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We are sad to announce the passing of Thomas ”Tommy” Hubert Bulger, peacefully in his sleep at the age of 94 in his room at The Golden Plough Lodge.
Born February 2nd in 1927, he was the third of eleven children of Joseph Bulger and Rose Bulger (nee Curran) of Cobourg and the only one born on Ground Hog’s Day.
Tom is predeceased by his wife of 62 years Ruth (nee Jones) and his siblings Joe (Helen), Teresa, John (Betty), Rosemary (Jack), Eileen (Edmund), Frankie, Dolores, Dolan and Robert. They are all welcoming him with open arms, singing old Irish tunes and drinking good wine. He and Ruthie are jiving while his beloved dog Dusty is waiting patiently to go to the Marsh. He is survived by younger sister Ann and Brother-in-law Tony, as well as his best girl Maggie.
Tom will be missed dearly by the “Magnificent Seven” Robert (Karen), Brian (Shannon), Colleen (Ken), Mike (Cathy), Nancy (Mike), Carolyn and Anne (Dave), as well as his grandchildren Sadie (Jenelle), Ryan (Liza), Jay (Lydia), Thomas (Laura), Sierra (Kalvin), Katie, Jack, Adam (Steve), Russell, Melinda, Mason, Colin, Kelly and his great grandchildren Sienna, Charlotte, Desia, Meyer, Emerson, Connor, Ella, and a lucky 7th to be arriving shortly. He will also be fondly remembered by his large extended family, including the many “adoptees”.
Tom, known to most as “Grampa”, worked most of his life as an electrician at Houdaille and then General Motors, but when not working, put most of his talents into fixing every appliance in the house. In his spare time Tom was an avid fisherman, hunter, golfer, hockey player and coach. Always the life of the party, Tom never missed a social gathering or a chance to make a bad joke and laugh loudly.
The family wishes to extend a heartfelt “thank you” to all the staff of the Golden Plough Lodge for their compassionate care and making sure that he won at Bingo each week. A visitation will be held at MacCoubrey Funeral Home 30 King St. E., Cobourg on Saturday October 30th from 11 am to 1:30 pm
A gathering of family and friends is scheduled for Saturday, October 30th at 2:00 pm at the Mausoleum in Saint Michael’s Cemetery on Burnham Street in Cobourg. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to KidSport (c/o Northumberlandsportscouncil.ca).
Tom! You will be soooo dearly missed. You had the brightest darn smile that would light up the room. You won’t be forgotten. Sending all my love to your family and friends.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
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A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
Colleen and Ken Our sincere condolences to you and your family. Now is a time to treasure the beautiful memories you have of you dad. You are in our thoughts and hearts.
On behalf of the Taylor family, we wanted to extend our heartfelt condolences to Mike, Cathy, Sierra (Kalvin) and the extended Bulger family for your loss of Grampa Tom. Our thoughts are with you.
Colleen, Ken and as best put, The Magnificent Seven.. My heart goes out to all of you when a loved one passes. You will have memories to cherish of your dad, and knowing he is with Ruth now, can put you at ease. My memories from high school years with Colleen showed me what a family of love is like. There was always positive energy and fun at the Bulger home. Everyone take from that and carry it on. Much LOVE to everyone as you go forward. Be strong !
Two memories come to mind from the many years I have known Tom. Entering our first year of university, Tom helped Brian, Ed, and I move into our new apartment in London. As we were loading my parents' old trunk into the truck, Tom quipped 'What have you got in there, rocks !?!' In the late seventies, a bunch of us would gather at the 3rd marsh to play shinny hockey. It was FREEZING cold. Wearing his vintage 1940's leather skates, Tom would literally dance around the ice, leaving the young guys flatfooted and amazed. Rest in peace Mr Bulger
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
Brian, Shannon and family. ... we are very sorry to hear of the passing of your father, our hearts and prayers are with you. He was a wonderful man and enjoyed a good life. Remember all the good times spent with him and it will help ease your sorrow. Hugs to all.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
Colleen ... so sorry to hear of the passing of your dear Dad. Your treasured memories of your Dad's life will always be with you and your family.
Colleen ... to you and your family, I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong and always keep the memories close. Cheryl
Sincere condolences to Brian, Shannon, Colin, Kelly and the entire extended Bulger clan. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time, hope that you can reflect on great memories to ease the pain . The Martin family
Nancy,Carolyn,Anne and family. Soo very sorry to hear the passing of your father. I know you all loved your dad very much and will be saddened by his passing but cherish your precious memories of him. I’m sure there are many. You will miss him dearly no doubt. Hugs to all.
My sincere and deepest condolences to all of the Bulger and extended family in the passing of Uncle Tommy. Remembering fondly all of the Bulger reunions in Coburg at the park and all the wonderful times we shared with Uncle Tommy and our family. Sending our love and keeping you all in our prayers???????
Dear Bulger families Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of Tom I remember well the days of the BCL and the great times we all had .I’m sure all your fond memories will give you comfort
To Bulger Family, I'm saddened by the news of your dad passing. I have many fond memories of Tom and all the goings-on at the house on Wellington Street. It was rarely a dull moment. Thinking back today, I can't imagine how your parents managed but they did, with grace and humour. Tom, it was an honour to know you. May you rest in peace.
Colleen, Ken and family. I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. Sounds like he was the life of the party and Colleen you have taken on that role. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you cherish the memories of your dad. ❤️❤️Big hugs.
I'm so very sorry to hear about the passing of your wonderful dad. My heartfelt condolences to all of the family. Your dad's legacy lives on through the creation of his wonderful family. He will always be in your heart and memories♥️
Dear Colleen, Ken and family, My sincere condolences on the death of your dear father. Seems to me a wicked family party is in order. My heart says your dad, Grampa, wouldn’t have it any other way. Much love and healing ❤️? thoughts to all. ❤️❤️❤️
Valerie ,Sharon and families. We are so sorry to hear about your Uncle passing.Please extent our condolences.
Colleen and family. I'm so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I loved to hear your stories of your parents and siblings. Sounds like you had so much fun. Cherish the memories.
Ann and Bulger Family: We are sorry to learn of Tommy passing on. Fond memories of the Bulger house and family in Corktown. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
So sorry for your loss, Nancy. Sounds like your Dad was the life of the party! Janette
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
Dear Colleen & Family So sorry to hear about your Father’s passing. Cherish all the good times you had with him. Rest In Peace Mr. Bulger Sincerely Jeanine Clarey
My deepest condolences to all the Bulger family for the loss of a great man. He had such a great sense of humor, and he passed that down to all his kids. Ann Younie
Colleen, Ken & Family, our heartfelt sympathy to each one of you for the loss of your Dad. What an incredible sounding man, we would have loved to have know him & can definitely see where you get your spirit from Colleen! You will no doubt feel a huge void, but know you will always treasure all your wonderful memories & times together. Hugs to all of you I read this recently & thought it was worded so well; "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal"
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
KidSport Canada
Nancy and family My sympathies on your loss. What am amazing full life story. He will be missed after bringing such joy into so many lives Sheila
Anne, I was so sad to hear about your Dad’s recent passing. He was such a kind and funny person, always joking around. My deepest condolences to your entire family. Michele
Colleen and Ken and Bulger family: Will miss your Dad so much. What a treasure he was; always smiling, telling jokes and enjoying a refreshing beverage. The weekly stories of what he was up to at Golden Plough were something we always looked forward to. His spirit remains in all of you; treasure your memories and continue the Bulger family traditions. Love to all of you.
Anne and Melinda I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father and grandfather, my thoughts are with and your family, if you need anything please call...
Dear Colleen, Ken and the Bulger Family, Our sincere condolences on the passing of Tom - a wonderful Dad and Grandpa. We always enjoyed hearing stories about him. May the fond memories of him give you strength in the coming days.
My heart goes out to all of the Bulger clan during this sad time. Your Dad was such a special individual... always taking the time to have a conversation and share a laugh! I know our Dad enjoyed spending time with Tom too...both of them spinning tales of the fish that got away! I will cherish the memories of both your Mom and Dad in the years to come. Take care of each other and hope to see you soon?
To the Bulger family - It was a pleasure to meet your Dad, Grandpa, Great-Grandpa on a few occasions when he & his wife came to visit Nancy at our office at UOIT. Mr. Bulger always had a smile on his face. I worked with both Nancy & Colleen and know that they grew up in a home that was filled with laughter and love. My condolences to the entire Bulger clan.
Colleen and family, so sorry for your loss! He was a wonderful dad/grandpa to all of you! I know his legacy will live on in each of you! What an awesome picture of your dad! Oh that smile and laugh! Treasure those memories!
Colleen, Ken and Family I am so sorry to hear of your dad’s death. I always enjoyed hearing of your family shenanigans. I know he will be missed. I hope that you fond memories will give you strength and comfort.