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Sophie Emily Ouckama

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Sophie Emily Ouckama

November 11, 2003 - June 17, 2021

Unexpectedly passed away on Thursday June 17, 2021 at the age of 17. Beloved daughter of Sean Ouckama and Gwedhen Nicholas. Step-daughter of Jen Ryan. Beloved sister of Anna Ouckama and Peter Ouckama. Loving granddaughter of Rachel and Desmond Ouckama and Judy and the late Glyn Nicholas. Cherished niece of Gavin (Tonya), Ryan (Meghan), Desiree (Matthew) and Troon. Loved and remembered by her cousins and extended family. A private family visitation will be held at MacCoubrey Funeral Home 30 King St. E. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to The Hospital for Sick Children PICU or Tree Canada.

MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

Inukshuk Farm M & J Ecclestone - August 20, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Lynn and Ken Stubbings - July 22, 2021

So sorry for your loss.

Cathy Rae & Pat Paszt - July 17, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Elva and Roy Austin - July 6, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Neelam & Francis Bugay - June 29, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Neelam & Francis Bugay - June 29, 2021

Our deepest condolences to uncle Des and family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

Jonathan Taylor - June 29, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Margaret Davidson - June 28, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Jeannette Vroom - June 28, 2021

I am so sorry to hear about Sophie, and send condolences to all the family.

Roy & Elva Austin - June 28, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Gwen and Anne Keillor - June 28, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

Dianne Lumley - June 27, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Geoffrey Honey - June 27, 2021

Condolences to all of Sophie's family and many friends. I remember her quiet, gentle, cheerful and playful spirit as she chummed with her fast childhood friend Serenity in my JK/SK classroom at Baltimore P.S. Our thoughts gently hold you during this very painful time.

John Fingas - June 26, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

John Fingas - June 26, 2021

I'm so sad to hear this news. Sophie was such a sweet kid and so full of character. Her & Peter & Anna will always have their own special room together in my heart. My heart and prayers to your whole family.

Christa Graff - June 26, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

Dorothy Geale - June 25, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

Ammar - June 25, 2021

Sean. On behalf of the Lunar team, our deepest condolences to the whole family. My heart goes to your family during this time of grief.

Grant Carroll - June 25, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

Deborah Pender - June 25, 2021

Deep heartfelt condolences to you, Ouckama parents, and to siblings, grandparents, aunts & uncles and friends. Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers... I never knew Sophie, but I know she had a good family who must’ve had very special places in their hearts for her. From what I saw in your beautiful picture slideshow, Sophie looked like an angelic soul from her childhood to her young adulthood, who shined beautifully. Who brought a gentle and kind heart around her loved ones and the animals she seemed drawn and connected with in her life... I pray that she will always be with you as your guardian angel whenever you’re in need of strength and courage. ...Until you meet again... Love & prayers to Sophies family in these difficult and challenging times. - From my heart to yours, an old friend and neighbor to The Ouckamas. ?

Sherry Delos Santos - June 25, 2021

My deepest condolences to the whole family. My heart goes to your family during this time of grief.

catherine hawley - June 24, 2021

It is such an unforgettable and life giving joy to have known Sophie a little and to have received of her so true and beautiful heart Gweth , Judith , Anna and Peter .... I shall never forget how she so loved being with you and was of such ease-filled and unbounded ,free spirited joy and love when with you at the country home in Lakefield . She loved you so . And still does . There are no words whatsoever for your pain , i know ... but need to write ''something'' anyway . love you all so dearly , catherine

Ian MacVicar - June 24, 2021

Des, Rachel and Family My family and I send our deepest sympathies to you all.

Ian MacVicar - June 24, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Joseph Ryan - June 24, 2021

So saddened to hear of the loss. Very sad and my condolences . Sending love and prayers in this sad time to all of you.

Richard S MacCallum - June 24, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Mr and Mrs Amoranto - June 24, 2021

To Sean and family. Our deepest condolences to you guys. We cannot phanthom the pain and grieving that you guys are going through at this moment but i know God sees that emotions and he cries with you. Sean, you might not understand it today but someday you will. Just know that where ever Sophie is right now, she knew that she was love by her dad and many. We love you sean, keep your heart right and God will do the rest.. again our heartfelt condolences❤??‍?.

Rod Simpson - June 23, 2021

I am so sorry to see Sophie has left us. Holding your family in my thoughts.

Rod Simpson - June 23, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Eddy Tsai - June 23, 2021

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Take care

Nelinie & George - June 23, 2021

To Des, Rachel and your family, our deepest sympathy and condolences during this difficult time. Please know that our prayers are with you all.

Ved - June 23, 2021

Des, my family and I send our deepest sympathies and sincere condolences to you and your loved ones for your loss. Stay strong and god bless during these difficult times.

Alena Kouril - June 23, 2021

Thinking of you during this difficult time. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Vallings Family - June 23, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Iwona Szalanski - June 23, 2021

I am so sorry to hear of this unexpected loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences??

Rash - June 23, 2021

My deepest condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. My prayers are with you.

Matt & Eun - June 23, 2021

Sean and family, we’re heartbroken for your loss, we’ll pray for you during this tragic time.

Sacha - June 23, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Bluffers Park Yacht Club - June 23, 2021

Dear Sean, Gwedhen, Anna, Peter and Ouckama family. Although we at Bluffers Park Yacht Club have just met you, we are saddened beyond belief to hear of the loss of your beloved daughter Sophie. We send you our heartfelt condolences for this unbelievable loss. Please know that the BPYC community is here for you and your family. Linda Dudas, Commodore, on behalf of Bluffer Park Yacht Club

Avril & Doug Jones - June 22, 2021

Dear Sean , Gwedhen , Jenn, Anna,& Peter, Rachel & Des, Losing Sophia is like losing the sunshine . May she shine when her spirit is ready . We will honour her dancing feet and eyes of curiosity when we walk the fields . May the power of love ,faith and family help to give everyone strength.

Hannah Willoughby - June 22, 2021

Gwedhen, Judy, Anna, Peter, and Troon, I am sorry for your loss. I will always remember Sophie as the little girl with the big glasses running back and forth through Aunt Judy's kitchen. You are all in my thoughts.

Shawn Gouthro - June 22, 2021

My deepest condolences. So sad to hear. Take care

Dean Fletcher - June 22, 2021

Sean, very sad news. My condolences to you and your extended family. Sorry for your loss. God Bless

Dave Fitz - June 22, 2021

When I heard the devastating news of your loss, I wanted to share with you some thoughts that I hoped would provide some comfort, love, and support during this time. A child loves unconditionally and lives in each and every moment. Please know that your daughter had the most beautiful and wonderful moments and memories with you. Each family moment is a treasured memory within your heart that can never be taken away.

Malay Mistry - June 22, 2021

Rest In Peace Sophie ? . My condolences and deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Kevin Powell - June 22, 2021

My condolences out to Ouckama family. I will keep you in my prayers.

Laura + Dan Deboer - June 22, 2021

Our deepest condolences Sean. That is utterly heart breaking. :(

Brian Bissessar - June 22, 2021

So incredibly sorry for your loss my friend, had no idea. I feel with you.

Cheryl & Gareth Goodchild - June 22, 2021

Our heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy to all Sophie's family.

Cheryl and Gareth Goodchild - June 22, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Rafe and Margot Currelly - June 22, 2021

Dear Sean and Family, We are so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. We can only hope the love you feel from those surrounding you help with all that you must be feeling at this time. We are keeping you in our thoughts. ~ Rafe & Margot

Carl Jeptha - June 22, 2021

Sean, our condolences and deepest sympathy to you and your family from our family.

Don and Marilyn Parliament - June 22, 2021

So sorry to hear of the loss of your precious daughter/granddaughter. Love from Don and Marilyn

Ron and Sally Fingas - June 22, 2021

Words can not express our sorrow at your loss of beautiful, precious Sophie. We pray God's love surrounds and comforts you. We picture Sophie's gentle smile and her nimble feet dancing in the fields of Heaven.

Sally and Ron Fingas - June 22, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

Jessica Cobley - June 22, 2021

Sean, Jen, and family you have my deepest sympathies. Sophie will be so sadly missed. Wishing you all strength and peace during this difficult time.

Katharine Spark - June 22, 2021

Rest In Peace Sophie. Sending my love to you all.

Katharine Spark - June 22, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Colin and Erin Towes - June 22, 2021

Dearest Sean, There is no greater loss than the loss of a child. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May you find some comfort during this tragic time in the memories that will you forever hold close to your heart. Forever young, forever beautiful, forever loved...Sore high with the angels Sophie xoxo

Esme McKenzie - June 22, 2021

My heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Thinking about you all. Esme

Kyra Smith - June 22, 2021

Sean, I know words don't fill the void but I just want to send my deepest condolences to you and the rest of your family. I know how much you love Sophie. I pray for strength and understanding during this time. I pray she is resting peacefully. Here for you always...

Tracie Wesrington - June 22, 2021

Sean, I am so sorry to hear of your daughter’s passing. My heart goes out to you and your family. Tracie

Hanifah - June 22, 2021

My deepest condolences to Sophie’s family. She was such a beautiful soul. She was one of the realest, fun, most fearless, people I know. She left us too soon. I hope that wherever she is, she found her peace and that she’s happy. I will always remember and miss her.

Donnie & Wayne Patterson - June 22, 2021

Sean so very sad for you and your family. Such a hard thing to go through. We just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you. You will have many cherished memories of Sophie to hold in your heart.

James, Debbie, Zoe and Kyra Fingas - June 22, 2021

We will always remember Sophie's gentle nature and her ready smile. With much love and sympathy - James, Debbie, Zoe and Kyra Fingas.

Wendy Menary - June 22, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Wendy Menary - June 22, 2021

Dear Des, Rachael and families; Deepest heartfelt sympathy for your loss.

Christine and Mike Brown - June 22, 2021

Sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family. The Browns xo

James, Debbie, Zoe and Kyra Fingas - June 22, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Kin and Rod Bergeron - June 21, 2021

Our sincere sympathies to Sean and family. No amount of words can express the pain being felt. Sophie may be gone from our sight but not from the hearts of those who knew her. The Bergeron Family Rod, Kim, Fox, Zane and Zoe

Shanette Gonzague - June 21, 2021

I'm so sorry for your loss. She was an amazing daughter and no doubt an outstanding friend. She brought nothing but fun with her, life of the party. Nobody is perfect but she was close to it. She was my shoulder to cry on and I was hers. We lost a gem, one in a million. She left us far too early. I'll miss you forever Sophie and that wherever you are you are happy.

Lorraine Ryan - June 21, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss. Sophie was such a beautiful soul and she will be forever missed. I am glad she will have some peace now. Thinking of you guys and sending love from NZ xo

Judy, Alberto and Havannah - June 21, 2021

Our deepest and heartfelt condolences go out to your family. May Sophie rest and be in peace. With love from us all.

Janice and Kevin Thompson - June 21, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

SUE RETALLICK - June 21, 2021

Dear Sean, Anna, Peter, Rachel and Des. My deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences. May Sophie always be a light in your hearts.

Janice & Kevin Thompson - June 21, 2021

Dear Rachel, Des and families Our heartfelt sympathy on the loss of Sophie. May your many memories bring comfort and srength to all of you during these extremely difficult times. Sincerest condolences. Janice & Kevin Thompson

Steven Savaglio - June 21, 2021

Our deepest condolences to the Ouckama family. So saddened to hear this news. May her light always shine in your lives.

Andrew Ogilvie - June 21, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Kerry Raina - June 21, 2021

Dear jenn Sean Anna and Peter so sorry to hear of Sophie's passing draw strength from each other at this very sad and challenging time. Take care love and best wishes xx.

Dennis and Joanne Richard - June 21, 2021

We were so very shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Sophie. Sean, Jen, Anna, Peter and extended families, please accept our deepest condolences at this tragic and heartbreaking time.

Kurt Romain - June 21, 2021

This is soooo shocking to hear this Sean please accept my deepest sympathy, my heart and prayers goes out to you and your family.

Contreras Family - June 21, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

Nancy & Kevin Clement - June 21, 2021

We are so sorry for your loss, may all the strength of loved ones get you through this♥️

Donna - June 21, 2021

To our lovely Sophie I know you will be dancing with the angels we love you and we will miss you

Thomas Buick GMC Ltd. - June 21, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation - PICU

Sandhya - June 21, 2021

To Jen and family, my heartfelt sincere condolences on this sad occasion. May Sophie rest in peace.

Sandhya - June 21, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

Melanie Tring - June 21, 2021

I extend my deepest sympathies to the whole family at such a tragic time. My love and strength to you all. ❤

Dawn Goldrich - June 21, 2021

My deepest condolences for your loss. My wish for your family is that you are filled with wonderful memories. I am sure that Sophie was greatly loved amd she knew it in her heart.

Holly - June 21, 2021

My heart breaks of this tragedy. Lots of love to you all.

Denis & Lisa Richard - June 21, 2021

Sean, Jen, Peter, Anna - and all of Sophie’s family. We are so sorry to hear of this tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and in the difficult days ahead.

Gordon Jibb - June 21, 2021

We are so sorry to hear of this terrible loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Gord, Marg, Matt & Laura and families.

BARINDER GILL - June 21, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

Barinder Gill and Emily Burt - June 21, 2021

Des, Rachel and the Ouckama Family, We were so very saddened to hear of your unimaginable and heartbreaking loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time of grief. We hope that you can find comfort and strength in one another. With love, Barinder and Emily

Don and Nancy Linton - June 21, 2021

Sean, Anna, Peter, Rachel, and Des, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Such a tragedy to loose a loved one so young. We are praying for you in your grief.

Grandad/ Grandma - June 21, 2021

Sophie will be in our hearts forever.

Grandad/Grandma - June 21, 2021

An Angel came into our Family and we called her SOPHIE She reminded us About the importance of LOVE And then she was gone.

Virissa Lenters - June 21, 2021

Dear Sean, dear Ouckama family, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to your family. Virissa

Virissa Lenters - June 21, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Tree Canada

Jennifer and Eddie Jones - June 21, 2021

Beautiful Sophie. We send our love and deepest sympathy to all the family, Des, Rachael, Sean, Peter, Anna, and all the many uncles, aunts and cousins. We are so very sorry for your loss and we are thinking of you all. Aunt Jen, Eddie, Dan, Katharine, Ella and Zoe.