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Donald Gordon Lauder

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Donald Gordon Lauder

March 15, 1950 - August 8, 2020

Peacefully with his family by his side at the Northumberland Hills Hospital on Saturday August 8th 2020 in his 71st year. Beloved husband of Joanne Lauder (nee Evans). Loving father of Tracy Cruz (Michael) and Michael. Cherished grandfather of Emily, Meg and Kayden. Dear brother of Billy (Carlene), Ken (Shirley), Butch (Lilly) and Bobby (Monica). Brother-in-law of Terry (Doreen), Dana (Michael), Chris (Miriam) and the late Mathew, Dean and Ken. Fondly remembered by many nieces and nephews. A private family gathering will be held. A celebration of Don’s life will be held at a later date. If desired donations may be made to SickKids Foundation.

MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

Lynn Jude - August 20, 2020

Dear Joanne, so very sorry to hear about Don. Sending my deepest condolences to you and your family. Take care Lynn

Chris Dent - August 18, 2020

Joanne and Kayden I am so sorry of the passing of Don , it is taken me this long to try and say the things I want to say to you but I will be with you both for whatever reason you need me for, I cannot express myself in words how I feel but if you need something please call me, Joanne your mom and dad looked after me and took me in when I was in hard times And I am going to do the same thing for you I love you and I love Kayden hugs and kisses Chris

Jessica Harnum - August 17, 2020

Joanne, thinking of you and Kayden and your whole family during this time. There are no words to describe how deeply I feel for you all right now. Sending you all the hugs xoxox

Laura Singh - August 17, 2020

Joanne, Kayden + Family - I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sending you hugs - We are all here for you!

Bev Roberts - August 17, 2020

Joanne- I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs. Prayers for you and your family.

Megan Gardner - August 17, 2020

Joanne, so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family, if you need anything please let me know. Your KCU Family is by your side.

Trish Kennedy-Flynn - August 17, 2020

Joanne, so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Angela Main - August 16, 2020

Thinking of you during this very difficult time

Debra Elacqua - August 16, 2020

Joanne, so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family at this time. Anything I can do to help, just ask. Take care my friend. Deb

Debra Elacqua - August 16, 2020 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation

chris Dent - August 16, 2020

Well Mac things weren’t supposed to turn out this way I’m missing you already we had good times together we were good friends right from the 70s you were my dance teacher you could fix anything . I remember Mac the disc jockey, Mac the Machinist Mac the mechanic Mac the guy who taught me how to dance the night before going out on my first date with Susie. You and I never had one fight never had one disagreement I’m going to miss you,you are my best friend and I will love you forever, Say hello to everyone for me hugs and kisses my friend, see you on the other side !!

Christena Saunders - August 16, 2020

Joanne and Kayden, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Know that your KCU Family is thinking of you.

Rachelle Skerratt - August 14, 2020

So sorry Joanne, thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Shirley Ball - August 14, 2020 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation

Julie Rodney - August 14, 2020

Dear Joanne and family. I am thinking of you and hoping that the love an support of everyone around you will help to carry you. ❤

Henderson Small - August 13, 2020

Joanne, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Don. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Be strong and stay safe.

Susan Roberts - August 13, 2020

Joanne - I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sending you hugs and love.

Casey Hockaday - August 13, 2020

Joanne I am so sorry to hear about Don's passing. Please know I am thinking and sending prayers for Kayden, yourself and your family.

Laurie Harvey - August 12, 2020

Joanne, I was so sorry to hear of Don's passing. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time.

Catherine Freve - August 12, 2020

My heart aches when I think about your loss. May you find peace in the memories you cherish. My thoughts are with you and deepest condolences to you and your family.

Dana Macdonell - August 12, 2020

There are times when trying to find the right words can be almost impossible... for me this is one of those times. Joanne, please know as you go through this heartbreaking journey, I will be beside you every step of the way. Your devoted sister, Dana

Morgan and Lori Britton - August 12, 2020

So sorry for your Loss Joanne . Our prayers go out to you❤️

Katie Whitefield - August 12, 2020

Joanne, I am so sorry to hear of Don's passing. Please know that you and Kayden and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, don't hesitate to let me know. Take care xo

Kyle Farquhar - August 12, 2020

My condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. Cherished your memories, they will help to sustain you in the days ahead. Xo Kyle

Cheryl Pearce - August 11, 2020

Joanne I am so sorry to hear of Don's passing. Thinking of you and sending love, prayers and hugs. Cheryl

Jordan Lauder - August 11, 2020

So sad to hear about the passing of my Uncle Don. He was a great guy and always the life of the party. You will be greatly missed. Thanks for the memories.

YMCA Northumberland Staff - August 11, 2020

Joanne, Kayden and family; all of the educators and staff at the YMCA are sending their thoughts and condolences to you and your family in this time of sorrow. We feel grateful for having the chance to get to know Don through the years of Kayden's child care journey. We are here for you if we can help in any way. Please send our love to Kayden. Emily, Cathy and staff

Dana Elliott - August 11, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of your loss Joanne. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of unimaginable grief.

Judy Jenkins (Hornung) - August 11, 2020

I hold many fond memories of Donny growing up as neighbors. Hockey games on the street building a swimming pool (marco polo) and many rec room dance parties. I will cherish them all. Sending love to all. R.IP. Don you left a mark on our hearts.

Deb Burfield - August 11, 2020

Dear Joanne and Kayden, I am saddened to hear of Don's passing. Know that you, Kayden and your family, are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kim Shearer - August 11, 2020

Joanne, I'm so sorry to hear of Don's passing. My heart is with you and Kaden; sending both strength and love during this incredibly difficult time. Take time to take care of you and know your KCU family loves you and is here to support you always! Kim Shearer

Robert Lauder - August 11, 2020

It has taken a couple of days for me to process the passing of our beloved brother Don. It's the phone call that I had hoped would never come. One that meant we would have to say goodbye to one of the four people that have meant so much to me growing up and throughout my entire life. The Lauder Boys are so much more than five guys with character. As a set, they have their own gravitational pull. Donny was a big part of that. He has touched our hearts over the years and we have all been blessed to share our time with him. Monica and I send our deepest sympathy to Joanne who has been his devoted soul mate for over five decades. My condolences to the kids and grand kids. I know he meant so much to you all. Yes, it hurts to say goodbye, so I will simply say this.......Rest In Peace my brother. We will see you again in the next life. In the meantime, give Ma and Pa a hug for us. Love......Bobby and Monica

Linda Williamson - August 11, 2020

Joanne, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this very difficult time.

Shelly Bovay - August 11, 2020

Joanne, I am sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Michelle Finley - August 11, 2020

Joanne, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May strength be with you and your family at this time and we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Erin Hannikainen - August 11, 2020

Dear Joanne, words can't express how saddened I am to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Erin

Kate Wilson - August 11, 2020

Joanne, I am so very sorry to hear of Donald's passing. Sending you and your family love and prayers during this time.

Lisa Smith - August 11, 2020

Dear Joanne and Kayden, It was with great sadness that I learned of Don's passing. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. With warmest regards, Lisa Smith

Laura Hughey - August 11, 2020

Joanne I am so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you & your family & sending lots of love!!

Lisa Smith - August 11, 2020 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

SickKids Foundation

Asif Ashfaq - August 11, 2020

Joanne I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Susan Maloney - August 11, 2020

I was so sorry to hear of your loss Joanne today. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take care, Susan Maloney

Robert Wellstood - August 11, 2020

My heart is aching for you Joanne and for Kayden and the rest of the family. While Don's suffering is over, your's will no doubt be lasting. Best wishes, Rob

Cindy Killingbeck - August 11, 2020

Joanne - I am so sorry to hear of Don's passing. Sending love and hugs to you, Kayden and the rest of your family.

Cindy Marchand - August 11, 2020

So very sorry to hear about your loss. Hugs to you and your family.

Melissa Coghlan - August 11, 2020

I am so very sorry for your loss. My family will have you and yours in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.

Imtiaz Haider - August 11, 2020

Joanne I just heard about your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and family.

Lorrie Wright - August 11, 2020

My sincere condolences on the loss of your husband, my thoughts are with you and your family at this time of mourning.

Tara Bailey - August 10, 2020

Although I hadn't met Don personally, I know the legacy he leaves behind and it speaks volumes about the man he was. My heart goes out to Joanne and Kayden and the whole family.

Billie & Carlene Lauder - August 10, 2020

We are very sad that you have left us so soon in life. It all seemed to happen so fast. We will miss you and think of you often and always hold you in our hearts.

Jim Annis - August 10, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with Dons family.

Margaret and Bernie vom Dorff - August 10, 2020

Deepest condolences to you Joanne and to your family on the loss of Don. Don was a kind and gentle person. He enjoyed a great party, telling a good joke and always knew the right things to say to those who felt down. Great memories from our Akzo Nobel - Coveright days! R.I.P. Don Margaret and Bernie vom Dorff

Rebecca Lauder - August 10, 2020

Heartbroken to hear of Uncle Don's passing. He had a big heart and I loved his ability to always make me laugh. He was definitely one of a kind and I will miss him dearly. Love you Uncle Don. XOXO

Philip Yuzon - August 10, 2020

Don, Although we briefly got to know each other, thank you for making me feel like family from the moment I first walked through the door. You will definitely be missed!

Julie Lynn Darling - August 10, 2020

Joanne, I was so sorry to hear that Don had passed away. Please accept my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I hope the love and and support from your family and friends will comfort you during this very sad time. Julie Darling

Mike and Kelly Wood - August 10, 2020

We are saddened by the news of Don's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family during this difficult time. He faced his illness with such strength and was focused on using his time for quality not quantity. Rest in peace, Don.

susan hayes - August 10, 2020

Joanne and Family I was so sorry to hear of Donnie's passing, I have such fond memories of all the boys and the fun times we all had up in Inglewood, running up and down the red clay hills and swimming in the Credit River, the green apple fights in the trees and corn roasts. Wonderful memories ! Donnie was such a character, treasure your memories. Smiles and hugs to you all Cousin Sue

Aiden Ryder Hudson - August 9, 2020

We are sad to hear your Grandfather passed away Kayden. We know you were very close, like we were with our Grandpa. We are all sending our love. Aiden, Ryder and Hudson.

Cindy Pieper - August 9, 2020

To all of the Lauder Family, so sorry for your loss of our cousin Donny Lauder. We shared so many childhood memories of all the five Lauder boys with our four from our Lauder family for many years!! You truly will be missed Donny! Love you all and our deepest sympathy on your loss. Much love, John, Cindy and Deb

Melanie Mitchell - August 9, 2020

Condolences to you and your family Tracy

Mike Cruz - August 9, 2020

Don, Your grit and determination never ceased to amaze me. You had a goal and you always saw it to the end. A true gentleman, honourable, and a loving heart. Truly one of a kind who will be missed greatly.

Terry - August 9, 2020

I knew you since we were young teenagers at Brimell Court is Scarborough , i will miss you and always remember you R I P .

Tracy - August 9, 2020

Dad, you were such a brave fighter and you never gave up hope. You will always be in my heart. I love you Xoxo

Judy Cook - August 9, 2020

Joanne and Family, Don was always a true gentleman such a kind soul. I will be thinking of you all at this sad time .

Cindy Trew - August 9, 2020

Our condolences to you Joanne and your family. Cindy & Alan Trew

Cathy Taylor - August 9, 2020

I am so sad to hear this news,Joanne.My heart goes out to you and your family. If there is anything I can do to help don't hesitate to get in touch. Take care♡