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Paul Douglas "Shorty" Wakely

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Paul Douglas "Shorty" Wakely

June 26, 1939 - September 17, 2024

Passed away peacefully at Ed’s House after a lengthy illness. Beloved husband for 44 years of Marian (Hand, nee Ardis). Cherished step-father to Lorraine Ottolini (Steven) and Brian Hand (Patsy). Loving Gramps to Katie (Bianka) and Robyn Ottolini, Brianna Hand and Amanda Kirkton (Nicholas). Son of the late Leonard and Muriel Wakely. Brother to Garry and Bill, predeceased by Mary, Judy, Philip, Wendy and Richard. Special uncle to Kim (K.D.) Wright. Loved by many nieces and nephews.

Paul loved his family, sports, gardening and the Habs. He was an accomplished hockey player winning many championships and scoring titles. His impeccable talent for the game gave him the opportunity to travel the world. He was also a very talented ball player who played on multiple Ontario Championship teams. In his career, Paul was a skilled plumber and was very dedicated to his craft.
He adored his grandchildren, always cracking jokes, drawing and cherishing his time with them. He took pride in imparting them with valuable life skills, like teaching them to skate and garden, staying clean during meals with a paper towel in hand, and to always see the bright, humorous side of life. He loved Molson's Export, chocolate ice cream, raw onions, and lots of pepper (on everything!). But above all else, the greatest love of his life was his wife, Marian. They complimented one another, two halves of a whole. Paul will be dearly missed by his family and friends, and never forgotten. As per Paul’s wishes, a private family celebration will take place at a later date. Donations in Paul’s memory can be made to Ed’s House or the charity of your choice.

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Bryan and Cindy Marjoram - October 12, 2024

Marian, Lorraine, and Brian, Baltimore has lost a true gentleman in every sense of the word. He was a fine example on how to live your life by his actions and words. Paul's plumbing skills were highly sought after. I played lob ball with Paul and I admired his finese and sportsmanship. He was one of the team veterans and he led us on and off the field. We had many chats in his front yard as I was coming home from work. I will miss his smile, laugh and his good-natured teasing. I will cherish my memories of Paul. He will be sorely missed by many. Rest well, my friend. Paul Douglas "Shorty" Wakely June 26, 1939 - September 18, 2024 ~ REST IN PEACE ~

Wayne and Bonnie Hogg - October 9, 2024

Dear Marion and Family, please accept our heartfelt condolences. Wayne has great memories of playing ball and hockey with Paul. Paul was a wonderful person, great ball player and hockey player, I am sure he will be missed by all that knew him.

Roslyn and Rob Smart - September 29, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Anne and Dave Doyle - September 28, 2024

So sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. I have great memories of intermediate and old timers hockey games we played together. He was so well thought of in the many sports he excelled in through the years. May your memories bring comfort to you and your family.

Fred Merrimen - September 27, 2024

It is always so tragic to see a good friend or relative lose their mate in life. I found out from Marian several days after Paul passed on. Marian was my wife's Patricia best friend since they were younge children. Over the years I met Pat, my other better half and eventually met a very nice man Paul through Marian. Marian and Paul got married and had a very close and full life together. I am so sorry to see tragedy of this kind happen to a family and know first hand the pain and emptiness it can cause. We all have memories of good times and will never forget our loved ones. Keep your family and friends close to you Marian, they will carry you on. I too have my many pictures and memories, but it still hurts deep in my heart when looking at the pictures often in quiet moments. Keep your family close and try and go on. ( Trying to find words of comfort always seems so pitiful.) There is a picture in my head that reflects Paul. I am sure he is watching a TV program somewhere of his favorite hockey or baseball teams, beer in one hand and screaming at the play before him. Marian, get me another beer please. Can't miss this play.

Barbara Rusk & Walter Smith - September 27, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Barbara rusk - September 27, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Frank and Pam Aiello - September 26, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Steve, Bob, Mel and Robert - September 26, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Eric Carleton - September 25, 2024

Marion & Family Jo and I would like to express our sincere condolences on the loss of Paul. I enjoyed playing with and against him in both ball and hockey. He was my favourite shortstop. He was a great competitor and gentleman. Eric and Jo Carleton

Bonnie Brown - September 25, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Sharon and Frank Waghorn - September 24, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Gary & Pat Moynes - September 24, 2024

Harry- Very sorry to hear about your brother’s passing. Although we never had the pleasure of meeting Paul, just reading his obituary it is clear he was a great sportsman as well as being very well respected. Our thoughts are with you. Sincere condolences.

Donna Trew - September 24, 2024

Marian, I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Hold on to memories and loved ones in this trying time. Hugs to you and your family.

Charlotte and Joe Green - September 24, 2024

Marian and family I'm so sorry for the loss of Paul. He was the most wonderful man!

Shelli Craig - September 24, 2024

So very sorry to hear this Marian! I will miss my visits at The Beer Store! Sending hugs

Shelley MacLean - September 23, 2024

So sorry to hear about Mr Wakely. Lots of great memories through sports! Hugs. The MacLean Family

Dave Bemma - September 23, 2024

Marion and Family, I played a lot of baseball and hockey with Paul. He was a great teammate and person and will be deeply missed. Thinking of you and your family.

The Gill Family - September 23, 2024

Dear Marion and Family, Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. Paul was a gentleman in every sense of the word, never without a smile and always packing enough kindness to share with anyone he came across. He was a valued customer during our ownership of the local gas station and we admired him greatly. He will be so very missed by all who had the good fortune of knowing him. Deepest sympathy, The Gill Family

Robert and Heather Touchburn - September 23, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Lauren Maclean - September 23, 2024

Dear Marian, Paul and Patsy, Amanda and Brianna and Family, I was very sorry to read of Paul's passing. I have fond memories of Paul and Patsy coaching our girls at soft ball. The teen-age girls frequently tested the limits of Paul's good humour and patience! You will miss him dearly, With sympathy from Lauren and Bruce and Katherine Maclean

Nola & Steve Taylor - September 23, 2024

Marian, we are so sad to hear of Paul’s passing and were looking forward to seeing you both and sharing a Molson Ex again this visit. May the many happy memories you all share be a source of comfort to you at this terribly sad time. Paul was a true gentleman. Thinking of you.

Chris Rogers - September 23, 2024

Marion , Brian , Lorraine and the rest of the family. So sorry to see this and for your loss. He truly was one of the greatest men on the planet. My deepest condolences to all of you.

Robert Vanwort - September 23, 2024

My prayers and thoughts and heart felt sympathy goes to Marian and family for their lose. Paul was a good man and would extend a hand to anyone who needed help. Rest in peace my friend

Diana Storen and Gayle Carver - September 23, 2024

To Marian and family: we were so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Although we did not know him well, we do remember him as a kind and cheerful fellow. Diana Storen and Gayle Carver

Mike and Susan Cawker - September 23, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Merna Zahn - September 23, 2024

Brian, Patsy, Marian, Lorraine and Family. I am so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. May your happy memories help carry you through this difficult time. Merna

Barbara Rusk & Walter Smith - September 22, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Bill Alls - September 22, 2024

To Marian & Family Everil & I send our heartfelt condolences to you during this difficult time. Paul lived a life full to the brim with family & sports. Rest in Peace Paul

Fran & Bill Aird - September 22, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Jill and David Ivatt - September 22, 2024

Dear Marian, Our sincere condolences to you and your family for your loss of Paul. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time ..

Keren Bradford - September 22, 2024

So sorry to read of Paul’s passing.Thunking of you and your family at this time.

Pat and Pam O' Brien - September 22, 2024

Our condolences to Marion and family . Paul was a mans man on and off the playing fields and rinks

Bob Thickson - September 22, 2024

Great athlete, great friend, great person.

Tracey Osborne-Lebel - September 21, 2024

Our deepest condolences to his family & friends. David & Tracey

Tim von Boetticher - September 21, 2024

Dear Marian, Lorraine and Brian: I am so sorry for your loss. Here's a big hug XXX... Wish I was there to give it in person. Your old friend, Tim

JORDIE BROOKS - September 21, 2024

SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.JB

Susan Kearsey - September 21, 2024

I am so sorry Marian for you to lose Paul, my heart hurts for you and your family.

Ralph & Norma Stoffers - September 21, 2024

Marian & family. Our heartfelt condolences. Thinking of you. Ralph played alot of hockey with and against Paul. Ralph's comment.. Paul was a nice hockey player Hugs Marian

Jay Sherwin - September 21, 2024

Dear Marion: Please accept my condolences on the passing of Paul, a fellow Habs fan. I will remember him well for his friendliness and his willingness to help out with small jobs down the road at the church.

Barry & Ann - September 21, 2024

Marian and family, Ann and I are saddened to hear of Paul’s passing. We remember Paul as a kind and cheerful man. We also remember him as a constant and willing “roadie” for Marian and her accordion so she could join the Corktown Fiddlers at rehearsals and events. May the memories you all share sustain you along with the thoughts and prayers of all who knew Paul.

Lynn Wallace - September 21, 2024

Dear Marian, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. Paul was a great guy and a pleasure to be around. Cherish the many years you had together and keep the memories close to your heart. Hugs, Lynn

Lynn Wallace - September 21, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Wayne and Donnie Patterson - September 21, 2024

Marian and family, we are so sorry to read of Paul's passing. We offer sincere condolences to you.

Evelyn Burton - September 21, 2024

Dear Marion, My heartfelt condolences to you on the loss of your husband.

Jim & Linda J. MacDonald - September 21, 2024

Marion-So sorry to hear of Paul's passing. He was a great plumber for us for many years, and always cheerful and hard working. He will be missed, but may the good Lord ease your family's loss with many wonderful memories. Love and blessings to you all.

Linda & Doug Stratford - September 21, 2024

Although we havent seen you for years we will always remember your wonderful smile. Our condolences to all the family.

Jim and Jamie West - September 21, 2024

Marian and family our condolences on the passing of Paul . A real nice guy.

CAROL BUTTAR - September 21, 2024

So sorry to hear of Paul's passing Marian. Eric played hockey with him. A lovely man. Cherish your memories. Eric & Carol Buttar

Gerald and Jennie Bambridge - September 21, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Cindy Wong - September 21, 2024

My sincere condolences Marian and family. Will miss the wave driving by.

Forrest Rowden - September 21, 2024

So sorry to hear of Paul's passing he was a wonderful friend. We attended High School together and I remember Paul's great hockey skills Our thoughts go out to you Marion and family

Brenda LRSEN - September 21, 2024

To my very good friend Marian, I seem to have no words. My sincere condolences Paul will sure be missed.

Marjorie, Judy and Nancy - September 21, 2024

Hi Marian, We are thinking of you and send our heart felt condolences to you and your family. You are such a warm wonderful lady. You bring light to every room you enter. Your many friends and family will all be there for you at every turn when you need their strength. You are Loved.

Gary & Judy Woods - September 20, 2024

Our Sincere condolenses to Marian and family. Paul was a great friend and will be missed very much. It was a great pleasure to have known him and play a lot of sports with him. Paul excelled at all sports he was involved in. He was a great gentleman on top of everything. Rest in Peace our friend.

Mike and Glenda Smith - September 20, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Joe Ferguson - September 20, 2024

So Sorry to hear the passing of Paul.He was a wonderful person and will be sadly missed.Sending our condolences to the family at this difficult time.Joe Ferguson and Cindy Greer

Heather Ferris (Wakely) - September 20, 2024

Uncle Paul will always be one of my favorite people. So fun loving, generous and down to earth. He had the greatest laugh and a smile that was contagious. I will miss him dearly as will Bob, Lindsay, Dylan and Hanna 💕💕💕

Mike and Glenda Smith - September 20, 2024

To Marian and Paul's family: We are so very sorry for your loss. Baltimore has lost another strong pillar of the community who was admired by all who knew him for his love of family, love of sports, quick wit and integrity. Shorty and Mike were team mates on the original Baltimore Old Timers lob ball team that formed in the mid 1980's. The guys played ball and the wives cheered (sometimes jeered) them on. Later on a small group of us played cards once a month. We rotated partners and when Paul was my partner he would give me a very understanding "what the heck" look when I would get us euchred. But if I did it again the look this time said "what the heck are you doing". We will miss you Paul. R.I.P. old friend. Say hello to the Richard brothers for us. Go Habs Go!

Dale Craig - September 20, 2024

Marion,very sorry to learn the passing of Paul sending my condolences to family members.

Paul Bailey - September 20, 2024

Paul was a wonderful person, keen competitor and friend. Condolences to Marian and family.

Pat and Vic Holmes - September 20, 2024

Dear Marion & Family It is with sincere condolences we read of his passing. He will be sorely missed by many with that winning smile. Thinking of you all.

Christine & Mike Robinson - September 20, 2024

Marion & family, we are so sorry for your loss. We have many wonderful memories of Paul (Shorty) while he worked many years for Dad. You both became great friends with Mom & Dad, vacations together, hockey & times hanging around our pool. We cherish these memories, Paul was a very special person to us all, always taking the time to visit & chat with us all. We will miss him, RIP Shorty, love from the Miller Family XO

Karen Wakely - September 20, 2024

Although a Wakely from the other side of the family tree, I'm sending my warmest condolences. Paul and my dad Harold (Flipper) shared some fun filled times in Port Hope. May he now rest in peace.

Cheryl Muldrew - September 20, 2024

Marion I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Cathy and Norm Carmanico - September 20, 2024

Dear auntie Marian, Lorraine, Brian and Patsy. We are sending our sincere condolences for your loss of Paul. May your memories carry you through and beyond this trying time. Holding you in our thoughts and close to our hearts. Cathy and Norm Carmanico

Barbara Voycey - September 20, 2024

Our hearts are broken . We have been lucky to have had Paul and Marian as our friends for 35 years and neighbours for 30 . Paul was the best neighbour and friend. He looked after our pets , dogs, cats and house and even a lizard as Marian reminded me recently . We looked after their house , Simon , Sophia , Sam and Elmo . He fixed our plumbing at times. We had a trip to Myrtle Beach together . We saw the grandchildren grown up and they saw our sons and grandkids growing up . Paul was always friendly with a "Hi Bruce , how are you " in the driveway up at their house down to ours . The thing that sums up the best I think is the gate from our backyard to theirs , that was what our friendship was . An open gate . We are honored to have known Paul , a great guy, an accomplished hockey player, a great plumber , a great husband and grandpa and dad and a great friend. Our hearts are with you all , Marian , Brian, Patsy Steven, Lorraine , Amanda , Brianna , Katie and Robin. Pauls brothers and niece . Rest now Paul, we will miss you . The Voycey family

Gus & Jennie Bambridge - September 20, 2024

Marion, Lorraine & Steven, Brian & Patsy & families Lots of great memories of spending time with Shorty & Marion over the years..

Ron Smith - September 20, 2024

Dear Marian and family, I send my sincerest condolences upon reading the announcement of Paul's passing. He was an inspiring athlete to watch playing hockey at the P.C.M.R. or baseball at the Agricultural Park, when I was an aspiring young boy, who wondered if it might be possible one day, to emulate the efforts of Paul and his teammates on the ice and field. I had the distinct pleasure of briefly being Paul's "plumber's helper" while employed with Ted Miller's company and truly enjoyed our co-worker conversations throughout the workday. Over later years it was always a pleasure to run into "Shorty" in the community and have a catch-up conversation about life and it was always clear to me that his positive outlook of life remained rooted with his family. Paul experienced a life well lived. Sincerely, Ron

Adele Yorke - September 20, 2024

As you turn to each other and recall the ways your dear one brought joy to so many days...may it comfort you now and help ease your sorrow to know that together you'll face each tomorrow. With deepest sympathy, Marian, to you and your family With love from Adele and family God speed, Paul.

Veronica & Raymond Murphy - September 20, 2024

We are sorry to hear of Shorty’s passing, our thoughts and prayers are with you all ❤️❤️❤️

Gladys Morris - September 20, 2024

Patsy Brian, Brianna and Amanda My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.