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John Hardenne died on November 20th, 2023 at Kingston General Hospital, surrounded by the love of family and friends.
John was born in 1937 in the Ardennes region of Belgium. The outbreak of WWII shaped his childhood and instilled in him a deep sense of compassion for others. At the age of 18, he left his homeland for Canada. His arrival in Winnipeg in winter, alone and virtually penniless, gave him pause, one of very few he would experience in life.
His ability to connect with people helped him land a job in Saskatoon. He first worked at CFNS as a French radio announcer where he met his future in-laws. In 1960 he purchased their business, Sinfonia Travel Bureau. Under his visionary direction and with the financial prowess of his brother-in-law, Marc, Sinfonia flourished. It was a family affair. In addition to Marc, John’s wife Roswitha, his sisters, Jacqueline and Myriam, his sons Claude and Anthony, and his daughter Jennifer, all worked at the agency over the years. In its heyday, it comprised 15 travel agencies and a staff of 70 and was considered a pioneer in the Canadian travel industry.
In the 1980’s he hosted Destinations with John Hardenne, a television show, which enjoyed a cult-like following thanks to his French accent and charisma. He also established Harden & Huyse Belgian Chocolates. Initially run by Anthony, later by Claude and his wife Charlene, the company continues to this day.
John loved life and faced each day with a sense of excitement. He thought of himself as lucky, but he manifested his good fortune through the power of positive thinking. He knew how to nurture friendships. He loved to laugh, have fun and tell stories. He told the best stories! Few people live their lives with the same energy and enthusiasm as John.
His proudest accomplishments were his children Claude, Anthony and Jennifer and his grandchildren Dominic, Simone and Madeline. Losing his baby son Jason was his greatest heartbreak.
John endured a long illness with courage and optimism. He spent his final days at KGH, cared for by the wonderful staff on Kidd 9. The family extends special thanks to Dr. Jill Dudebout (John’s niece). In lieu of flowers, make plans to visit an old friend. John would have loved that. A memorial service will be held at a later date.
I'm sure everyone has someone come to mind when I say everyone knows that one person who you see far too much of and they constantly bring you negative energy; perhaps a coworker or a nagging relative. John Hardenne was the antithesis of this, and I can safely and securely say that I never not once felt like I had enough time in his presence. He had joie de vivre in spades and spread the infection of positive energy everywhere he set his friendly feet. He genuinely left you feeling like he was not only interested in your life but interested in how to get your life to its best potential. He carried an inspiring demeanor with involvement in the arts scene. It wasn't until after his passing away that I learned of his travel showcase Destinations; a common ground with another hero of mine, Anthony Bourdain. I know great people are always heroes to those loved ones close with them in their everyday life; their children, their grandchildren, their neighbours. But I think it a true compliment when that greatness rises out of the inner circle and is recognizable by those seeking that best-practice in life, that refinement that dollars cannot make but a valued experience can. In recent memory, my other 3 heroes of such magnitude who are with us in the flesh no longer are Gordon Downie (The Tragically Hip), Neil Peart (Rush), John Mann (Spirit Of The West) & the aforementioned Anthony Bourdain. Men whose pure intention to enrich the lives of the common man remain a flame that cannot be dimmed. Life is short in one lens but it is long in the other. One's life experience is better enriched, I believe, by multiple points of inspiration and not merely one. So, while he was not my only hero, John Hardenne was my latest hero. And that's something worth writing about.
I was on a Pilgrim Journey when I learned of John's death. Although I have already extended my condolences to Rosewitha and family, when I returned and read the glowing words of so many I felt I needed to add to this glorious litany. I had the privilege to know Rosewitha Sydow's family when as a seminarian I worked at Sinfonia in the late 1950s. In fact I was aware of the early romance of John and Rosewitha! After John took over the travel business and made it flourish I had the encouragement and privilege to lead many Pilgrim groups around the world that we designed together. This continued for decades and in 1999 it was John who supported by efforts in founding and developing a Ministry to Tourism. I have recorded at length this effort in my published memoir- "Pilgrim Journeys". I can only underline the many comments so sincerely submitted in these Messages of Condolences. It has been a privilege to know John and the family. His unique expression of faith and love is indeed a profound statement of a true Christian vision. May the memorial and marker of the remains of our brother allow many not to forget this special gift of John. Blessings to Rosewitha and family and to all who were addressed by our dear brother, John Hardenne. Respectfully, Ralph
As friends and next-door neighbors of the Hardenne family in Saskatoon, we were saddened to learn of John's lengthy illness and passing. John was larger than life. Far beyond being a major contributor to Saskatoon's business life, John was gregarious, the proverbial life of the party, and enjoyed his family, friends, travel, and life in general to the fullest. We are sending huge condolences to Roswitha, Anthony, Claude, Jen, and their families. Dan Shapiro and Marie Lannoo
I am so, so sorry about John’s death—and for its so enduring effect upon the family, for, as Elena says, he was full of life—that twinkle in his eye that was always there. John came to Canada with virtually nothing and made his family’s fortune—and he married Roswitha, who though born in Berlin in May, 1945 (!), equally made the family’s fortune. We met at a wedding in Saint Thomas More College, Saskatoon, in such a memorable way and we loved their house in Saskatoon—and the chocolate shop too, of course. It is now already 22 years since we left Canada, and I can only treasure the other occasions that we had to be together in those years—here in Atlanta, also in Myrtle Beach, and finally in Boston. I am so grateful that we were able to meet in Boston just so recently. That was unforgettable—a real gift especially now that John has gone. I pray for you, Roswitha, and the whole family. Since you did not want us to send flowers, might we instead send you an air ticket to visit us in Atlanta? With love, Kevin.
It has been a month since John died, and, even for us, his friends who live so far away from his family, the loss has been life-changing. To think of John is to marvel at the scale of his dreams, achievements and generosity -- he was a remarkable person, a kind that you meet very rarely in life. To find the right words to explain how we saw John is not easy – I want to escape banal phrases. What did I personally love about John most? I loved talking to him and his immediate understanding of the issues that were not always easy. Very quickly one knew that John is intelligent, practical, kind and very intuitive. If there was a way to help the situation, to correct it, John would be the first to see it. For this reason, his friendship was priceless. I also loved the spirit of joy and celebration that was so manifest in him and his life. And then there was the beauty of John and Roswitha’s life – not only their appearance which was striking, but the beauty of their surroundings, their journeys – the beauty they brought into people’s lives. All I can say – an extraordinary man left our immediate world. Everything in life is replaceable except real quality. John was a man of the rarest quality, and near him was the kindest, fairy-tale like woman – it I were a painter I would draw her. Everything these people touched with love became more beautiful, and they touched our life and brought into it their gifts. It took me some time to find words, and these are not adequate. With the greatest sympathy I send my love to his children and grandchild; his spirit is in them and with them. And with real love I think of Roswitha who was and is the partner of his life. I know she is wise, but I also know the scale of her loss. May the Lord bless her and keep her – both Roswitha and her family. Our beloved friend, a Russian Orthodox priest Aleksandr Men used to say: life finishes not with death, but with the resurrection. With doubt, uncertainty, and hope we believe. And when we think of John, we know that the man of such love for life and its gifts cannot disappear – his scale is too large to be erased by death. Love, Elena
Dear Roswitha, Claude, Anthony, and Jennifer, I am so sad to find out about John's passing. I will always remember the great times he and Roswitha spent with my mom and dad at many parties and dinners. We have loved Harden and Huyse chocolates dating back decades and my mom (Betty Lou) was very happy working at Sinfonia back in the day. I send big hugs to you all during this very difficult and emotional time.
Dear Rosie and Family, My world paused for a moment when I learned of John's passing. Such a generous, engaged, and caring man. John loved life and his effervescent generosity touched all those around him. He excelled at cooking, and, with his life partner Rosie, brought that food, conversation, and laughter to an exquisitely appointed table. I feel so fortunate to have been invited to share in some of those wonderful meals and conversations. I believe a real measure of the impact of our lives on others is the joy and care with which we live and freely share with others. John did that all that and more with such grace.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you,we plan to visit an old friend and have a few laughs! Thinking of your whole family at this time.
I was saddened to hear of John’s passing. My sincere condolences to all his family. He had such a personable and charismatic energy. I really don’t remember ever seeing him without a smile on his face during my time at Sinfonia Travel.
Dear Claude, Charlene, Madeline and the Hardenne Family, I had the pleasure of interacting with John on a number of occasions at Harden & Huyse regarding usage of the upstairs space. He had a great business mind. Little did I know that John was a self made man who could make his visions become a reality. He was a Renaissance man who excelled at new careers and wasn't afraid to try something new. He was an excellent role model for Claude. I know he will be missed dearly by his entire family and the friends he made along the way. My sincere condolences go out to the Hardenne family. John Hardenne May 4, 1937 - November 20, 2023 ~ REST IN PEACE ~
It is with great sadness that we heard of the passing of John. We had the great pleasure of knowing him from the days when he and Roswitha visited friends in Chiangmai/Thailand. He was a wonderful person full of energy, generosity and friendship. We very much enjoyed the days when he showed us parts of Eastern Canada. John was definitely one of the good ones whom we will dearly miss. Our sincere condolences go to Roswitha and her family. Anette, Gert and our grandson Shane
We are so sorry about the departure of John. An incredible human who was so kind with everybody We will miss him greatly Sincere condolence to your family Patrick and Francine Fustier
Reflecting on our times together with John, brings comfort and such grand memories. I’m just so grateful that I made your Hawaiian trip, mine too. And, saw you all in Canada just a few months ago. John was so proud of his family, his stories of family were filled with love and gratitude. He told me years ago, “If I die tomorrow, my headstone would read, Here lies a happy man”. John knew how to be generous, give a compliment, make you laugh and give advice…but most of all, and this goes out to Rosie and family as well, he made me/you feel welcome and loved. We will dearly miss you John. Our deepest sympathies to your beautiful family. Rest in Peace. Natasha, Caiden and Berni
Our thoughts are with you, Rosie, Jennifer, Claude, Anthony, and the entire Hardenne family, during this difficult time. “May John’s Memory be a Blessing” It was such an honour and a pleasure to know the incomparable John Hardenne. How fortunate we were to gather around John and Rosie’s dining room table, at one of their elegant salons, where we discussed history, travel, literature, politics, art ,and music , while enjoying a sumptuous repast prepared by John, which could rival Bocuse. Many words spring to mind when attempting to describe dear John—- gentleman, distinguished, sophisticated, curious, intellectual, bon vivant, connoisseur, gourmet, and to all who knew him , John personified the term “Joie de Vivre”. John’s kindness, untold generosity, and compassion were evident to all who had the good fortune to make his acquaintance. “I/We shall not see his like again” Hamlet—Shakespeare Rest In Peace, dear friend. Mary-Lee Konnry Jack Cronin
Roswitha and Family We have all had the pleasure of John’s warmth and friendship. All who had the pleasure of knowing him are better for it. Gerry McKay
Roswitha and family, I was so saddened to read of John’s recent passing. I worked for John at New Horizon in the early 80’s, and he was one of the best managers I ever had. Pushed me beyond my comfort zone to the extent that I spent the rest of my career in incentive travel. And discovered that wonderful Belgian chocolate! Our deepest sympathy to you all. Daphne & Bill Routledge (Calgary)
It is with sadness that I read the passing of John. My deepest sympathies, dear Roswitha. It was a pleasure working with you for a short time on the Condo Board, and I recall what gracious hosts you two were. Losing a love one is hard to deal with, but we can keep them alive in the many wonderful memories we have of them.
We are saddened by the loss of the man who set the bar in the travel industry in Saskatchewan. The opportunity to work with John was a time we remember fondly. Our deepest condolences to Roswitha and the family.
We are saddened by the loss of the man who set the bar in the travel industry in Saskatchewan. The opportunity to work with John was a time we remember fondly. Our deepest condolences to Roswitha and the family.
My condolences to Roswitha and the Hardenne family.
My condolences to the Hardenne family from Christiane Van Aelst and family
John was a force of nature with lots of energy and passion for life. We were sad to hear of his passing and we want to send our sincere condolences to Roswitha, Anthony, Claude, Jennifer, Myriam, Jacqueline and Marc and the rest of his family. RIP, John.
The sad news of Jean's passing came to Anne and myself as a result of a visit to the building on Division Street. A wonderful person full of "joie de vivre" and friendship. We enjoyed our chats over many coffees at Harden & Huyse and at our various abodes. Our sincerest condolences to Rosie, Claude and Jennifer on your loss. We will always keep his warmth and engaging personality in our hearts.
The sad news of Jean's passing came to Anne and myself as a result of a visit to the building on Division Street. A wonderful person full of "joie de vivre" and friendship. We enjoyed our chats over many coffees at Harden & Huyse and at our various abodes. Our sincerest condolences to Rosie, Claude and Jennifer on your loss. We will always keep his warmth and engaging personality in our hearts.
What a wonderful photo - it totally captures John! We count our blessings to have known John and to have witnessed and enjoyed his energy, enthusiasm, love of others - especially his family, his infectious joy of travel and cook supreme. To our dear Rosie and family we extend our deepest condolences and this quote, “grief never ends, but it changes. It’s a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith……it is the price of love.”
Althougth he never baptizep me, he will always be my godfather.Im very grateful to have known and admired him. Jonh will always be in my thoughts. My condolences to Rosi and the family
Our condolences to the Hardenne's Family in name of Perdomo's Family . We will miss him
Rosie, Jenny, Claude, Anthony - It is hard to believe a world in which a very real & warm John Hardenne is no longer here. It has been my great pleasure & good fortune to have known you all. Joan
It was such a shock to come across this obituary. I know it comes to us all but it seems so unexpected when the person was as alive and outgoing as John was. He certainly had a vibrant, long and fulfilled life and will be remembered by so many for the great person he was. My sincerest condolences on your loss, and that of your family. I know he'll be sorely missed. You're in my prayers.
John was a very kind and lovely man. Our condolences to Rosie & family.
To Claude and family, My sincere condolences by the passing of your father. I imagine it broke the direct family link with Belgium for you. But as long as you are proud of this connection, it will stay with you in your mind. Paul Van Pul - Saskatoon
When someone we love dies, there is no way to avoid sadness and having a void in the heart, but I have peace and comfort that my eternal friend Jonh will be in a sacred place. At this very difficult time, my prayers and my thoughts are with the Hardenne Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you today. I often think of my babysitting days with fondness. Jean had a joi de vivre that was hard to beat. Roswitha and family my condolences go out to you and your family. May your happy memories sustain you in the upcoming days.
I feel as if we knew each other well. John was my neighbor in Cobourg for awhile and I do not believe you could have a more gentle and kind man who would chat with you about anything and be very knowledgeable and honest with his words. Always laughing and ever grounded. You will be remembered John, S. Burns
Dear Claude, Charlene, Madeline and the Hardenne Family, I had the pleasure of interacting with John on a number of occasions at Harden & Huyse regarding usage of the upstairs space. He had a great business mind. Little did I know that John was a self made man who could make his visions become a reality. He was a Renaissance man who excelled at new careers and wasn't afraid to try something new. He was an excellent role model for Claude. I know he will be missed dearly by his entire family and the friends he made along the way. My sincere condolences go out to the Hardenne family. John Hardenne May 4, 1937 - November 20, 2023 ~ REST IN PEACE ~
Rosie, my heart hurts to read of your profound loss. I loved John. What a teacher of how to embrace life! His generosity and capacity to connect, gather and unite people, make friends and nurture them over the years was remarkable- uniquely John. I am grateful to have been your neighbour and privileged to have shared at your table. Thank you John. My condolences to every member of the Hardenne family and all who held John dear.
Having been a frequent flying customer of Sinfonia and once interviewed on Destinations we were delighted to continue in touch with John and Roswitha after they moved to Ontario. It was always a wonderful time when we had the chance to spend time with them. Our sincere condolences to Roswitha, Claude, Anthony, Jennifer and their families. Howard and Esther
A big man has departed!! John always lit up a room with his zest for life, family and connection. His charisma was palpable. His death has left a hole in many people’s lives, from his center out … my deepest sympathies, to all the Hardenne’s, the Dudes, and Picard, in a most difficult part of life for those left behind!! With love and warmth, Sabrina ❤️✨
Les mots sont tellement futiles dans d'aussi tristes cironstances. Sachez seulement, chers Roswitha, Jennifer, Claude, Anthony et toute la fammille, que je pense à vous et que je partage votre peine. Je vous embrasse, Myriam.
John was a dynamic force with great vision. I, Elfriede, enjoyed working, for many years, with him and members of his family, at Sinfonia Travel. Siegfried and I are very saddened to hear of his passing and extend our deepest condolences to the members of his family.
John Your life was a blessing Your memory a treasure... You are loved beyond words And missed beyond measure. Best wishes the Sheppards to the Hardene family
Condolences to the hardenne family from all of us at pine ridge nursery
John was such great caring man. John really loved life and lived it to its fullest. We will truly miss John
Dear Rosie, Claude, Char and Maddie, Please accept my sincere sympathy at this time. I will be holding you all in my thoughts and prayers. With love and blessings, Kristiane
I had the privilege of knowing John in his senior years. He will forever set a benchmark of how to live and love life. Rosie, Jenn, Fred and to all of your family members my heartfelt condolences at this sad time.
We raise a glass and shed a tear for the loss of a man who was larger than life itself. A smile and a kiss was a greeting guarantee and we always looked forward to the latest adventure story! We are grateful to have known you. Thanks for sharing your energy with us, John. Lots of love to your family (we think of Jenn and Fred as part of ours) during this difficult time of goodbye. Annette, Peter, Jake and Tuck
Always a smile and greeting of welcome, John would say "come in, come in"! He asked us how we were doing before we could ask him. Rose and John have been wonderful neighbors to us. John had a unique hospitality, sharing his friends, his life's work and travel while presenting us with lovely dinners. We send our sincere condolences to you Rose and to your wonderful family and dearest friends.
My dear Rosuitha, Dear Jennifer and Frederic, Dear Claude, Charlene and Madeline Dear Anthony and Denise and your children, Dear all, Please receive from all Meens Family our sincere condolences. We all miss John…and we share your pain… there is no word enough strong to relieve, but we all pray for John and for you. John was John, he was so fantastic, so original, so bright, so generous, so kind, we miss him so much. I will ever remind the present he gave me, one of the best thing in my live, he just make me open my eyes on the world and the reality when I was just a young boy… I thanks him so much for that and he gave me also a special present with you, all his family, Rosuitha, Jennifer, Claude and Anthony…my Canadian cousins, I love you so much and I regret not to be present with you, With all my Love, Laurent
Rosie, My sincere condolences on your loss. John was one of the good ones and someone I admired and whose opinion I always sought. He had a wonderful sense of self and a remarkable wit. My thoughts go out to your and your family.
So very sorry to hear of John's passing. He was a lovely man and I truly enjoyed his many stories. Condolences to all who loved him
So sorry to hear about Johns passing he will be sadly missed by so many John always had a happy smile for everyone as well as one of his special home cooked meals which so many of us enjoyed John and Rosie were always there with a helping hand John rest in peace you have not left us Love to all the family your X Neighbor Theresa
We always enjoyed a friendly chat with John at Harden and Huyse in Cobourg. Our thoughts are with all of you at this sad time. Jeanette and Wayne