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John Elwood Trefiak

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John Elwood Trefiak

December 1, 1946 - October 16, 2022

John passed bravely and peacefully in palliative care at Northumberland Hills Hospital.

Soul mate and husband of the late Heather Trefiak (nee Murray). Loving son of Gloria Russell (Jack). Loyal brother to Wendy Woroch. Proud father of Jennifer (Peter), Tiffany (Jason), and Miranda. John was a patient and caring Grampy to Christian, Justin, Liam, Lachlan, Ava, Oren, Lily, and Ella. Predeceased by his granddaughter Joy.

John was a peacekeeping veteran who served in Cyprus, Germany, and Belgium. He told fascinating stories of his adventures as a paratrooper, meeting people overseas and trying local delicacies. He was a lover of music who enjoyed going to concerts (The Beatles and Queen among many) and playing his guitar. John was loved by many for his easy going nature and his infectious sense of humour. He would whoop you in Trivial Pursuit but you would have a fun time losing. John passed down his love of the outdoors and camping to his family. He greatly enjoyed an early morning coffee while quietly sitting by the lake.
John’s passing has left a hole in our lives, he will be missed.

At John’s request, a private family ceremony will be held in Alderville.
John has asked that you do not grieve, but can honour his memory with a donation to the Canadian Cancer Society.

MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

Bev livingstone - November 7, 2022

My sincere condolences to all Johns family

Pam Crowe - October 28, 2022

Gloria, Wendy and family I send my deepest sympathy for your loss

Brian Beaver - October 28, 2022

So sorry for your loss…Johnny was too young to leave us

Katharine McMurdo - October 27, 2022

Thinking of you at this difficult time.

Dale O’Brien - October 26, 2022

My deepest condolences to your family. I have many great memories of time spent with Johny. ?

Grant Coward - October 26, 2022

Glen and I are very saddened to learn of your father's passing, Jennifer and Peter. Please know that you are in our loving and caring thoughts during this difficult time. Hugs from Glen and Grant.

Christian Leavitt - October 26, 2022

I knew John from his days working for Eldorado Nuclear. He was a good supervisor to his men. My condolences to his family/friends and community.

Scott Hall - October 24, 2022

So sorry for your family's loss

Sue Kearsey - October 24, 2022

Hi Jennifer sorry for your loss, thinking of you and your family, bless you all. Sue & Wayne

Edith Lean - October 24, 2022

Hearts and love to you all. Rick, Edith, Rick Jr, Therese and family

Rick Beaver - October 24, 2022

For my cousin John, sharing memories of great frog hunts, the pronunciation of tarantula and fun times around Alderville...I miss you and share with others who do too, just this: keeping counsel is a matter of believing in the truth of memories. Condolences to his family and friends. May your memory be a blessing to us all.

Jean Walters - October 24, 2022

I am very sorry for your loss

Linda White - October 24, 2022

My sincere sympathy.

Rob and Cyndy Harper - October 24, 2022

Sending our sincere condolences on the loss of John he was such a nice man. Please know you are all in our hearts, thoughts and prayers during this sad and difficult time. May you feel the comfort of God’s loving arms around you. Sincerely Rob and Cyndy Harper

David Bryson - October 24, 2022

My condolences to you, Jen and your family. From what I have just read, it sounds like your dad is someone I would like to have known. Love to you and Peter.

Beth Hunt - October 24, 2022

We’re so saddened to hear of your Dad’s passing Jen. We know what a struggle this has been and hope you and your family find peace and solace in your grief. Love to you.

Jayne Johnston - October 24, 2022

Gloria and family members, just letting you know I am thinking of everyone at this time. May he RIP. My heart goes out to you Gloria. John will be in my prayers. Sincerely, Jayne Johnston

Anne Burnham - October 24, 2022

Dear Wendy, Jennifer and family, Our sympathy goes out to you. We wish you strength at this difficult time. Anne and Paul Burnham