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John Andrew Carter

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John Andrew Carter

October 19, 1940 - April 7, 2023

Carter, John Andrew. BA, LLB. (Queens University), (Osgoode Hall). Born in Little Long Lac in northern Ontario on October 19, 1940, John passed peacefully in his 83rd year on Friday, April 7th at Northumberland Hills Hospital, Cobourg, ON. Deeply mourning his passing are his beloved wife Donna, devoted stepson Michael Fairey (Alison), stepdaughter Robin Nebbia and stepgrandchildren Jack Fairey, Erin Nebbia and Katie Nebbia. He will also be sadly missed by his brother Nicholas Charles Carter and sister Jane Urquhart. John is predeceased by his parents Walter Andrew Carter and Marian Carter (nee Quinn).
The family is deeply grateful for the dedicated care provided by the nurses in the palliative care unit at Northumberland Hills Hospital as well as the compassionate care of Dr. Mule and Dr. Tisher.
A graveside service will be held at Castleton, Cemetery, Castleton, ON, at 2 p.m. on Saturday, May 13th
Those who wish, may honor John's memory with a donation to the Northumberland Hills Hospital or the Northumberland Humane Society.

MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

John & Jerianne Hansen - May 24, 2023

We are saddened to hear of John’s passing. Although we hadn’t seen John and Donna since they sold the Loughbreeze cottage, we will fondly remember rounds of golf in Brighton and beachside conversations over the years. Rest in Peace.

Stephen & Debbie Gillis - May 11, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Richard Irvine - May 9, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Frances Linton-Schell - May 4, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Chuck Richardson - May 3, 2023

So sorry to hear of John’s passing. I only knew John at Queens where we had mutual friends. John, myself , John Hare and another, whose name escapes me, used to trundle down from Kingston to Toronto for the w/e in John’s Mini stopping for refreshments at various spots ( pubs) along the way. My enduring image of John was that he was a quiet, kind, refined and caring person. My condolences to the family.

Bob and Barb Fairey - April 25, 2023

We are so sorry to hear of Johns passing. We just found out today April 24th. Our sympathy to you and your family. We enjoyed both your company in the past.

Kathy Quinn - April 23, 2023

Donna, I am saddened by John’s passing and your loss of a very dear partner and gentle man. My condolences to you and John’s family in this difficult time.

Carol and Alan Grant - April 21, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Frank Quinn - April 20, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Liza Quinn - April 19, 2023

Goodnight sweet prince and flights of angels sing thee to thy rest.

Shelley and Doug Alkenbrack - April 18, 2023

Dear Donna, Shelley and I send our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your dear husband John.Our association with John was only recent but we know you shared a wonderful relationship. Thinking of you at this sad time. Sincerely Shelley and Doug

George and Susie Boycott - April 17, 2023

Sorry to hear of Johns passing. He was our lawyer from our arrival in Canada from Australia in 1978 until his retirement. Always helpful and cheerful. Our condolences to Donna and Family. He will be missed.

Pat Westrope - April 15, 2023

Sincere condolences to Donna and Jane in the loss of a husband and brother. May you find comfort in knowing how respected John was and how dedicated he was to his career and to his family.May he rest in peace.

Julius and Louise Varga - April 13, 2023

Donna and family. Our deepest condolences on the passing of John. Julius and Louise

Elizabeth and Bill Edwards - April 13, 2023

We will remember John as a thoughtful gentleman and a good neighbour. May Donna find love, comfort and support from family and friends.

Art and Velma Joynt - April 13, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Tom Peters - April 13, 2023

Donna and Family: So sorry to hear of John's passing. Thinking of you always. Tom

Allyson Urquhart - April 12, 2023

Dear Donna So sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved husband John. He was always so kind and welcoming when I had the chance to be in his company. May your remembrance bring you comfort. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. ??Allyson

Carol Ann and Dennis Westlund - April 12, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Lee Caawell - April 12, 2023

So sorry to hear of John’s passing. My thoughts with Donna and family.

Melissa Lilje (nee Boreham) - April 12, 2023

I was very saddened to hear John had passed away. Please know Donna you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Aidan Urquhart - April 12, 2023

I was saddened to hear about John’s death and also recall times with him at the cottage and in Colborne. He had a really good sense of humour and enjoyed a good laugh. RIP.

Francine and Brian Birket - April 12, 2023

Dear Donna and family Sorry to hear of your loss. May your wonderful memories of John help you through these difficult times. Francine and Brian

Tracey Osborne-Lebel - April 12, 2023

My deepest condolences. I had my highschool Co-op at his law office in Colborne. I learned a lot from him & Colleen. RIP John.

Dee Hulett - April 11, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Frank & Jean Crowley - April 11, 2023

A donation has been made to the Northumberland Hill hospital

Cheryl Rattray - April 11, 2023

Dear Donna, It is challenging to find words of consolation with this news of Johns passing. I am thinking and praying for you and your family. I am hoping that you will have moments to smile a little as you share stories of mutual experiences of John with each other- these are gifts and treasures.

Sharon O’Connor - April 11, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Sharon O’Connor - April 11, 2023

So sorry to hear about John’s death.Know that our prayers and thoughts will be with you

Robin Urquhart and Bruce Rush - April 11, 2023

My heart hurts for us left behind without you. You are missed. Rest in peace Robin and Bruce

Dee Hulett - April 10, 2023

Donna, please accept our condolences on John’s passing and hope your memories of good times will be a comfort. Dee and Les Hulett

Mary Ann & Egons Pilskalnietis Family - April 10, 2023

We send our condolences to all John's family. We remember John with great fondness from our growing up years at Loughbreeze and from the occasional golf game with John and Tony Urqhart. He was a loyal, charming and funny kind of guy. We will miss him.

Richard Irvine - April 10, 2023

I was very sad to learn of John’s death. Although I had not seen him for several years I always found John to be very fair to deal with and share Brad’s thoughts and comments.

Ted and Brenda Quinn - April 10, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Humane Society

Tom Philp - April 10, 2023

I met John for the first time when his mother, Marian, was still alive. Marian was a good friend of, and to my mother, Maida Philp. John provided legal services to both Mom and myself. I won't forget how John, a quiet man, always carried himself with magnificent dignity. I suspect he got those qualities from Marian, and that they are shared by his sister and brother. My heart goes out to all the family.

Melissa Lilje (nee Boreham) - April 10, 2023

Dear Donna, I was very saddened to hear John had passed away! Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers!

Annamary Kilham - April 10, 2023

For many years John was our cottage neighbour at Loughbreeze Beach in Colborne. He was friendly, easy to talk to, a good conversationalist, witty and a great host for our occasional happy hour get-togethers. Just an all round nice guy. He will be missed by all who knew him. To Donna and family we send our love, sympathy and fond memories. D'Arcy & Annamary (nee Palmateer) Kilham

Eleanor Grennell - April 10, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Eleanor Grennell - April 10, 2023

Donna, Sending you and your family my deepest condolences on the loss of John. May you find strength and peace in the memories you cherish.

Neil Ganson - April 10, 2023

Donna, our deepest condolences. Wishing you comfort and peace.

caroline tapp-mcdougall - April 10, 2023

Donna...I'm truly sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace, strength and comfort.

Donna M Logel - April 10, 2023

Donna & family My deepest condolences on your loss of John. Such a kind, gracious and caring person. May your years of wonderful memories give peace & comfort in your days ahead. Donna

Linda & Larry McMurray - April 9, 2023

So very sorry for your loss.

Emily Urquhart & Andrew Trant & Sadie & Rory Trant - April 9, 2023

We are heartbroken to be saying goodbye to Uncle Johnny. All of us will miss spending summers by the lake with him. xox

Frank and Jean Crowley - April 9, 2023

Our sincerest and deepest condolences to all the family on the passing of John. He was a true gentleman and will be missed. May he Rest In Peace ☘️

Camilla Corkery - April 9, 2023

My deepest condolences to the family.. sending you my deepest sympathy.. ❤️

Shane and Kathy Maclean - April 9, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Shane and Kathy Maclean - April 9, 2023

Our deepest condolences to Donna and the family. John was a gentle man who we grew to know through our pizza and card nights. We had lots of laughs and even though John would pretend not to know what he was doing, he'd win. May his family find peace in their hearts knowing how special he was and that he will be missed by his friends.

Gayl Nelson - April 9, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Humane Society

Gayl Nelson - April 9, 2023

My sincere condolences, wishing you comfort and peace.

Brad Halls - April 9, 2023

I was saddened today to learn of the death of my former colleague John Carter. I came to know John during the 35+ years I practised law in Cobourg, and John had a well-established in the area with his office in Colborne. I always found John to be a pleasure to deal with, someone who was co-operative and eager to find resolutions to problems. He vigorously represented his clients, but never in an unnecessarily aggressive fashion (as was sometimes found in our profession), rather in a manner which tried to work best for everyone involved. As a bit senior to me, he was always willing to answer questions or extend a helping hand to a new lawyer starting out. I extend my condolences to Donna and all of John's family and many friends. Brad Halls, Fergus, Ontario (formerly of Cobourg)