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Shirley Lydia Terwilligar

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Shirley Lydia Terwilligar

April 6, 1940 - November 16, 2022

It is with heavy hearts the family of Shirley Lydia Terwilligar (nee Haskins) announce her passing. Shirley passed away peacefully on Wednesday November 16, 2022, at Ed’s House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre in Cobourg in her 82nd year.
She was the beloved wife of the late Thomas Terwilligar and dear mom of Jeff (Shari) and Jennifer (Nathan). Loved Grandma to Amanda (Kevin), Cameron (Katie), Evan (Kirsten), Dylan (Ally), Cortney (Jack), Bayley, and Nerissa. Cherished Great-Grandma to Lucas, Connor and Maia. Shirley grew up in the Township of Rear of Leeds and Lansdowne on the family’s Black Rapids Road homestead. Her father John Vernon Haskins inspired her love of art and the outdoors. Shirley spent many years creating beautiful paintings, crafts, quilts, cakes, skating outfits, and knitted items. Her family appreciated the compassionate care that Shirley received from the hospital and hospice staff. A private service will be held on Saturday November 19, 2022, at MacCoubrey Funeral Home, Cobourg, followed by interment at Cobourg Union Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Art Gallery of Northumberland, Ed’s House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre, or the Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation.

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Margaret McKinlay - November 25, 2022 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Art Gallery of Northumberland - Victoria Hall

Brennan and Katherine Scanlon - November 25, 2022 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Arthur and Velma Joynt - November 25, 2022 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Linda - November 24, 2022

My heart goes out to Jeff and Shari and the Terwilliger family as you share the memories your mom has left you. She was a beautiful lady in every way. Our sympathy Linda and Bill Nugent

Gayle Pennycook - November 22, 2022

So sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Donna Sprague - November 22, 2022

Jeff,Jennifer and families, My condolences on the loss of your mother. She was a wonderful lady. I remember with fondness the the times we spent together years ago when we were neighbours.

Lynda garddner - November 21, 2022

Sorry to hear of Pats passing she was so friendly and so involved in the Centerton celebration . Coffee pot and conversation at the store was so heart warming. Rip Pat

Kathleen Bridge-Ugolini - November 21, 2022

Jeff, Jennifer and families. Our sincerest condolences. I had the pleasure of taking care of your Mom for a little while. Shirley remembered me, which was a delight, as we haven't seen each other in many years. Shirley's laugh would light up any room. She will be missed by many. Our prayers are with you at this sad time. Kathy & Rob Ugolini and Peter Bridge

Jeanne Bell - November 20, 2022

Sending condolence to Jeff and Jennifer and there family's in the loss of there Mom, and grandmother .thinking of you all and your loss .

Gwen & Rawleigh Arthur - November 20, 2022

Jennifer, Jeff and families - we are so sorry to hear of your loss of your mother. We have many fond memories of times spent together as neighbours years ago. Our sincere condolences to you and your family. Gwen, Rawleigh and family.

Dianna - November 19, 2022

Sincere condolences Jeff, Shari and family. Many hugs and prayers during this time.

Joanne Francis-Beattie - November 19, 2022

Jeff, Jennifer and families...so very sorry to hear of the passing of your beautiful mom...known affectionately to us Burnet kids as Mrs. T. Always smiling and kind! My sincere condolences to you❤️

Betty Lou Minaker - November 19, 2022

My thoughts and prayers are with you. My sincere condolences to everyone.

John and Susan Dolan - November 19, 2022 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Murray and Antoinette McBride - November 19, 2022 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Helen Baxter - November 19, 2022 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Rod and Florence Baker - November 19, 2022 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Carolann Hoefnagels - November 19, 2022

Sorry to hear of your loss, Jeff, Shari and family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. We have another Angel looking upon us. Michael, Carolann and Christopher

Sharrow Connie & Rick - November 19, 2022

Very sorry to hear of your lost. Our hearts go out to the family. R.I.P.

Sharon Van Essen - November 19, 2022

Peter and I wish to convey our condolences. Shirley and Tom attended our church and both were so pleasant with a smile on their faces.

Carol Ann Heffernan - November 19, 2022

Jennifer and family, We are so very sorry to hear about your Mom. She was a wonderful lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. Sincerely, Tom & Carol Ann

Lorraine Barth - November 18, 2022

Jenn sorry to hear about your moms passing she was such a lovely lady

Kim (Munn) Goebel - November 18, 2022

I will always remember Mrs. Terwilliger for her kindness, her soft and pleasant demeaner. She always greeted me with a smile no matter where we met up. Even as a child growing up in the depot she was like a community mother. She was definitely a ray of sunshine for anyone who came in contact with her. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

David Rusk & Melissa Brown - November 18, 2022

So very sorry to hear of your loss Jeff & Shari. My condolences to the Terwilliger family.

Nancy Hamilton - November 18, 2022

I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mom had a wonderful daughter with you ❤️. Sad time for you and your family. My thoughts are with you.

Donna VanCott and Family - November 18, 2022

Sad to hear about your Mom, and we were really good friends for years. We had some really good times. Jeff and Jennifer take care Thinking of you, Love Donna and Family

Gwen and Tom Devaney - November 18, 2022

So sorry to hear of your mothers passing. She was a lovely neighbour here on Smith Rd. for many years. I was always greeted with a smile and a friendly conversation. Our sincere condolences to you and your family.

Brenda Panepinto - November 18, 2022

Condolences to Shirley family. I worked with Shirley for many years at the Cobourg Daily Star. Always a smile on her face. I cherished the days I worked with her.

Sandy Watt - November 18, 2022

Jeff So sorry to hear about your mothers passing. We will be thinking of you and your family over the next few days. Murray and Sandy

fraser macdonald - November 18, 2022

Our sincere condolences to Jeff, yourself and the family. Fraser and Yvonne Macdonald

Angela and Cameron Clark - November 18, 2022 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Ron Wiebe - November 18, 2022

Jeff, Jennifer and families. So very sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Keep the memories close.

Bernice Armstrong - November 18, 2022

Shirley was a good friend and neighbour. Remember the good times.

Carl & Dorothy Kessler - November 18, 2022

So sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing…she was a neighbour and good friend for many years..we would do crafts together and drink tea and try to solve the problems of the world..don’t think we ever did..but we enjoyed each other’s company…haven’t seen her since the pandemic…but thought about her daily…our hearts go out to all the family at this time …rest in peace my dear friend…I will keep the memories close!

Kim Gelineau - November 18, 2022

Jeff,Jennifer and families. So very sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. Sending deepest condolences I remember her vividly from Burnet drive. Such a lovely lady RIP Mrs T Kim Gelineau

Doug & Linda Champagne - November 18, 2022

Jeff , Jennifer and families. It is with sadness hearing about Shirley. You were all great neighbours for many years and we all have great memories that can never be taken away. Thinking of you all at this difficult time. Love , Doug & Linda and family.

Danielle Greenhorne - November 18, 2022

So sorry to read Shirley has passed away .Tom and Shirley were in my neighbour hood on Burnet Dr RIP SHIRLEY