John Walker Hayden

I will miss John greatly. He coached me in minor fastball back in the day and was a great role model. We were then on the opposite sides of the basketball court for years when John coached at Cobourg East, myself at Cobourg West. When the schools joined, John and I coached together for the last six years of my career, in boys and girls basketball. We both loved that young Ben was a regular presence on our bench beside his Grandpa. He was a true gentleman, good natured, kind and caring, and he will be missed by so many of his former students, players and colleagues. To Adrianna, John and Julia, Anna and I wish you comfort going forward and adjusting to life without John. We will miss him.

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Don and I wish to thank all who expressed condolence on the passing of my brother John Hayden. My brother was clearly well loved and respected by friends and family, and we all shall miss him very much. Dodie Hayden Pirie

Dear Adriana, I have many happy memories of you and John when I taught at Terry Fox school many years ago. Your son John was one of my favourite students. It was a real pleasure knowing your family. You have my deepest condolences. Maureen Gignac (Linton)

I knew him as Mr.Hayden at terry fox , to see this news is very sad he was a great teacher loved basketball took our class to Toronto raptor games , he really knew how to handle a bunch of rambunctious kids, he was always happy and upbeat respectful and kind , Condolences to the extended family , rest well till we meet again

Dear Mrs. Hayden and family. We were very saddened by the news of Mr. Haydens passing. Our deepest condolences to you and all your family. I met Mr. Hayden when I was 10 years old and a student at Burnham School. He was always kind and cared about his students. Basketball was a huge part of his life. In 1999 my children attended Terry Fox Public School. I was 33 at the time and soon found out that Mr. Hayden was a teacher at Terry Fox. My boys loved all sports, but Basketball was one of their favorite games. They both had the opportunity to have him as their Basketball coach. He taught them so many things on the court. We all have fond memories. Mr. Hayden was a wonderful soul and he will be missed by so many people. Sincerely. The Pitre-Lanys Family. Brooks, Ryan and Briauna.

dear Adrianna , so sorry to hear of your loves passing ! i remember John's calm and heartfelt demeanor towards everyone at the old Hawkin's on pine street ... meak not weak but genuine love for others . all were on John's team , staff and students ... he made all of us better people , citizens of this earth ! fond memories . please share with your children ... paul v.

So sad to hear this news. Dave played fastball and football with John and I coached girl's softball against him. Always a gentleman. Judi and Dave Peers

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Adriana, we are so deeply saddened to hear about John's passing. He was such a kind man, we always enjoyed seeing him at our clinic. We are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

I am so sorry for the passing of Mr. Hayden. He taught me from grade 4 to grade 8 at Terry Fox and was one of the best teachers I have ever had. He truly loved teaching and it showed. He made the classroom safe for me and made his students feel cared for. He was an amazing person and will never be forgotten. I would not be where I am today without his support. I will always keep him in my heart. xo

I’m very sorry to hear of Mr.Hayden passing. Mr. Hayden was my favorite teacher at Terry Fox, he helped me throughout school and always made me feel good about myself even through my struggles. I will keep him and his family in my prayers at this time❤️❤️

I worked with John in the Cobourg Minor Soccer Club and the Lakeshore Minor Basketball League. He always had the best interests of the kids in the program. He took extra time to help children who were disadvantaged. John was one of the key people to start a Minor Basketball program in Cobourg.

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Dear Adriana and family, I was deeply saddened to learn of John's passing and eternally grateful to have known and worked with him. What a gift to the teaching profession. He was exemplary! He modelled the best in teaching. His students adored him and those of us who had the privilege of observing his skill, compassion and humour when working with students learned what teaching excellence entails. He will be sadly missed yet the fond memories of family, students and colleagues will endure. Thank you John for the example you set for so many of us. Sincerely, Helen Turnbull

We would like to offer our condolences to John's family at this sad time.

Adriana - we were so saddened to hear of John's passing. He taught our son Michael in grade 4 at Burnham School and was such a caring and compassionate teacher. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time.

Adriana, John, Gabrielle and family, I was sadden to read about the loss of John. He clearly was a kind and compassionate man, who had a positive influence on many people during his life. Adriana, I know you will have the love and support needed to help you during this difficult time. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Adriana, John,Julia, & Ben….. Such Beautiful tributes from so many people. show how loved & appreciated your husband, father & Nonno was to so many young individuals. John helped people become the best they could be & had such a huge influence & will be remembered forever. Those memories & stories over the years will keep John alive& warm your hearts as John watches over each of you…till you meet again. Blessings for strength & peace.??

To Adriana..John & Julia So sorry to hear of John passing away. John..the Havelock Kids..my Sister and I played on Havelock Street and rode our bikes in the school yard. We had so much fun. Thinking about you Deborah and Allan

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My sincere condolences are with you and your family during this time. John was an incredible man. His kindness will always be remembered.

Dear Adriana, John and Julia, we are so sorry to hear of John’s passing. Thinking of you all at this very sad time. Rick and Karen Stinson.

Adrienne & Family, I am sending my deepest sympathies to you all during this difficult time , I was saddened to hear about Mr Hayden, He was such a wonderful teacher , coach & Mentor when I was growing up , & He helped me alot throughout the years , I will always be greatful for all he did for Me , he will be greatly missed but never forgotten ? may He rest in peace

Adriana and family. So saddened to hear of John’s passing. John was an outstanding educator who truly made a difference. May memories of John and the love of surrounding family give you strength in days ahead. Thinking of you, rest in peace John.

My condolences to his family and friends. He was a great teacher.

Dear Adriana & family, We are so sorry for the loss of John. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. Stay strong and know that we are thinking of you.

Mr Hayden was my grade 3 teacher at Burnhamn Street Public School in 1978. I remember saying to him on the last day of school “ thank you for the good year”. He said “that is the nicest thing anyone has said to me”. Great teacher!

A donation has been made in John’s memory, to Ed’s House Hospice

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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On behalf of Theresa and I we would like to send our condolences to the Hayden family. John was very kind with his time, helped me along the way with our pitchers and offered some terrific advise along the way to share with the pitchers and for the team. May he rest in peace.

To the Hayden Family, Please accept our deepest condolences to each and everyone of you. We were lucky enough to have known John thru sports and as family friends for the past fifty plus years. He was the epitome of a gentleman, we would often meet up and reminisce of old times, he always had a smile and would put a smile on our faces. Gone but never forgotten. Keep your memories close and he will always be with you!!!!

Adriana, I’m so sorry to see that John has passed. He is one of the teachers that I remember most because he always had a smile for everyone. He was a lovely man.

Adriana & family. Sorry to hear of John's passing. Our thoughts are with you. Ron & Lynne

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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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There are a handful of boyhood friends who had profound and lasting impacts on the type of person I aspired to be, and John was one of them. He and Herman Jensen and I hung out together in public school days when I first arrived in Cobourg, and John even then struck me as the eptome of strength and goodness. He was a wicked softball pitcher. We went our separate ways and 60 years has passed since I last hung out with John. But I have never forgotten him and what his example taught be about true decency. Rest in peace, John.

Would like to extend my condolences to the family and friends. Mr. Hayden was a teacher of mine at Terry Fox back in the 2000s. If it wasn’t for him, I don’t think I would have even finished high school, let alone graduating college to then, fulfilling my dream of working in the medical field.. this world definitely lost a very kind, special, and amazing soul.

Adriana, John J, Julia, and family, We want to express to you our deepest sympathy at this loss in your family. John was such a lovely person who has had a large impact within our community. At this difficult time we wish you strength and peace. Our thoughts are with you.

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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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Adriana and family, my sincere condolences. John was a kind, sincere gentleman . My thought and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

He was a great man to my kids he will be miss by so many people my condolence to the family

Adriana and family. I am so sorry to hear about John's passing. The world needs more like him. Not only was he a dedicated educator, coach and father, he was a kind and compassionate man giving back to his community. Hugs to all!!

Adriana I am so sorry to hear about John, I just heard on the radio, my heart breaks for you and family, hugs❤❤

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Our sons Mike, James and David thought the world of Mr. Hayden. He was so instrumental in passing his love of Basketball to all three of our children. He made a huge difference in their lives and how they see the world. Thank you, thank you, thank you. May you be at peace now knowing that you made a huge difference in so many lives.

I'm so sorry to hear this. Mr.Hayden was my teacher in grade 4 and 8 at Burnham as well was my volleyball coach. I will forever have wonderful memories of him. He was a great man.

We were so very sorry to hear of John's passing Adriana. So many great memories with your family. Our heartfelt condolences to you Adriana and your family. Our love to all. May he RIP

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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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My sincere condolences to you John, Gabby, your mom, and the rest of your family.

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Julia, Ben and family So sorry to hear of your dad's passing. He was a lovely man and so very involved in Ben's activities. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Please don't hesitate to contact us if you need anything. ~ Leanne, Dave, Hudson and Olive

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Dear Adriana, I am so sad to hear of the passing of your dear partner John. Sending my love and sympathy to you and your family and wishing you strength in the days to come. John was a truly wonderful man and he will be missed by our community.

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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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Donation has been made to Ed's House Hospice in memory of John.

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It is with great sadness that I learn of John's passing. I worked with him at Terry Fox PS. He was always kind and a mentor to all the students and staff. I had great respect for his work ethic and as an overall human being. He loved his basketball and spent many hours coaching the kids and taking them to Blue Jays games. Rest in peace John you earned you wings.

Dear Adriana, John and Julia - We are holding you close to our hearts at this difficult time. John was a huge presence throughout my own career as a teacher beginning with time spent with him at Dr. Hawkins. John's patience, guidance, experience and sense of humour made an indelible impact on me and I tried to model my own teaching and coaching after his style. When we would occasionally run into each other after his retirement it was fittingly in gyms as this is where I saw him especially shine. I hope you all can find some small comfort in knowing how much John was loved and cherished and all of the lives he touched in a lasting positive way.

Adriana, Julia and John, I am so sorry to hear of John’s passing. The world has lost a truly good man. I will always remember John as a kind person who genuinely cared about people and was always ready to help when asked. He will be missed by many.

I was so sorry to read this. I have such fond memories of my time with Mr. Hayden at Dr. Hawkins School in Grade 7 & 8. Thinking about the entire Hayden family on the loss of a kind, knowledgeable and wonderful person.

Dear John: Please accept my condolences on the loss of your Father. My heart goes out to you and your family in this sorrowful time. May your dad rest in peace. Wendy

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Sorry to hear of Johns passing ..sure was a caring ,giving gentleman.. Keep all your great memories close ..to get you through this difficult time Violet

Adriana, John Jr., Julia & families: So sorry to hear that John has passed. He was such a wonderful man. Dealt with all of you over the years I worked at Scotiabank. Think of him often & remember him always. He will be greatly missed by all who had the fortune to know him.

We were so sorry to hear of John's passing. He was such a giving person. Wishing your family well at this difficult time.

Adriana & family my deepest condolences. I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Hayden's passing. He was a great teacher and coach. He challenged me to be the best I could be. He saw the potential in me that I didn't know I had. I always appreciated that. He was a great guy and he will be truly missed.

We will miss you John. You were a big part of our lives. You left a lasting impression in our hearts and we'll be speaking of you always. Our sincerest condolences to Adriana, John J., Julia, Benjamin, Gabriella, and Frank

I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. He was very influential in so many lives. He will never be forgotten.

Adriana and Family. I am so sorry to hear this news. John was a lovely man and the world is a better place having had him in it. I will include you in my prayers, and your loving memories will sustain you. God Bless.

Sending My Deepest Condolences to the Hayden Family. When I was in Terry Fox school , Mr. John Hayden was one the best Teachers any student could ask for. Mr. Hayden and I did pretty well all the sports like football, baseball , and Mr. Hayden's absolutely favorite Basketball. Helping being the ass. coach for the basketball team at terry Fox for one season, and got a chance at the end of the season to go to a Toronto Raptor Game with the whole team. After my Public and high school years. About a year or two ago , I got a chance to meet up with Mr. Hayden got to talk to him for a few hours and got to tell him about where I was Working and living . ~ REST IN PEACE My Friend and until we see each other again . ~ Charles Dunk

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I’l knew Mr. Hayden as a teacher and coach and have fond memories of him. My condolences to the family.

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The world has lost an extraordinary individual. John was a man of brilliance, compassion, wit, and wisdom - he stood out as one of the finest teachers I've ever worked with. I will forever treasure memories of him and the way he made his students feel uniquely special. Our heartfelt condolences to Adriana, John, Julia, Ben, and the entire circle of family and friends. Sending love from Catherine, Michael and Charlotte Kerr

Dear Adrianna, John and Julia My sincere condolences for your loss. John was a caring and inspiration teacher as well as caring and considerate person. He will be missed.

Sending all of my love to Adriana and family. I have many fond memories of Mr. Hayden growing up. Such a loving family. Thinking of you all during this difficult time. All my love Alison

I’m very sorry to hear of Johns passing. My condolences to Adriana and family. We coached the all Ontario ball championship with Bob Barkhouse. That was a great week end I never forgot. The town gave us jackets for the win . He will forever be remembered. Are prayers with you and your family. Fro the Washburn family.

My sincere condolences are extended to Adriana, John J. Julia, Benjamin, and Family. John was an outstanding and supportive colleague, an excellent educator, and an exceptionally kind person. I was fortunate to re-unite and reminisce with John and Adriana during the winter and spring months when our grandsons were competing at sports tournaments. John, who volunteered after retirement, was a basketball coach for our eldest grandsons. They continue to praise the efforts of Mr. Hayden as they developed skills. John will always be fondly remembered by family and friends and respected for his teaching and mentoring of youth. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care. Brenda

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hayden family during this most difficult time. The Shipton Family

Sorry for your loss. Knew John through ball.

We were privileged to know this very special person, as were many others. He will be missed greatly, fondly remembered and live on in his wonderful family. Our thoughts and prayers go with you. Thank you, John for all you did for us, others and the community.

So sorry for your loss. He will be missed.

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Adriana and family we were shocked to hear of the death of John. Our thoughts and prayers are with all the family at this time. Bob and Susan Clement

Your dad was a great person who touched so many lives, including mine. I will miss him. Mr Hayden will never be truly gone—he will live on in the love he planted in his family and friends hearts. Our deepest condolences and love to the family and friends of John.

Adriana & family our deepest condolences. John contributed in a meaningful way to students in KPRDSB. John exemplified the character & skills to teach our students with the most challenging needs. May John rest in peace. Ron & Joan McKelvey

Dearest Adriana and Family. We are so heartbroken broken for you and your family for the loss of your beloved John. Your love and commitment to one another and to family is strong and evident to everyone who knows you. John had a beautiful smile, and a kind, compassionate heart… he will be missed. Remember all the wonderful years you had together. Praying you take comfort and strength in those memories.

So sorry for your loss.He was a great guy.

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Adriana and family, so sorry to hear of the passing of John. He was a wonderful neighbour and we have had the privilege of knowing him for the past 13 years. We know your hearts are heavy with sadness at this time but they will lighten because of all the wonderful memories of this kind, warm, caring and a very very special person. He will be truly missed. Che riposi in pace.

Sending condolences to the Hayden family. I had the privilege of having Mr. Hayden as a teacher at Burnham Public School in grade 4 and grade 8.

Sorry for your loss. Thinking of you Adriana ❤️

Adriana and family, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of John. He was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed. My condolences to you all.

Sending condolences to Adriana and the Hayden family. I had the privilege of having Mr. Hayden as a teacher at Burnham Public School and was fortunate to cross paths again as a fellow teacher at Terry Fox. An outstanding and compassionate educator and a pillar in our community, he will be missed.

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Dear Adriana and family, I was sad to learn of John's passing. We worked together occasionally at Terry Fox during my time there. He was that kind and gentle man that so many friends have remembered. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Sincerely, Elaine

Adriana, we met your family when we moved to Cobourg in 1985. You all have been part of our family and lives since then. We are devastated with the news of John’s passing and extend our heart felt condolences.

It is very difficult to say goodbye to someone for whom you have the utmost respect and admiration. When I think of John and my interactions with him, the term "true gentleman" stands out. My deepest condolences to all of the Hayden family.

Adriana, John and Julia so sorry to hear of John's passing. Our condolences to you and all family and friends.

Adriana, John J. and Julia..I am very sorry for your loss. May your memories bring many blessings.

I am sorry for your loss. John is at peace now and cradled in the loving arms of Jesus

Thinking of you all during this very difficult time. Sending much love and strength to Adriana, John J, Julia and Ben. XO

Our family is saddened for your loss, here for you if needed and hold good thoughts of a life well lived. Kim, Emily and Ethan.

So sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

Deeply saddened to hear of Mr. (John) Hayden's passing. A great, fun and strategic basketball coach growing up at Terry Fox PS in my youthful years. An idolized teacher to my brother, Charles, who loved every minute in his classroom, John made a big impact on my brother's life. Sorry for your loss Mrs. (Adriana) Hayden and family, Lots of love, William.

Adriana and family. Most sincere condolences from my mom, Betty Morris. She and my father, Stan go back many years with the Hayden family, being wonderful friends of Alma and John. May you treasure the wonderful memories you have and take comfort in these.

So sorry to hear of John's passing he was a great teacher, coach and mentor to many and touch many lives my deepest condolences to all his family .

Adriana, John J , Julia, I am so sorry to hear about John. He will be tremendously missed by so many for he touched peoples' lives in such a caring and compassionate manner. Working with John at Terry Fox I saw this first hand every day. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

Adriana & Family: My condolences to each of you. You have lost your patriarch who was always so proud of his family. My prayers and thoughts are with you. The Greatest Coach of all has called him home. He is probably getting ready to coach God's Angels in Heaven. He will be so missed by so many!

Dear Adriana, John J, Julia and families - I am so sad to hear of John's passing. He was such a special man and we have all been privileged to have had him in our lives. John was our pitching coach for the Cobourg Angels in the 80's and early 90's. Starting in the gym in April through to September, he dedicated his time to our team (2 games, 1 practice a week and tournaments) while raising his own family. His patience and knowledge of the game enriched our team not only in wins but in personal growth. I reconnected with John recently when he was writing a story on his fellow Angel coaches - Again, giving of his time to enhance our sporting community. John was a special soul who touched many lives. He will be missed.

Thinking of you Adriana, Julia and John with much sadness. Please know that you are in our thoughts and we’re sending prayers and strength. John was a great guy and we have fond memories of our teaching days with him. Love, Jim and Lorna

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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

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Adriana, John J. and Julia, we had known of John's illness and hoped and prayed for him to overcome it, but alas, not to be. We will remember him for his time spent coaching Alex in soccer and his friendship over the years. A special reach out to Benjamin, who like his Grandfather was a great teacher, as our Grandson, Nolan has benefited from his grade 6 mentoring of a kindergarten lad. You learned from one of the best., Ben Sending love and prayers to you all. The Cole family

John My sincere sympathy for the loss of your father. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

Julia,Ben so sorry for your loss.Will be in our prayers.

To the Hayden Family Our condolences on John's passing. The last time I saw him was at his pitching partner's funeral from our Dairy Queen Junior softball team. You could always see that he would eventually coach once he finished playing. John was an intelligent and polite gentleman who always had a positive attitude. I remember playing basketball in his yard and then we played cards till the early hours of the morning. A great friend who was taken too soon. RIP John

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Dear Adriana & Family Sorry to read of John’s passing. Deepest Sympathy God Bless

Adriana and family. I am so saddened to hear of John’s passing. It was a pleasure working with you both at Terry Fox, and remember his baseball days pitching. He will always be missed, but keeping your memories close will help with your pain.

Adriana, John & Julia, I am so sorry to hear of John’s passing. He was a very helpful colleague when I taught with him at Burnham School. He was a very compassionate and kind person who always had time for a chat. My thoughts are with you at this time. Remember the good times!

John has left such an indelible mark on myself and my entire family. As a colleague of my Mother's, I got to know him as a child and family friend. I was blessed to absorb his knowledge and passion for basketball, while he coached and taught me. I carry lessons from those days with me today and have passed them on to my daughters. I was then fortunate to see him in the role of Godfather to my sister and also as a friend as I grew into an adult. I always enjoyed every opportunity to catch up with John and soak in some of his wisdom. His caring, thoughtful way of life made you feel so important to him. My condolences and love to Adriana, John and Julia. John will forever be missed and never forgotten.

Sorry for your loss Adriana, John J and Julia. John was inspiring, supportive and was always there for both staff and students. A wonderful and kind soul. Hsiu

I am so very sorry to hear about John’s passing. As a colleague I was able to witness the ability John had to engage students and make everyone feel valued and capable. As a friend, I will always remember that little glint in John’s smile - it always made me wonder what he had been up to! He will be missed.

To the family of Mr. Hayden, My condolences on your loss. Mr. Hayden was one of my primary years' teachers and introduced me to basketball at a young age. He was demanding in the classroom with high expectations but was so kind and was there to help me and others try to feel included. As I begin to coach my new boys basketball team tomorrow, I will be thinking of him and how he would coach. Rest in peace to a wonderful man.

Dear Hayden family I was so saddened to read of John’s passing. Our friendship goes way back to the 50’s at Central school, not that we kept in touch but I always got the huge smile and hug whenever we met. Hometown kids seem to keep the closeness when they stay in Cobourg. John was one of the kindest, most compassionate gentlemen I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. He was at the head of the class in school and also way back on the pitchers mound. It was a pleasure knowing you all these years John, rest easy. Sending heartfelt condolences and prayers to the family.

Dear Adriana and family: We are truly sorry to hear of this very sad news. John was such a wonderful person. He will undoubtedly be missed.

A wonderful kind man!! A gem. Adriana, my heart goes out to you and your beautiful family. Marg Matthews

Adriana and family. I was so saddened when I saw this notice. In my almost fifty years of officiating basketball I have easily worked with over a thousand coaches. John stood out as one of the most caring, sincere and respectful of all of them. No matter what happened in a game, how bad a call I made he never lost his composure. I do not even recall a harsh word. Just his big smile and his constant positive encouragement to all. John was a true gentleman. His passing is a real loss not only to his family, but the community as well.

Julia, John, mrs. Hayden and family, How sad I am to hear of his passing. Your dad and husband was my mentor. One of the best people I ever had the fortune of knowing and getting the chance to work with. I felt so privileged that I got to share in time with your amazing family because of my friendship with him and Julia. I became a teacher because of him and still have the letter of reference he wrote for me in 2007 because his opinion is one I valued more than most. He truly was salt of the earth and I know he will be with you all forever. Xo.

My sincere condolences to Adriana, John Justin and Julia. A compassionate, loving person,John will be sorely missed. My memories of John predate many of the condolences I have read. I remember John as a fearless, determined teammate on our championship softball teams. I remember travelling with John to Maple Leaf Gardens in the 60’s to watch the Beatles in concert. It was such a blast. John was compassionate, a real gentleman and a special person. Rest in peace my friend. Herm Jansen

Adrianna, John J.,Julia and Benjamin : I was so saddened to read of John’s passing. I taught with John at Grant Sine School and also remember him from Burnham School- just an all round kind and deeply respected guy. My deepest sympathy to all of you.

Dear Adriana, Julia, John & families, I am so very sorry to hear of John’s passing. He was such an icon in our community and will be missed. He was a truly wonderful person to have on the team staff when I played for the Cobourg Angels. Such a quality guy. I’m also very grateful for the time I got to spend with him last year, working on Jim Morrow’s story for the CDSHF. He truly was a difference maker. Sending love and prayers to you all at this sad time. Jen xo

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I have very fond memories teaching alongside John during my early teaching days. I learned a lot from him. He was a very caring person. I was able to reconnect with him later on when he coached my son basketball at CCI. My son appreciated his devotion to the sport and his kindness. You will be missed Mr. Hayden. My condolences to you and to your family, Adriana.

I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Hayden's passing, such a great man. I fondly remembered him at the soccer fields as kids and was lucky enough to run into him out and about over the years. My sincere condolences to the family.

to John and family my sincere condolences at your loss, sad indeed

John was a special human. He cared about people. All people. He did not judge. He accepted. John listened, taught and showed kindness to those around him. My years working beside him were the best of my career. I will carry his memory always. Adriana, his love and devotion to you and your family was ever present. I am so sorry for the loss of this wonderful husband, father, grandfather and friend. Sending love.

John was one of my very first teaching colleagues and his compassion, creativity and love for the kids was always a guiding light for those around him. I admired him greatly. My thoughts are with his family.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Very sad to hear this. Our deepest sympathy to Adriana, John J., Julia and Benjamin. Your family was one of the first to become friends when our family moved here over 30 years ago

My thoughts are with you John and your family. I remember your kindness to everyone.

Rest in Peace Mr. Hayden. One of my best Baseball Coaches and all round Great guy.

Sincere condolences to Adriana and the family. John’s contributions to education and to the community will be remembered and cherished by many. May your wonderful memories assist you through the difficult times.

Our deepest sympathy to the Hayden family. Words cannot describe how sorry we are of Johns passing. John was a kind and caring person. You are in our thoughts at his difficult time.

My condolences to the family. I truly enjoyed having Mr. Hayden (John) as a teacher and coach at Grant Sine. John's love of the game of basketball was amazing and at the time we enjoyed the great Celtics vs Lakers rivalry. John even followed our basketball team on to high school to coach us for a year.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

My deepest condolences to the family. Mr. Hayden goes down in my history as my favorite teacher. Ever. (Grant Sine) He made learning fun and I especially loved that he supported my basketball journey, ( however short), even attending one of my games once in high-school. I will treasure the memories even more now. Much love to all of you.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Adriana, John Jr., Julia & Ben, We were so sorry to hear of John's passing. Many memories come to mind as our families continued to connect over the years, what with our children's activities at Burnham with J.J and Julia, and now with our grandchildren's friendship and sport's activities with Ben. He will be missed. Our deepest condolences.

Adriana and family, I have had the privilege of knowing John ever since his time at Terry Fox P.S. I, as well as many, admired him for his competency in his field, athletic talent and respect for others. I cannot remember a time that John would not stop and chat with me whenever we would run into each other. It was very evident of the love he had when he spoke proudly of his children. My heart is broken at the loss of John. My deepest sympathy to you, Adriana, John, and Julia.

Our deepest sympathy to the Hayden family. Words cannot describe how sorry we are of Johns passing. You are in our thoughts thru this difficult time.

My deepest condolence's to Adriana, and her family.

It is with deep sadness that I acknowledge John's passing. To Adrianna, John Jr., Julia, and Benjamin, John was a ray of hope for his encouragement towards students experiencing challenges. He was well-liked by his colleagues and the school community. His love for family was always evident. John was passionate about coaching and making a difference with the youth he encountered over the years. He will be missed by many. Sincere condolences to his entire family. John Walker Hayden October 4, 1951 - November 14, 2023 ~ REST IN PEACE ~

To the Hayden family, I am deeply saddened to hear this news. I respected Mr. Hayden so very much. He was one of my Grade 8 teachers at Burnham. I recall one geography assignment where I had done particularly well and his lovely note on my assignment meant the world to me. I still have it and cherish his incredibly kind words. I am thinking of you all as you navigate this loss. My deepest condolences to you all.

So very sorry to hear of John's passing. We can't think of soccer without thinking of John. Our thoughts are with your family

Adriana and family so sorry to read of Johns passing..knew him from his days at Grant Sine school and he taught all of our nephews and niece along with our son Jeremy who recently passed..he was a kind caring person and great teacher..always had time to stop and talk when we saw him around town…cherish his memories!

Adriana, John Jr , Julia and family, our heartfelt condolences on John’s passing. He was such a great guy in so many ways. We will always remember the wonderful times we shared as families.

Adriana my thoughts are with you and the family. I know this has come as terrible shock to you all. You all have been my prayers since I spoke to you, that will continue. I will make a donation to Ed’s house in his name. I can’t come to the visitation as you know but I will keep all of you in my prayers. Know that he is at peace in Our Lords arm. Jane

So sorry to hear of Johns passing. He taught both my sons at Grant Sine. Great teacher and man. Remember the good times.

Our heartfelt condolences to Adriana and family at the loss of a wonderful man. He'll be sorely missed by all who knew him.