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It is with heavy hearts we announce the passing of Alan Hathaway on Friday, August 19, 2022, at the age of 85. Alan passed peacefully at the Ed’s House Hospice surrounded in the love of his family. In 1993 Alan’s first wife, Murna Davis Hathaway tragically passed away. October 28, 1995 he remarried to Shelley McGill- Hathaway. Together they were able to blend their family into what it is today. Alan will be deeply missed by his son’s, Michael, Neil and Jon. Grandfather to Ashely, Jade and Kaitlyn and great-grandfather to Cohen and Cooper. Cherished brother to Colin (Dolores), Brian (the late Irene), the late Robert, Janet (Bill), David, Ann (the late Norm), Nancy (Danny) and Randy (Mary Lou). Alan will be missed and forever loved by his many nieces and nephews. He loved his family deeply and loved to be loved. The family would like to extend their most sincere gratitude to all the staff at Ed’s House Hospice as well as to Dr. Cathy Bernard Thompson. Your gentle care and compassion for both Alan and his family did not go unnoticed or unappreciated. Alan was a man of love. He genuinely cared about humanity and nature with a veracity that encouraged others to create a better earth for future generations. He was an authentic example of staying true to oneself. He lived passionately and loudly. A man to turn to when seeking advice. His final piece of advice, “If you have any misunderstandings or disagreements, let them go. Forgive and forget. And take care of your woman!” He was a jack of all trades, his creativity and attention to detail astounding and inspiring. He was a big presence in this world and will be missed deeply by all who knew and loved him. You’re over on the good side now Al. We love you. A private family graveside service will take place at St. Aloysius & Our Lady Queen of Peace Catholic Cemetery, Fenelon Falls where Alan will be laid to rest with Murna. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Ed’s House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre.
Just by chance did I feed Al’s name into google, and learned of his passing. Al and my husband Graham were boyhood friends, always together. Sadly we lost Graham Nov.29th after a short illness (2021) . Fond memories of the old days.
So sorry for your loss Shelley. my thoughts are with you and the family. I enjoyed my occasional chats with Alan, usually through the car window! I was sad to learn he was so ill, but I hope you have comfort knowing he didn’t have to suffer too long. May many wonderful memories keep Alan close by, in your heart. Jayne, ( your mom’s and Sam’s neighbour)
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Dear Shelley I’m so very sorry for your loss of Al. It has been many years but i recall his great personality so well. Hugs to you. Sharon
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Shelley I was so sorry to hear about Al's passing. He was such a good man and he adored you and his family. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you love and hugs, Janice
Alan was a wonderful friend, always eager to offer encouragement and support. Those that know Alan know of his wonderful smile that lit up the room. Alan was a great debater eager to engage others. He always had the time to stop and speak to strangers and was interested in getting to know them and their perspective. We will miss you Alan and send much love to you and your family. May you rest in eternal peace and the grace of God.
Dear Shelley, Our very deepest sympathy to you and your family over the loss of your dear Al. You are in our thoughts. With much love, Sue and Iain
Sorry to hear of your loss of Alan. I met him a few times with David Hathaway. May God bless you Shelley and the family at this time. Your friend Brenda
We will hold you in our hearts until we all hold you again in paradise on earth. In life we loved you dearly, in death we love you still. In our hearts 💕 you hold a place, no one else will ever fill. " Till We Meet Again "
Our sincere condolences to Mr. Hathaway's entire family. The lovely obituary truly says it all.
I know where you now belong; not in body, but in quiet moments, in stillness, hanging on the wind, the spaces in between. RIP
Forever rest in peace uncle al..I will always remember you in my heart my mind and in my spirit..you were a truly good man.you always made everyone around you feel loved...love you always...