we shared. I remember her fabulous cooking and will never forget the time I said I loved the moist pie.... I felt honored and blessed to have been invited to her home and the opportunity to know her. Deepest condolences to all, may she rest in peace. Lisa Bishop
Terribly sorry for your loss Lynn.
Dear Karen and Lynn It saddens me to read this but it also makes me smile knowing Trev will be waiting with open arms. For the many years I’ve known her from public school birthday parties on Furnace St to working in the kitchen for many years at the Legion your Mom was always wearing a smile. She was a pleasure being a friend and team mate in the L.A. sports programs. Sending you and your families heartfelt condolences, thoughts and prayers.
Auntie Barb will forever be in Ron and my thoughts. She was a beacon for Ron during his formative years and of course a shining light when we visited her and Uncle Trevor at their home in Cobourg. So sorry Karen, Lynn and family for your loss. We will miss her loving, kind, joyful, happy spirit. Ron and Gayle XX OO
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Alzheimer Society
Karen and Lynn; so sorry to hear of your mum's passing. Take comfort in knowing that she is at peace and with your dad. Deepest sympathy to you all. Aunt Helen Ann.
So very sorry to learn of your mom’s passing Karen. Condolences to you and your family