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Neil Michael Henley

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Neil Michael Henley

May 29, 2002 - August 7, 2021

Suddenly as a result of an accident, on Saturday, August 7th 2021, in his 20th year. Beloved son of Christina Croke and Michael Henley. Loving grandson of Deborah Alley, Barrie Alley, Garry Croke, the late Doris Simpson, the late Neil Herrington and loving great-grandson of Dulcie Matchem. Neil will be sadly missed by his best friend Matt, his many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. A celebration of Neil’s life will take place on Saturday, August 21, 2021 from 2pm to 6pm at the Cobourg Community Center, Cobourg. Donations to MADD or Big Brothers Big Sisters Northumberland would be appreciated.

MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

Lois-Anne Johns - August 21, 2021

Dear Christina I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Although I never met Neil you spoke often about him with so much pride and love. My deepest sympathy to you and your family and all Neil's friends. Xo

Max Wood - August 21, 2021

Neil was a great friend to me, always being so so kind and always being supportive. A great human being, and a wonderful man. I will always be thinking of Neil every single day. Thinking of other friends and also family❤️ I love him forever.

Joan Brant - August 21, 2021

My deepest condolences for the loss of your son. My heart goes out to you and Mike. I feel your pain and wish you didn't have to experience this pain. Hugs and prayers for you both .

Janet Pritchard - August 19, 2021

I cannot even begin to know hard this must be. Neil and my daughter Melissa we’re good friends they sort of dated for a few weeks. The last time I saw Neil he came to pick up Melissa and I had made some banana bread muffins and I gave him some, he said he was taking them home to put butter on them well they didn’t make it that far he loved them and ate them all before they got to his place. I just wanted to say Neil was a lovely young man and I feel honoured that we got to know him. Rest In Peace Neil.

Kylee Moore - August 19, 2021

Christina, My deepest condolences to you and Mike. My heart is broken for the both of you. Thinking of you daily xox

Lynn Nizio - August 18, 2021

So sorry for your loss. Neil was a wonderful young man and will be missed by everyone he knew.

Lynn Poirier - August 18, 2021

I’ve had the sincere pleasure of teaching Neil in his early years. He was always so pleasant and helpful. His smile could light up a room. Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your precious son. I’m keeping you in my prayers.

Andrea Couch - August 18, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Northumberland

Armande - August 18, 2021

Christina and Mike, we are so very sorry for your loss. Cannot wrap our mind around how much you are hurting. Just know that we are praying for you and that we love you. Uncle Don and Armande xo

Marlene Gauvin - August 18, 2021

We are truly without words. I can't say I know how you both must feel, because I don't. And I can only imagine the devastating heart wrenching loss you must feel. Im so so sorry you have to experience this loss, no parent should ever lose a child let alone in this tragic way.I wish I could take your hurt away . My heart breaks for you both. You will be in my thoughts and prayers always. ???? Hugs

Kelley. Hopps - August 18, 2021

There are no words! Absolutely devastating to hear about the sudden loss of your only son, your only child. I will continue to pray for you and Mike. My sincerest most heart felt condolences Hugs XO

Jackie Wheeler - August 18, 2021

When I heard the news, my heart hurt and I couldn't breathe. Instantly sick to my stomach. Words can not express how sorry I am for you both. Our community has come together because of your loss. In my heart and thoughts... Jackie P.S.W at the G.P.L

Alexandra MacBain - August 17, 2021

I am so saddened by your loss Christina. I am thinking of you and your family and loved ones. Sending all my strength. I have heard nothing but good things about Neil and I know he will be so dearly missed. My heart breaks for you.

Natasha Piper - August 17, 2021

We are honored and blessed to have known Neil. He was truly a kind and lovable soul. He touched and made his mark on all who knew him. Words can not suffice to express the heartfelt sorrow that we feel. Please know you and your family are in our hearts and prayers. Our deepest condolences. Natasha and Joel

Brianna Sinclair - August 17, 2021

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family he was an amazing person and he missed by many

Cathy haggerty - August 17, 2021

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family my dearest friend during this most difficult time..YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS..MY HEART IS WITH YOU❤????

Heather MacDonald - August 17, 2021

Sending so much love. I wish I could be there to hug you and share in this beautiful boy's memorial. Godspeed Neil. Xo

Paul Nunes - August 17, 2021

Deb, condolences to you and your whole family on the loss of your grandson, Neil. Though his passing was very sad, we know he would want you to remember all the happy memories of the times you shared together.

Jhaneeta Massey - August 17, 2021

Christina Croke Iam so sorry for your loss. Praying for God’s comfort for you and your family.Thinking of you and sending you hugs.?????

Emma Kimmerly - August 17, 2021

So sorry to hear this Christina. I had a pleasure of meeting you at the plough and playing baseball with your son. May he RIP.

Kelly Davis - August 17, 2021

The legacy of your son Neil will live on in the hearts of everyone who knew him. .. God Bless

Diane - August 17, 2021

I am so sad for your loss. He was a wonderful soul with a big heart ! Cherish all your amazing memories that you had thru his life..He will forever be with you in your hearts. Love and Prayers Diane Baldini

Karen Eaton - August 17, 2021

THE ROSE BEYOND THE WALL-A. L. Frink Near a shady wall a rose once grew, Budded and blossomed in God’s free light, Watered and fed by morning dew, Shedding its sweetness day and night. As it grew and blossomed fair and tall, Slowly rising to loftier height, I came to a crevice in the wall, Through which there shone a beam of light. Onward it crept with added strength, With never a thought of fear or pride; It followed the light through the crevice length And unfolded itself on the other side. The light, the dew, the broadening view, Were the same as they were before; And it lost itself in beauties new, Breathing its fragrance more and more. Shall claim of death cause us to grieve And make our courage faint or fall? Nay, let us faith and hope receive; The rose still grows beyond the wall, Scattering fragrance far and wide, Just as it did in days of yore. Just as it did on the other side, Just as it will forever more. Thinking of both of you You are in my thoughts and prayers