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Paul Raymond Hetherington
Celebration of Life

MacCoubrey Funeral Home Reception Centre
30 King Street East, Cobourg

Saturday June 10th
1 - 4pm

Memories shared at 2pm

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Paul Raymond Hetherington

June 12, 1937 - February 9, 2023

Peacefully at Peterborough Regional Health Centre on February 9, 2023, surrounded by family. Born on June 12, 1937, in Peterborough, Ontario, Paul had a friendly word for everyone and wicked sense of humour.

He was a beloved husband to Katharine (nee Bannan) for more than 63 years, proud father to John (Leslie), Dave (Sue) and Steve (Tony). ‘Papa Paul’ was an adored grandfather to Mark (Jessica), Gregory, as well as Dave and Sue’s children Michelle Green-Freeburn (Ian), Jake Green (Sara) and Kelly Green (Drew).

He began working for Bell Canada in 1957, where he met Kathy and together they built a happy life in Cobourg.

A Celebration of Paul’s Life will be held on Saturday, June 10th from 1 – 4 p.m. with words of remembrance shared at 2 p.m. in the MacCoubrey Funeral Home Reception Centre, Cobourg. In lieu of flowers, donations to Northumberland Hills Hospital, Ed’s House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre, or a charity of your choice would be much appreciated; or you could just say ‘hi’ to everyone you meet today!

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MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

Linda Flindall - June 12, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Martin and Mary Shelley - June 10, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Michael and Deborah Bedford - June 10, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Lorna Brisbin - June 10, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Richard and Marie Patterson - June 10, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Ann Barr - June 10, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Donna & Brian Chadderton - June 10, 2023

We were so sorry to hear of John's dad's sudden passing. Our thoughts continue to be with your family.

Anita Cassidy - June 2, 2023

Dave and Susan and family we are so sorry for the loss of your father. May God Bless you all and may your Dad rest in peace. Wayne & Anita

Hitesh Patel - June 1, 2023

John & the Hetherington Family, We are sorry to hear about your loss. Our condolences to all of you - may he rest in peace. Take care, Hitesh & the Patel family

Delia Catton - February 28, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Violet Johnstone - February 27, 2023

Sorry to hear of Paul’s passing to Kathy and family my condolences

George & Barb Lawrence - February 24, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Joan & Stan Kirkpatrick - February 24, 2023

Kathy, So sorry to hear about Paul passing away. The two of you were a perfect couple always together and love to chat with people. Keep your memories close to you. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Thinking of You.

Janice Badgley - February 23, 2023

Kathy, John, David, Steve and family We are so sorry for your loss. Paul and Dad were great friends connecting our families for 60 years. His kindness, humour and stories are etched in our memories and will continue to be cherished. Janice, Mark and Rae

Janice Badgley - February 23, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Bob Cowin - February 23, 2023

So sorry to her of Pauls passing!

Clara Manning - February 22, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

George & Kathy Finlay - February 21, 2023

Dave & Sue So sorry to hear of your dad's passing Dave. Sending condolences and hugs.

Kim Griese - February 21, 2023

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity: Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Catherine Edgerton - February 21, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Mike Carleton - February 19, 2023

Dear Kathy, Steve (Tony) and the entire Hetherington clan. I am saddened to hear of Paul's passing. I drive by the old family home on the #45 whenever I go to visit my folks just up the road. So many fond memories of years long ago. Wishing the celebration of Paul's life to be a time of joy joyfilled reminiscing and thankfulness for a life well lived. Mike

Alison Glenn Blodgett - February 18, 2023

Hi Everyone I drove past your house at Creighton Heights, the other day, and thought of you all. When I got home I saw the notice. What a big loss for your family. My thoughts are with you all. Alison

Betsey Stanley - February 17, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Eleanor Alpin - February 17, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Richard Moore - February 17, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Johan Maclean - February 17, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Randy and Melodie Skinner - February 17, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Arthur and Nancy Dalgarno - February 17, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Cecilia A Nasmith - February 17, 2023

I remember Paul well from years with the Mall Walkers. If our little group had a Life of the Party member, Paul was definitely it, always jovial and upbeat - like a ray of sunshine at that dreadful hour of the morning! And whenever he spoke of Kathy, his devotion was so plain. A lovely man, fondly remembered

Jack and Debbie Dupuis - February 17, 2023

Kathy. Our sincerest condolences for your loss. Paul was always pleasant and witty whenever we met. I looked forward to our occasional encounters. He always made me smile. I’ll miss him. Jack

Gail - February 16, 2023

I am so sorry to hear about Paul's passing. it was always a pleasure to see Paul on his daily walks with a friendly wave and smile. Find comfort in the memories you have of your life together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Cindy & Dennis Sherwin - February 16, 2023

Our deepest condolences to all the family.

Jane Goody - February 16, 2023

So sorry to hear of Paul's passing. You two were always together and always brought a smile whenever we met. Thank you.

Sandra and Andy Gray - February 16, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Mike and Linda Island - February 15, 2023

Kathy and family: We are so very sorry to learn that Paul has passed. What a sense of humour he had! We will miss seeing and talking to Kathy and Paul walking along the harbour. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Bob and Henrietta mills - February 15, 2023

So sorry for your loss .the town has lost a special person. Thinking of you Kathy 63 years is a long time he will be missed Bob and Henrietta

Sharone Medhurst - February 15, 2023

Dear Cathy.. So sorry to hear of Paul’s passing…He will be missed…

Robert Skillen - February 15, 2023

Joan & Bob We are sorry to learn of Paul's passing, we always enjoyed a chat with you & Paul when we met. RIP Paul

Alice Torrance - February 15, 2023

Steve, heart felt condolences for the loss of your beloved father. Your friend Alice

Jack Scott - February 15, 2023

I met Paul from his time as an Odd Fellow Brother. He always had a good sense of humor and was a fun guy to know. My condolences to Katherine and family.

Bev Kostoff - February 15, 2023

My deepest condolences Kathy to you and your family. Always so friendly and ready to chat.

Bill and Wendy McAllister - February 15, 2023

Kathy and Family, We are sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Any time we saw him, he always had a friendly greeting and an infectious sense of humour. A kind hearted person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this very difficult time. Bill and Wendy

Doug Birney - February 14, 2023

Condolences to the family. I delivered a paper to the Hetherington's for several years in the mid to late '60's. Paul was always a pleasant person to talk with.

Riick&Shirley McBride - February 14, 2023

Truly sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Great memories from along time ago. Cherish the memories and keep them close to your heart.

Jewell Couch - February 14, 2023

Dear Kathy and family - I am thinking of you at this difficult time. I haven't seen you or Paul in many years, but I recall vividly the outrageous Morrison family reunions that took place when we were all MUCH younger, and how Paul (and Glenn) always kept us all in stitches with that crazy sense of humour - from the many messages here it's obvious that this trait was appreciated by most of those who knew him. Please know that Lane and I share fond memories of Paul. Love to all of you.

Judy Coveney - February 14, 2023

Dear Family members: Sorry for you loss. Judy Coveney Friend of Steve and Tony

Joan, Stan Kirkpatrick - February 14, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Barb & George Lawrence - February 14, 2023

Dear Kathy and family - our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. Paul and Fred must have joined Bell at about the same time and spent many great years working together. Great memories. Hugs, Barb & George

Cam Lund and Wayne Milliner - February 14, 2023

Steve, Tony and family. Our condolences on the loss of your dad. Our thoughts are with you.

Shawn and Linda - February 14, 2023

Dave and Sue Condolences to you and your family during this difficult time, please keep us posted when the celebration of life will be so we can come and see you. Shawn and Linda Kober

Cathy and Rob Bunn - February 14, 2023

Our deepest sympathy Kathy and family. Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you at this sad time!

Roberta Iannacito - February 13, 2023

Dear Steve, Tony and family, My sincerest condolences for the loss of your dad. I hope that the memories you shared will comfort you and your loved ones during this difficult time. Sending you love and light. Roberta xo

ted brown - February 13, 2023

My sincere condolences to Kathy and the entire family along with my deepest sadness to hear of the passing of Paul. Around 50 years of knowing Kathy and Paul and often seeing them in and about Cobourg. Paul's presence and jocularity will be missed. Bless you all.

ted brown - February 13, 2023

My sincere condolences to the entire family along with my deepest sadness to hear of the passing of Paul. Around 50 years of knowing Kathy and Paul and often seeing them in and about Cobourg. Paul's presence and jocularity will be missed. Bless you all.

Bruce and Kelly - February 13, 2023

Uncle Paul. You were one of my favorites. You always had a great sense of humor and of all my uncles, despite actually being a cousin, you were the one who had time for us. You gave us three great guys who I think of brothers and you will be sorely missed. We are poorer for your loss but richer for having had you in our lives. Rest easy on your journey and goodbye. Love, Bruce & Kel

Kevin and Lori - February 13, 2023

Dave, Sue and family sending our condolences. Thinking of you at this difficult time. Kevin Lori and Lexus.

Bodene & Dave Corbitt - February 13, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Audrey Molenaar - February 13, 2023

Dear Kathy and family my deepest condolances to each of you going to miss so many of the jokes Paul loved to tell us

Bodene & Dave Corbitt - February 13, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Bill Chapman - February 13, 2023

Our sincere condolences to the Hetherington family. It was a pleasure to have worked with Paul at Bell Canada for many years. He was very well respected by all of us at “Cobourg Bell” and Paul always had a funny joke or a good story to share. Treasure the memories 😊 Bill and Gwen Chapman

Fran Varden - February 13, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Fran Varden - February 13, 2023

Paul always had a smile for everyone. He will be missed by his many friends.

Sam and Corinne Marmara - February 13, 2023

Our condolences to you Kathy and family. Sam enjoyed working with Paul for 35 years. Always gave him a good laugh. Thinking of you all through this difficult time ❤️

Peter Dunn - February 13, 2023

Dave sorry to hear of your dad's passing.

Julia McGugan - February 13, 2023

All my thoughts and prayers with you and all the family xo

Georgina Phillips - February 13, 2023

Tony, Steve and family, sending you sincere condolences and strength during this difficult time. He was obviously truly loved by a very supportive family.

John Stillwell Janet Vansteijn - February 13, 2023

Kathy, sorry to hear of Pauls passing, he will be missed.

Wendi Fedryna - February 13, 2023

Dear Kathy- I am so sorry for your loss. Recently I came across a photo of Paul sitting with Uncle Aub at a family reunion wearing a goofy hat with an equally goofy expression on his face. He was lots of fun. Hoping your memories bring you comfort.

Keith and Donna Wheeldon - February 13, 2023

Kathy and Family, we're so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Always had a joke for us all at McDonald's when we used to meet for coffee. He will be missed. Keith and Donna Wheeldon

Gagan Saini - February 13, 2023

John, so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest condolence to you and your entire family. May he rest in peace.

Hitesh Kumar Goswami - February 13, 2023

I am so saddened to hear about the loss of your father. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I hope you're able to find peace through the good memories you had with your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Robert Clement - February 13, 2023

Always had conversations at the sat farmers market . Prayers and thoughts with all the family during this time . Bob and Susan Clement

Rana Sasikumar - February 13, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Wayne WIGGINS - February 13, 2023

Sincerely thinking of the family, from Bancroft Ont Remember good times with Bell Canada

Betty Lou Minaker - February 13, 2023

Such a great guy and such a loss for everyone. My heartfelt thoughts are with you all. Remember the “Good Times”.

David Tangness - February 13, 2023

We are very sorry to hear of the passing of John's father. Our thoughts are with John and the Hetherington Family. David & Janet

Richa Arora - February 13, 2023

My deepest condolences to the family.. I am sure he had a long happy life with his family and friends by his side.. May he rest in peace. Strength to John and Leslie and other family members..

Mike and Debbie Bedford - February 13, 2023

Kathy, Mike and I are very sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. Please accept our deepest condolences to you and your family. Although, we are away, Mike will send out an email to as many Bell retirees as possible.

Jennifer (Dalgarno) Ashley - February 13, 2023

Dear Kathy, John, Dave, Steve & family, I have soooo many wonderful memories of Paul, and of all of you, from our childhood days in Creighton Heights. He was such a fun-loving and kind person. Sending love and prayers to you all at this sad time. Hugs, Jen

Jennifer (Dalgarno) Ashley - February 13, 2023

Dear Kathy, John, Dave, Steve & family, I have soooo many wonderful memories of Paul, and of all of you, from our childhood days in Creighton Heights. He was such a fun-loving and kind person. Sending love and prayers to you all at this sad time. Hugs, Jen

Agatha Marinakis - February 13, 2023

Steve, my deepest condolences to you and your whole family for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Victor Olsen - February 13, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Rose Sandino - February 13, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

Rose Sandino - February 13, 2023

Dear Steve, Tony and the entire family, My deepest and heartfelt condolences for the peaceful passing of Paul. May you find comfort in the memories you share together, as well as strength in each other during this difficult time. Your truly, Rose Sandino (Tony's colleague)

Deanne Spalding - February 13, 2023

Dave & Sue and family - so very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing.

Beth Montgomery - February 13, 2023

A sincere, warm and funny man was my Uncle Paul. Love to Kathy, my cousins (and their partners) 💛

GINA A MCBRIDE - February 13, 2023

Dave and Sue, I am sorry for the loss of your father Paul. My deepest condolence to all of your family. Gina McBride

Veronica Marriott - February 13, 2023

Kathy and family ~ our deepest condolences on the loss of Paul. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time ❤️ Veronica & Paul

Pamela Spear - February 13, 2023

My prayers for all of you at the loss of Paul. The Spear family loved knowing and spending time with Paul and you Kathy. Condolences to all the family. Hugs to all

Pamela Spear - February 13, 2023

My prayers for all of you at the loss of Paul. The Spear family loved knowing and spending time with Paul and you Kathy. Condolences to all the family. Hugs to all

Pamela Spear - February 13, 2023

My prayers for all of you at the loss of Paul. The Spear family loved knowing and spending time with Paul and you Kathy. Condolences to all the family. Hugs to all

Stan Baker & Marian Spicer - February 12, 2023

Cathy and family - Sorry to hear bad news of Paul’s passing

Jim and Jamie West - February 12, 2023

Kathy ,John, Dave,Steve and families. Our condolences on Paul's passing . It was always nice to run into Paul around town over the years.

Karen & Gary Spry - February 12, 2023

Kathy and family sending you are sincerest condolences on the passing of Paul. Prayers to one and all.

Karen & Gary Spry - February 12, 2023

Kathy and family sending you are sincerest condolences on the passing of Paul. Prayers to one and all.

Victoria Curran - February 12, 2023

I'm so glad I got to know Paul (always "Steve's dad" to me) through his support of his son's theatre and Christmas Eve dinners at Sharon's. Wicked humour? Oh yeah. And I'm not sure who cheated more at the big ball of fun, him or Kathy. Steve's dad was clearly surrounded by love, and my heart goes out to Kathy, Steve, and all the family. My condolences.

Judy Kramer - February 12, 2023

My deepest condolences to Steve and his family. May his memory be a blessing.

Barry & Marie Patterson - February 12, 2023

Kathy & Family our deepest sympathy, we miss our talks with Paul as they were always interesting ! He will be missed ! Barry & Marie Patterson

Blake Hetherington - February 12, 2023

I ran a snack bar in Colborne and Paul came in one day and hi mr. Hetherington my name Paul and I live in Peterb__ We are related some way and we became good palls Sorry to hear the news Bless his Familie Rest in peace GODS Grace.

Richelle Blackburn - February 12, 2023

My deepest condolences to Dave and Sue and the rest of the Hetherington family.

Pamela/Harold west - February 12, 2023

We send our condolences to all of the Hetherington family. We are glad we met and chatted with Paul on numerous occasions and agree he had a droll sense of humour! So glad to know even a little bit about him! He has left a great legacy in his children and their partners and offspring - so much to be proud - surrounding you all with hugs of strength and encouragement!

Lorraine and Ross Barth - February 12, 2023

Kathy, John,David and Steve lots of good memories of Paul he was such a genuine person our thoughts and prayers are with you all

Rhonda Cunningham - February 12, 2023

What a lovely man! I truly enjoyed my sightings of Paul when we would both be out in the early morning on our walks. We eventually got to the point we would just “high five” each other as we passed. Cathy, please know I held Paul in the highest regard and he will be missed.

Rhonda Cunningham - February 12, 2023

What a lovely man! I truly enjoyed my sightings of Paul when we would both be out in the early morning on our walks. We eventually got to the point we would just “high five” each other as we passed. Cathy, please know I held Paul in the highest regard and he will be missed.

Melissa Emerson - February 12, 2023

Thinking of you all during this difficult time. Paul was a great man. We’re sure he and Wayne are having a coffee and catching up already. ❤️

Faye Baxter - February 12, 2023

Dear Kathy and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Bill and Carmel Scott - February 12, 2023

To Paul's family, Bill and I offer our sincere condolences. Paul and Wayne Emmerson were permanent fixtures at Country Style, in the mornings. Bill and I would sit there and chat it up with them in the mornings, and they used to joke, "Don't tell our wives you saw us here, we're supposed to be out on our walk". Oh, how we loved those two. I hope they are toasting each other, up in Heaven, to a life well lived.

Dick & Ann Raymond - February 12, 2023

Kathy and family We are shocked to hear this news. A great guy. Our Bell family is dwindling. Sending hugs to everyone.

Eric Carleton - February 12, 2023

Kathy and family. Eric and I would like to extend our deepest sympathies to you. We remember Paul’s great sense of humour and cheerfulness whenever we would see him. He will be missed.

Carolyn Farrell - February 12, 2023

Kathy and Family, Please know I am thinking of you at this very difficult time.

Donald Ferguson - February 12, 2023

Katharine and family, Eleanor and I are so sorry for your loss. Paul was such a friendly , and polite person to know. I will always remember him as we would meet when we worked for Bell and Hydro . R.E.S.P. my friend

Brad Halls - February 12, 2023

To Kathy and all of Paul's extended family and friends. I was greatly saddened to learn of Paul's passing today. During my 35+ years living and working in Cobourg, I came to know Paul and enjoyed every interaction I had with him over the years. He seemed to me to be a perpetually optimistic person, no matter what challenges may have temporarily arisen, and his effusive good nature was always a tonic to everyone around him. My wife Heather and I send our condolences to you all. Brad Halls, Fergus, Ontario (formerly of Cobourg).

Roddy Turpin - February 12, 2023

My sincere sympathies to Paul's wife and family. Paul worked with Dad at the Bell in Cobourg.

sharon herrington - February 12, 2023

Kathy So sorry to hear about your husband my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Hugs Sharon (Top Cuts)

Jeanie Haig - February 12, 2023

My condolences to Dave, Sue, and the entire Hetherington family. Very sorry to hear about the passing of your dad 💙🌷 Jeanie Haig

Linda Flindall - February 12, 2023

Kathy, so very sorry to read of the loss of Paul. Ron and I both enjoyed our many conversations down at the harbour. I also knew Paul from his Bell days at my work. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Sincerely Linda Flindall.