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It is with great sadness to announce that our beautiful Wife, Mom, Nana passed peacefully at the Northumberland Hills Hospital in Cobourg on Friday, June 11, 2021, Valerie Ashdown (nee Harris) at 79 years of age. Beloved wife of Leonard Ashdown. Loving mother of Denise Carley (Chris). Cherished grandmother of Jessica Pentland (Robin), Amanda Carley (Dru) and great grandmother of Olivia Rose, Kacey, Kayden, and Karter. Predeceased by her brothers Dennis and Charlie. As well missed by Loraine Whitaker and children Steven, Anna, Samantha, and Ava. A private family service will be held Saturday July 3 at 2pm. Anyone wishing to watch the service may do so on our website. Donations to the Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation would be appreciated by the family.
There are no words to lighten the grief that val’s family and friends are feeling at this time but all who knew her take away warmest memories of such a kind, generous woman who lived for Len, her family and friends. When you were in Val’s company much fun and laughter was had by all. I loved Val dearly and will miss her always. Rest easy dear lady, till we meet again. ♥️
With a heavy heart I send all my love to my family in Canada. Great Aunt Val was a delightful lady, with the greatest sense of humour! She accepted me with open arms - no questions, just a "come on, let's go to the bar and get a spritzer!" I will miss her and I know she will be proudly watching over the amazing family she has made. We are all so blessed to have her mark on our hearts. My love is with you all
Deepest condolences to Uncle Len, Denise, Loraine, and their families. My thought is with you all at this difficult time. Auntie Val will be missed by us all. All my love Jeff xx
Val was my aunt my dad Charlie's sister. She has always been in our lives as has my uncle Len. Margaret and I were bridesmaids at Val and Lens Wedding. She is now up with Nan Grandad Den and our mum and Dad. Thinking of Len and my cousins. Till we meet again Val. Xxxxxxxxxx
We have known Len and Val for many years when they lived in our little village of Dundas and we saw them on a regular basis, Val and I for just having a natter and Andy and Len for doing their thing at the flying field! Val - you are still in our hearts and both of you will always be thought of as good friends.
Val was a much loved sister-in-law, Aunt and Godmother who will be greatly missed by us all in England. To my brother Len and nieces Denise and Loraine and their families just keep your family close and treasure your memories and time will slowly heal. All my love Mick xx
Our sincerest condolences to Len, Denise, Lorraine and the family. Val had a beautiful spirit, great kindness and a fun sense of humour. I always appreciated the time she took to authentically listen in a supportive manner. A beautiful soul inside and out! The news of her illness and passing have filled me with significant sadness after all these years. Our love to the family. We are thinking of you.
So very Sorry Denise. My sincerest condolences
Deepest condolences to all the family for your loss. We are all thinking of you and hope you pass through this difficult time and come away with all the happy memories of the life you have had together. All our love Kev, Paula and family xx
Very sad to hear about your loss. Hope you get the strength to overcome this. My prayers are with you and your family.
Denise - sending heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this time.
Denise, I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
Such sad news to hear. Please take comfort in the knowledge that you are surrounded by freinds who are sending you love peace and healing. May her soul rest in peace.
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. May the void she has left by leaving be filled with many happy memories. Adding you to my prayers. Take care.
Thinking of you all at this sad time. She was a good friend and neighbour and will be sadly missed. “One day the tears will cease to flow, Another bridge will be crossed; Then you’ll recall those happy times With one whom you’ve loved and lost.”
Sincere condolences to your family and friends on the passing of our Aunt Val. A loss is felt so deeply but memories are forever. We're sure you will have many to help you along the way. Our love is sent over the miles to you all. Fondest thoughts from cousin Margaret, Jim and family xxx
My heart, love and prayers are with you all. May she rest in peace.
Len, Denise, Chris, Amanda, Jessica and families....our deepest condolences on your loss. A beautiful woman inside and out will be greatly missed by so many who knew and loved her. May knowing she is at peace bring you a tiny bit of comfort at this most difficult time. The many memories you created together as a family will remain close to your hearts and help ease the pain you are feeling at this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. All our love - Joe & Jacquie
Denise we are thinking of you and your family during this sad and difficult time. No words can ease your pain now but we are praying for you to find peace. Love to you and Chris.
Val you were always very kind and supportive of me in the years I knew you. I have always cherished that and will always think of you. God’s speed to you.
I was so sorry to hear about your mom's passing Denise. Cherish your memories they will be what gets you through this difficult time. sending hugs to you all.