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Thomas Gerald "Tommer" Jillings
Celebration of Life

MacCoubrey Funeral Home Reception Centre
30 King Street East, Cobourg

Thursday June 13, 2024

4:30pm - 7:30pm

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Thomas Gerald "Tommer" Jillings

May 6, 1955 - June 3, 2024

Peacefully at Ed’s House, surrounded by his family on Monday June 3rd, 2024 in his 70th year. Beloved husband of the late Brenda Jillings (nee Ferguson). Loving father of Kent (Rhiannon), Carla (Jelle) and the late Dana. Cherished grandfather of Christopher (Haley), Joseph, Madison (Dustin) and Zealand. Dear brother of Jeff (Michelle), Lynn, Holly and Russ. Lovingly remembered by many nieces and nephews and his faithful dog Mabel. Friends are invited to a celebration of life at the MacCoubrey Funeral Home, 30 King St., E., Cobourg on Thursday June 13th from 4:30 - 7:30 pm. (*Revised Times for Visitation*) A private family service will be held at a later date. If desired donations may be made to Ed’s House Northumberland Hospice.

Message Of Condolence

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MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

Mary Freeman - June 13, 2024

Just heard now about Tom’s passing & I wish to pass along my condolences to his family, I worked many years with Tom & Jeff at Akzo / Chemcraft and Tom was a king, thoughtful man.. he will be missed.

Carol Ann Heffernan - June 13, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Glen and Sheila Turner - June 13, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Peter & Denise Lorenz - June 12, 2024

So sorry to hear about Tom passing. Thinking of you and your families . Lots of love ❤️

Dan Lovshin - June 12, 2024

Kent & family Sorry to hear about the passing of your dad !!!

Eric and Laura Mckenzie - June 11, 2024

So sorry to hear about Tom’s passing, he will be missed. Out thoughts and prayers are with Karla, Kent and families.

Paul and Mollie Davison - June 11, 2024

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Jillings family.

Jenna & Brian - June 11, 2024

Kent & Family Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. Losing a parent is an immense loss, and our thoughts are with you and your family as you navigate through this sorrowful period.

Audrey Maitland and James Butler - June 10, 2024

Our Deepest condolences to the entire Jillings family. Tom was such kind pleasant man. We will miss him.

Bill and Heather Wheeler - June 9, 2024

So sorry to hear about Tom

Dianne Dunk - June 8, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Birte & Dave Stainton - June 7, 2024

We remember Tom as a quiet and kind neighbour.

Kim and Steven Eadie - June 7, 2024

Our deepest sympathies to Carla, Kent and the Jillings family on the passing of Tom. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Tara & Paul Gratton - June 7, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Wayne& Bea Smith - June 6, 2024

Kent& Rhiannon,we're very saddened to hear of your dad's passing. Such a nice man, we will miss our morning chats. Cherish all the special time and memories you have. The Smith's

Blake and Rebecca Heffernan - June 6, 2024

Thinking of you guys and sending warm hugs 🤍

Barb and Ross Wightman - June 6, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Pat and Pattie McClean - June 6, 2024

Our condolences Kent Rhiannon Mabel and your whole family in these difficult times. Remember the good times. Love Pats

Larry pellett - June 5, 2024

Carla Kent and families I am so sad to here of your dad.s passing we had a lot of good times and laughs back in the days cherish your memories

Justine Ferguson - June 5, 2024

Jeff, Michelle and family, I am so sorry for your loss.

Susan & Glenn Fines - June 5, 2024

Our sincere condolences to the Jillings Families. Forever treasure your memories of Tom, a loving family man with fun character and a smile to light up a room. Tom is a good friend, resting in peace with his love in life, Brenda.

Uncle Roger,Aunt Susan - June 5, 2024

What a great guy Tom was, always had a laugh in him a passed it on lol. Kent ,Carla and the rest of the Jillings family our deepest condolences and our prayers are with you at this time and the days to come, you will have lots of memories as I do also. Take care.

Danielle Kennedy - June 5, 2024

Kent & Rhiannon, I’m so sorry to hear about Tom. My thoughts & prayers are with you. Danielle

Frank and Judy Blake - June 5, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

The Macphee Family - June 5, 2024

We are so sorry for your loss. Are hearts are with you. Tom was a nice man.

Taran Wharram - June 5, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Brighton Automotive and Industrial Supply - June 5, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Alf and Red Quigley - June 5, 2024

Kent Sorry to hear about your Dad We will miss our chats on Lorraine Av. Rest in peace Mr. Jillings

Glen & Sheila Turner - June 5, 2024

Kent & Rhiannon, we were so sorry to hear about Tom, He was a wonderful man. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.

Laura Regan & Richard Versteeg - June 5, 2024

Kent, Rhiannon and family. Our condolences on the passing of your father, my he live on in your hearts and memories. Hugs and love❤️

Michelle & Steve Cane - June 4, 2024

So sorry for your loss Kent, Rhiannon & family. We are thinking of you all

Veronica Marriott - June 4, 2024

Dear Kent, Carla and families ~ our deepest sympathy on the loss of your Father; may he rest in peace 🤍 Veronica, Paul & Asia

Douglas Ferguson - June 4, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Barb Bage - June 4, 2024

Dear Carla and family ❤️ I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I'm sure you have many great memories. He was a great guy.

Shirley Foden - June 4, 2024

Lynn and family, I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

Shannon Woodward - June 4, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Bill & Doreen Wintemute - June 4, 2024

Dear Kent & Carla-your Dad was such a great guy and dear friend. Great times when he was coaching along with Bill our ladies’ ball team! You have our deepest sympathy!

Frank and Judy Blake - June 4, 2024

Our sincere condolences to the family and friends. Thoughts and prayers to all❤️🙏❤️🙏

Claude - June 4, 2024 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Shannon Woodward - June 4, 2024

Kent and Carla, after over 30 years of knowing your Dad. I cannot tell you how sorry I am to hear of the loss of your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Nancy Harnden - June 4, 2024

Dear Carla, Kent and families.so very sorry to hear about Tom. My heart goes out to you. Your dad was a very kind man.wont forget sitting on back porches chatting up a storm and having some huge laughs.sending my love ,thinking of you and sending prayers❤️

Carol &Noel Kelly - June 4, 2024

We are so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. Sending love and condolences to you Rhiannon and your family..

Lisa and Dana - June 4, 2024

We are very sorry for your loss, Kent, Rhiannon and family.

Debbie Liberty - June 4, 2024

Carly, I’m so sorry my condolences in the loss of your father sending big hugs and I miss you❤️😔

Case and Joan Post - June 4, 2024

Our heart felt condolences to all Family and friends in this difficult time for all

Tanya Parlette - June 4, 2024

Thinking of you all and sending love during this difficult time.

Kevin & Mandy Stewart - June 4, 2024

So sorry for your loss

Susan - June 4, 2024

Kent and Rhiannon , I am so very sorry for your loss . Sending my condolences and Love to you both 🩷🩷 xoxo

Dianne Dunk - June 4, 2024

Jillings families, so sorry for your loss. He is now reunited with his lovely Brenda. Memories for me go back before they moved to Cobourg and while living at Burnette Drive. Blessings to the family, RIP Tom.

Lisa Hamilton and Buck Hamilton - June 4, 2024

Our deepest sympathies to all of the Jillings Family. We have many great memories of Tom and will never forget his warm smile and his wonderful sense of humor. There are many great memories of "Tommer" back in the day. We will always hold those close to our hearts.

Bobbi - June 4, 2024

Carla, I want to extend my deepest and most sincere condolences. He was a character, funny, and devoted to his family. I want you to know I'm keeping you in my prayers during this loss to your family. Hugs.

Sharon Martorino - June 4, 2024

Kent, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad passing away. Just treasure all your wonderful memories. That’s all we have left at this sad time. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Chris Sanburn - June 4, 2024

I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Many great memories with Tom, Brenda and Kent and Carla. You have my deepest condolences to your family. Thinking of you all and sending love and strength. May your memories help you through.

Wayne Wanda Connor - June 4, 2024

Tom was a great brother in law, Uncle, and friend. Our memories, will stay within all of us.

Danielle Greenhorne - June 4, 2024

JILLINGS FAMILY: So sorry to hear Tom has passed away .Living on Burnet Dr for years he was always around, nice guy gone RIP Tom.

Danny & Sylvia Lloyd - June 4, 2024

Kent, Rhiannon and family Please know we are thinking of you during this difficult time. Sincerely, Dan and Sylvia

Andrea Heffernan - June 4, 2024

We were so lucky to be able to spend time with Tommer over the years! Sending love and strength to you and family through this difficult time.