Kenneth Vernon Stubbings

Always so heartwarming to see Ken and Lynne as they were so much fun and we shared some good times together - at parties mostly related to the daycare - anytime I would run into them we always had such a good chat - all I can say Lynne is I hope that Ken is able to share some of those "special goodies" with wherever he is now - and just know whenever I see those treats, you both will always be in my heart - big big hugs to you Lynne - Hallie Gibson (from Collingwood) xoxoxo

Lynn, the Stubbings and the Perdues... my heartfelt sympathy on the loss of one so dear as Ken. I knew Ken from my days in H&S for the City of Toronto. He was an astute champion of safety practices, procedures and policies which made life more liveable for his work friends and colleagues. He openly shared his knowledge and visons with those of us who knew him from OHMSPA. May your memories of Ken brighten your darkest days...he's flying safely with the angels now. RIP Ken, your H&S friend, Chandra

This was a day shared at Lynn's with Karen and Rosemary. A cold somber day Heading to Lynn and Ken's We have a plan I would love it any other way. But this is how our day began. As we enter a beautiful driveway A comment is said "Well here we are"!! Then look at each other Gaze at the house From the car. As we enter, you feel welcome Although much silence Is all we hear. A faint "hello" But no one is there. I feel uneasy, As l tiptoe through This beautiful home Made just for two. We gather the photo books Each of us expressing An awwwwww And a sigh. Page by page We share an emotional look I feel a tear I wanna cry. Oh the stories These pages tell It's a LOVE STORY Displayed so well. It's hard to pick and choose We all have our favorite No choice is wrong We cannot loose. As we display the photos on boards For all to see. I am taken back How can this be? A life so perfect HE HAS HER!!! SHE HAS HE!!! I glance around the room My eyes full of gloss These treasures, these pleasures This is truly, an unbelievable loss. Stainglass, and his carvings A life shining through Oh my Lord What can l do? My eyes are focused On a corner cabinet Of figurines. Oh my heavens What a story So serene. Little Precious Moments Each a gift of love ❤️. Each unique as if the Lord created Precious moments from above. I Smile for the 1st time today. As l touch the cabinet glass. I suddenly feel a tear Then l ask? Why is that God's greatest gift The gift of Love ❤️ Hurts so bad ? When we have our Person Our life companion He's all l had. Then l am once more taken back To the Precious Moments Not only figurines PRECIOUS MOMENTS Are moments!! The best you've Ever seen. Remember your 1st Love ,first dance!! How he held you That shy loving glance. Remember your wedding day Joyful bliss A promise of Love ❤️ Sealed with a kiss. Your careers You were both so proud of Your 1st home Blessed with love 44 yrs - you were 15 Your handsome boy 17 You knew from the start. This is the real deal I feel in my heart!!. Life showed you many adventures With travel undenied You began your pace slow Ken so happy you tried. He never left your side. Each run faster than the 1st. Your smile contagious From the beginning A life shared hand in hand Ken & Lynn Lynn& Ken You were destined to be A 1st place Ribbon of love. A life of winning. Still staring at the Precious moments Silently whispering to the Lord As l speak. This moment l wanna keep!. Bless my Family, and friends Hug the ones you Love ❤️ And at the end of day LIFE IS A PRECIOUS MOMENT Cherish all time!! We miss you Ken Dear Lord. Take a run with Ken Make his day. Heavenly Father I Pray ? Memories of Ken His life and generosity will live on in each and every one of us. This wonderful man was a pleasure to know. Nov6/2023 Tribute to Ken Stubbings Left us way to soon Nov3/2023. Love ❤️ Beverly.

DEDICATION TO "KEN" HIS LOVE & OUR LOVE FOR LYNN If this is a dream I never sleep But, l cannot wake up Like an envelope With no letter Unforeseen words This thought over whelms As l imagine The storyline l have missed A blank greeting card Then shared memories All to familiar Sincerely yours Blessed with a kiss. How does one, or all Fathom a reality That truly has shaken Our souls? A wonderful couple Worked so hard For that fulfillment Contentment Their time for happy pleasures And future goals. These goals live on in Each and everyone of us We are honored to own Their treasures A wooden carving Perhaps a stainglass snowman Betcha everyone share In these pleasures LYNN & KEN !!!! You mention LYNN You get KEN You mention KEN Where's LYNN? Our youngest sister Yes the baby!! Dad said it best "YOU'RE ONLY A BIRD" You need us? Family 1st Just say the word. We all knew KEN For his amazing Love for the run Always a smile No matter the distance His motto!! Do it for the cause Do it for the fun Lynn enjoyed the run As they started side by side Even if KEN sprinted ahead Always at the finish line Arms extended wide. I sit in wonder,and in awwww It's difficult to carry on The emotion , over whelming We were all embraced xmas 2022 Wishing a wonderful New Year ✨️ " This is just wrong "!!!! As l see everyone I can't imagine A dry eye For our little bird ? Her smile infectious Her strength noble With love from family and friends And all the wonderful Things she has heard. Lynn once told me In one of our many conversations KEN is worried about me What will happen to me? Yes ,he is a true gentleman With care for his lady His physical body so weak His love so true and honest We pray ? Let it be. I prayed many a days On my way to work Decades of the Rosary ? Rosary beads hanging in my car Then l would catch A cloud or two As l gazed up And l wondered Just how far? Do my words reach the heavens ? Are family peeking through? The mysteries Far beyond our imagination I speak to family often I like to think They already knew Pain-free, It a beautiful bright day You can do it Smile on your face Ken as you begin Your new chapter Your running shoes In place... A marathon Beyond your wildest dreams Get ready set go Faster, faster now Pace yourself slow Slow slow slower With a chirp in his ear Silent whispering words I miss you, I love ❤️ you my dear. This can't be true A little bird You're only a bird On my shoulder For the ride. I know she's Make belief But a blessing In disguise. KEN'S love for LYNN Undeniable The real deal How Blessed It proved in their work Their fun, So many wonderful years True love is not a test. Lynn Please know as you Too begin a new Chapter in life. See through to the happy pages Smile a little more each day!!! And when the time is right Share everything you can Till then, just watch that Itty bitty bird Circle and play in flight. KEN, you will be missed Heck !!! You already are Listen to that wee little bird ? That voice that kept you going You will remind yourself Over and over The sweetest voice You've ever heard So as we dream Wake up refreshed With happy memories Funny stories Silly photos are the best Photos that keep us Smiling and grinning And yet The wonderous Love and joy From the beginning Lynn!!! Know how much We all love and adore you. We are Family Count on us That's a true Winning. Lean on us step by step Baby steps If that's what it takes Cherish your personal memories As your heart aches. Know l can't imagine As many cannot Just cry!!! Ask why? Just be you Do what "you" want. Big sigh Little rest Talk out loud SCREAM!!!!!! HE HEARS YOU WE HEAR YOU Go to that place Your special place If !! Only in a Dream. Much love to you both ❤️ You will always be LYNN AND KEN Gone way to soon November 3rd/ 2023 My xo Beverly.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

My condolences to his family and friends. I knew Ken for many years he was known and respected by many of us in his field as a reserved spoken, but a master. You could see his passion for his work and hobbies in every conversation. He will be greatly missed. Derrick Stein

Lynn, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Cook's School Daycare Inc

Oh Lynn, my heart goes out to you on the loss of Ken! It doesn't surprise me that his determination, which he brought to everything, marathons/ carving/quality/ care/safety etc gave him a bit more time to spend with you, the love of his life! I cherish him each season when we bring out the little father Christmas sleigh & reindeer which he selflessly donated, through a "guess my best average times of many fall marathons" to the Y's Strong Kids programme! I will think of him fondly and continue to carry his spirit forward in his honour. I am indeed thankful that you got to have 44 years together. And I am a better person for having known him!

My deepest condolences to Lynn and family. I was a running friend of Ken’s for many years and like many, lost touch unfortunately. But I will always remember Ken and his positive motivation and inspiration when we were marathon training and running together. Truly a fine person.

Lynn, so very sorry to hear of Ken’s passing, you’re in our thoughts at this difficult time

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Cook's School Daycare Inc

Lynn, We were so sorry to hear about Ken. Ken was an amazing human being. He accomplished so much and he will be missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. We wish you all the best in this difficult time. Please let us know if you need anything. <3

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Lynn, I’m so sorry that your wonderful bond that you and Ken had was taken away from you both. Thinking of you during this very difficult time. Your words of tribute of Ken are beautiful and so true to your relationship. Ken will be missed by so many, you the most. ❤️

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Cook's School Daycare Inc

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

YMCA Northumberland

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Dear Lynn, Gary and I are very sorry to hear of Ken's passing and the struggles and consolations you lived through this past year. We will always remember Ken for his gift to us of our outdoor nativity set and for his Santa ornament. We will hold you in our hearts as you grieve the loss of such a wonderful person. We pray for peace and healing as you move forward and may he continue to be by your side. Sincerely, Trish

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

I am so sad to here the news of Ken's passing. I worked with him closely with emergency planning while I was employed with the County. He was so thorough with his preparation and execution of the mock exercises. The residents of Northumberland were in a better place with Ken's preparation. I have a hand carved stained glass wood frame he made in memory of my daughter which we will cherish forever. Dam Collins EMS Chief (retired)

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Broke my heart to hear about this, I'm so sorry Lynn. I'm so glad to have gotten the chance to know you both over the years and I'd like to thank you for everything. I am truly sorry for your loss.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Cancer Care Unit

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Cancer Care Ontario

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Cook's School Daycare Inc

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Cook's School Daycare Inc

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Lynn, sending you our deepest condolences. Ken was an amazing and talented man. Stay strong and know your Cook's family is here for you.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Cancer Care Unit

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Sending condolences on behalf of the Ontario Municipal Health & Safety Professionals Association (OMHSPA). Ken was an active member for 10 years. Lynn, your tribute to Ken is so beautiful and moving. We're thinking of you and your family during this time. Ken will be missed by many in the Health and Safety community.

Deepest condolences from your neighbours at 3 Francis. Ken was and will continue to be a true inspiration.

So very sorry for your loss Lynn. You and the families are in my thoughts ??

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Lynn, I know Ken was very dedicated to everything he chose to do. He put his heart and soul into it. That includes you and your home. I will remember his jokes and when we met. His wonderful support towards you and family is to be cherished. I know you will gain strength in your many beautiful memories with him. Please take care Love Heather , Adrian A’Court

Lynn, I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you & your families during this difficult time

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Memorial donation made to Northumberland Hills Hospital - Cancer Care Unit on behalf of the Northumberland County Roads Guys. Rest easy our friend.

Lynn I have just read your lovely tribute to Ken and my heart just aches for you. I can’t imagine the loss you must feel in having lost your best friend of 44 years. Having lived in Cobourg all my life I have had many encounters with you both over the years through the Y, various sporting and other events. It seemed that you two were pretty much inseparable always spending time together enjoying life. I used to see Ken on my morning runs and I could never catch him! Ken leaves behind a legacy that not many others could achieve. Hold tight to those wonderful memories in your heart forever. I will be thinking of you. Sending hugs.

Our very deepest condolences to you Lynn at this very sad time. Hang on to the multiple memories you shared together. Love to you, Joan and Jim Graham

Lynn, My very deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of a wonderful man.

Lynn my thoughts are with you and the family. RIP Ken Sue and girls, Meaghan and Madison

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Cook's School Daycare Inc

Dear Lynn, I am so sorry to hear of Ken's passing. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful man. Ken will be missed by many. We are very sorry for your loss. Tom and Teresa Behan

Lynn that was a wonderfully written tribute. Ken was a great guy and will be missed by so many people. Hugs Dave

Lynn I’m so sorry to hear of Ken’s passing. He was such a nice guy. He always had a smile on his face. I’m sending all my love and hugs during this difficult time

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Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

When I volunteered with St. John Ambulance I met Ken through the Emergency Management Meetings and shelter set ups at local Arenas. We had some great conversations and shared a few laughs. Very kind man and he will be missed. My condolences. Jim

Our deepest condolences on your loss Lynn. Ken will very much be missed by so many people. Mike and Brenda

Lynn, I am so sorry to hear of Ken's passing! I remember Ken & you in the days of Gold's Gym, back in the 80's & 90's. You have written such a great tribute to your partner, Ken Cindy.

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Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Lynn - our deepest condolences to you, your family & friends. You continue to be in our prayers through this difficult time. Ken was an amazing man whom I (Harold) had the pleasure of running many stride for stride races with, knowing that to do so an enjoyment & a mutual respect we shared. Blessings of love and peace to you.

We were truly shocked to hear of Ken's passing. No words can express how sorry we are for your loss....Kim and Stu Nimmo.Hugs

I'm ssoooo sorry to hear of the loss of your sweet Ken, Lynn. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Lynn please accept our deepest condolences. The way in which you and Ken have spent this past year is truly remarkable and an inspiration to all of us on how each day should be treasured. Thank you for sharing. Be strong.

We knew Ken from the gym, he was always a great guy to talk with and admired his passion. Our deepest condolences to Ken’s family.

Dear Lynn, I’m so sorry to hear about the passing of Ken. I hope he is resting peacefully and pain free. So much comfort to you, until you meet him again. Shannon Sheehy and family

Coworkers by chance. Friends by choice. Rest easy my friend.

Lynn, I'm very sorry for loss. You and family members are in my thoughts. Carrie

Lynn, I am so sorry to read of Ken’s passing. May all the wonderful memories you created give you some comfort in the days ahead.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Cancer Care Unit

Dear Lynn and family, You are in our hearts and prayers during this difficult time. Your love for each other showed no boundaries. Ken will be truly missed as a member of our community. Eunice & Lyle.❤️

So sorry Lynn to read Ken’s passing, sending sincere condolences to you and Kens family!

So very sorry for your loss Lynn. Ken was a wonderful man and an inspiration for many.

Lynn and family, Very sorry to have heard this terrible news. Having worked with Ken for so many years was such a pleasure. So many mornings when I would be out on the roads early there he would be running. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May your memories be strong.

Lynn so very saddened to hear of the passing of Ken. Ken was everything you said and more. He will be missed my many but know that he is now resting in peace. Keep all the memories close. Thinking of you Cindy & Dennis ❤️

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Cancer Care Unit

LYNN: So sorry for your loss Ken was a friend from Lindsay as my parents hung out together and Ken stayed with my parents in Cobourg a few times .May his life remain in all our minds and memories forever.

Lynn, I am so sad to see this notice. I know you loved Ken deeply. Our days, years ago at Cook's will be a forever memory. Keep you love for Ken close. Cherish the memories. So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you. Denise, Rory, Patrick and Meg Quigley

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Canadian Cancer Society

Lynn, words cannot express the loss you feel losing your lifelong partner and best friend. Take some comfort in the memories. May they bring a smile to you heart. Ken was such a humble and wonderful person and will be missed by everyone who knew him. As always, we are here for you. God speed Ken!

Kim words can not express the sadness we feel for you. A life taken way too soon . ? RIP Sincerely

Lynn, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you, and I hope the many wonderful memories you made with Ken will give you comfort. Vanessa

Lynn, so very sorry to hear this news about Ken. He will always be your everything… sending hugs to you.. Lucia

Very sorry for your great lost Lynn. As a fellow runner I admired Ken’s dedication to the running community.

My deepest condolences to you, Lynn. You and Ken, both, have shown dignity and courage in the face of this horrible disease. My he Rest In Peace.

Lynn and family, So very sorry to hear of Ken's passing. I know how much he loved life, running, you and his family. I first met you both at the YMCA and then throughout the community. You both did so much for the YMCA fundraisers and was always there working out. I hope the wonderful memories you shared provide some comfort to you in the days ahead. Ken will be missed in this community. His legacy will live on. Rest in peace Ken.

Ken you are truly one of the great ones and I will miss you dearly ,we are all so saddened by your far 2 soon passing, we were wishing 4 a miracle but I guess u were needed elsewhere, until we meet again, all our love, rest peacefully

A beautiful tribute to an extraordinary man - Ken; one in a million. Rest in peace my friend, you will be missed. Hugs to you Lynn and strength for the coming difficult days ahead. ❤️❤️

I am so so sorry to hear of Kens passing I wish I could have seen him for the last time

Ken, you were one in a million and will most definitely be missed by so many and that sure includes me. Rest easy my friend. ❤️

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Cancer Care Unit

I’ve already expressed my love and respect but wanted you to know again how much Ken meant to me ❤️

Lynn, we are so sorry to hear of Ken’s passing. It’s been awhile since we’ve seen you both, either at the YMCA or Cook’s Daycare. Hanging the wooden Santa that Ken carved will mean a lot more this year. We will be thinking of you during these difficult times. We hope you find comfort in your memories. ❤️ Cindy, Stacey and Ethan Marriott