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Allen McPhee

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Allen 'Ian' McPhee

February 26, 1964 - April 17, 2020

Peacefully, at home surrounded by those he loved after a courageous battle with cancer at the age of 56. Proud father of Alexandra McPhee and Nicki McPhee. Beloved son of the late Hilda McPhee (nee O’Brien) and the late Melvin McPhee. Long-time partner of Mary McPhee (nee VanGils). Loving brother of Catherine Laura Dickson (Lee), Mary Sandra Dee McPhee, Sheila Marie Ainsworth (Eric), and Ewen Melvin McPhee (Lisa). Special uncle to Meagan McPhee. Fondly remembered by his other nieces and nephews, aunts and uncles and many cousins and long-time friends and neighbours. There will be cremation with a Celebration of Life to be announced later in the summer. Those wishing may make a memorial donation to the Northumberland Hills Hospital Palliative Care Unit. The family would to thank the many wonderful health care workers at NHH, Dr. Haunts and Dr. Mule for the exceptional patient care.

“Life is a song… sing it. Life is love… feel it.”

MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

Brenda Watson - May 8, 2020

Dear Mary and family. My thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. I know you will cherish your great memories of Ian. Brenda

Connie Hirsch - April 29, 2020 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Palliative Care

Lisa( JACKSON ) McCracken - April 29, 2020

I’m so sorry to hear of Ian’s passing. We went to school together and just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to your family.

Marg Taylor - April 26, 2020

Alex, Nicki and Mary: I was so sorry to hear of Ian's passing. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Sincerely, Marg Taylor

John Logel - April 26, 2020

Hello Ladies, So sorry to hear of Ian's passing. He was a great individual, his efforts appreciated by all. God bless, John & Brenda

Rhonda Perry - April 26, 2020

To Alex, Nicki and Mary, I was so very, very sorry to hear of Ian's passing. Although it has been a number of years since I have seen you all I still remember the regular visits you made to the library. Please know I am thinking of you all and sending warm hugs. My deepest sympathies.

Barb (Cameron) Schoeppe - April 25, 2020

To Alex and Nicki and Laura, Sandra, Shiela, Ewen and your families, I send heartfelt condolences. There are many great memories I have of my friend Ian and I know you have so many more to hold dear. I look forward to the day when we can share them.

Cathy O’Brien - April 25, 2020

Dear Laura, Sandra, Sheila, Ewen, your families; and Linda, Alex, Nicki and Mary; Please accept our sincere condolences on Ian’s passing. He is fondly remembered for his warm nature and his obvious love for his family and those closest to him. May you all find peace during this very difficult time. Know that we are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. With love, Aunt Ann, Uncle Bernie, Michael & Gisele, Duncan & Mandy, Don, Kelly & Brian, Cathy & Simon, Colleen & Mario and our families.

Nancy Williams - April 25, 2020

I am deeply saddened by the passing of Ian. Growing up across the street I remember many happy fun filled days with the McPhee family. We had a special connection especially when our parents passed away and we continued to care for their properties as they would have liked. I recall Ian spending countless hours on the front hedge to make it just the way his Dad always did. It looked so good afterwards. Mel had a special way of cutting his lawn and Ian was able to do exactly the same. Mel and I would often be cutting our lawns at the same time and would wave to each other. I always knew if I needed assistance that the McPhee family would be there in an instant. It was comforting growing up with such thoughtful, loving, kind neighbours . I cherish the memories. Thank you Ian for providing that stability and love to all you crossed paths with. You will be missed greatly Love and prayers to you all Nancy

Theresa and Matt Brownson - April 25, 2020

Mary and Girls, We are so sorry to hear about Ian. You guys are part of our Baltimore memories. Our thoughts are with you.

Lorraine Brace - April 24, 2020

Dear Nicki and Alex Thinking of both of you and feeling so very sad to read that your Dad passed away this week. How difficult it is to lose someone you love and who was so young. too. Please know that although we cant be together to reach out with a hug and comfort during this time of isolation that my thoughts, prayers and love are sent out to both of you as you mourn the loss of your beloved Dad. Yours sincerely Lorraine Brace

kevin andrade - April 23, 2020

Ewen, Lisa and family: We are saddened to hear of the loss of your brother at this difficult time. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless to you all. Kevin, Joanne and Matthew Andrade

Cathy Oliver - April 23, 2020

Mary, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Ian's passing. My heart goes out to you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lois Maddigan Auger - April 23, 2020

Dear family of Ian. Please accept my deepest sorrow on Ian's death following a long illness. The Mc Phee family & my Maddigan family grew up in the same neighbouring hood, same school bus church, etc. I loving & supportive family. God Bless

Michelle Diminie (Wright) - April 23, 2020

Alex & Nicki & Families, Sincere condolences to all of you as I learned of your Dads (Ian's) passing Very shocked and saddened to read this. He was such a kind person and I know he will be missed by all who knew him. Sincerely, Michelle Diminie & Family

George Lee - April 21, 2020

Very sorry to hear this.

Ruth and Gary McCracken - April 21, 2020

Mary, Alex and Nicki. Just found out that Ian has passed and at such a young age, so very sorry for your loss. Hang on to your memories as they will help you through this difficult time. Rest in peace Ian. Ruth and Gary

Michelle Cyr - April 21, 2020 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Palliative Care

Michelle Cyr - April 21, 2020

The Star - Unknown A light went out on earth for us The day we said goodbye And on that day a star was born The brightest in the sky Reaching through the darkness With its rays of purest white Lighting up the heavens As it once lit up our lives With beans of love to heal The broken hearts you left behind Where always in my memory Your lovely star will shine. You are missed my friend. Laura, Sheila, Sandra, Ewen, Alex, Nicki and McPhee family Lots of love and prayers

Steve Churma - April 21, 2020

I worked with Ian from 2003 to 2008 at the Goodyear Bowmanville location, and he was one of nicest people that I had an opportunity to work with. Very sad to see him go, condolences to his family .

Patsy and Brian Hand - April 21, 2020

Dear McPhee family, I am so sorry to hear of Ian's passing. I have so many fond memories of growing up with your family and sharing so many adventures in our neighbourhood. Ian was so courageous in his fight. I had the pleasure of reconnecting with him over the past few years and will cherish our talks. He was a proud dad, a supportive brother and a great friend. He will be missed.

Scott Tuttle - April 21, 2020

I would like to send my condolences to the Ian's family, knew Ian for quite a few years catching up at periodic times when we ran into each other over the years. May he rest in peace.

Linda & John Vaughan - April 20, 2020

We are so sorry to hear of Ian's passing. May happy memories help you through this time or sorrow. Our sincere condolences. Hugs Linda & John Vaughan

Jill and David Ivatt - April 20, 2020

Dear Mary, Alex and Nicki, we are so sorry for your loss ... May your memories bring you comfort for today, strength for tomorrow and peace in the days ahead ... Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time ... Jill and David Ivatt

Bill and Carolyn Wilcox - April 20, 2020

We are so sorry for your loss Mary, Alex and Nicki. Ian was a good father and was very proud and protective of his twin girls. We enjoyed our time as neighbours and watching the girls grow up. Bill, Carolyn, Ian and Eric Wilcox

Siobhan Kenny - April 20, 2020

Laura, Sandra, Sheila, Ewen and families, and Ian's family, please accept my condolences on your loss. Regardless of how much we realize we are going to lose a loved family member, it's always a sharply felt pain when it happens. In these distressing days when we cannot even offer warmth or share your sorrow please know that you are all in my prayers daily. God Bless you.

Colin and Ruth Watson - April 20, 2020

We are so sorry to hear of Ian’s passing. We always enjoyed seeing Ian and having a chitchat. May your many memories help ease your pain.

Dorenda Turk - April 20, 2020

My sincere condolences to the McPhee family!!

Don & Jane Piché - April 20, 2020 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Palliative Care

Lynn O’Connell - April 20, 2020

So sorry to hear that Ian passed. Thinking of all of you at this very sad time. Sincerely, Lynn O’Connell

Lindsay & Mary Terreau - April 20, 2020

Mary and I offer our sincere condolences to all the McPhee family at this time of sorrow. I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Ian since he started at Goodyear. Ian was cheerful and dedicated to the many positions he held at Goodyear and was always willing to take on any task he was given, above and beyond the call of duty on many occasions. We always a a few laughs on the golf course when we got together over the last few years. He will greatly missed by all family and friends.

Joanne Dillon-McKay - April 20, 2020

My condolences to all of the McPhee Family on the passing of Ian. This has been a long road for you all with much sadness and loss in you family in a very short time. Please know that our family is thinking of you all and praying for you as you mourn the loss of Ian. May he rest in peace. Joanne Dillon-McKay & family

Kim Gordon - April 20, 2020

Nicki, Alex, Linda and all McPhee family, may good thoughts and memories of Ian be with you. Strength and love to all.

SHELLEY M NEWTON - April 20, 2020

Thinking of all of you at this difficult time. Shelley & Family

Mary Hewgill - April 20, 2020

We are so sorry for your loss Nicki and Alex. You are far too young to have to go through this but have shown a very brave attitude despite what you were facing. Your dad was a kind and sweet man with a gentle spirit. He was a great neighbour and it was clear that you girls were the light of his life. We are praying for you all. Love and hugs

Bryan Marjoram - April 20, 2020

Dear Mary, Alex, and Nicki, I was shocked to read about Ian's passing. Such a young man. I hope that fond memories will ease your period of mourning. Our thoughts and prayers are with you! Sincere Condolences, Bryan and Cindy Rest In Peace, Ian.

Rawle Ramjass - April 20, 2020

Extremely sorry to hear. I am currently at the Bowmanville plant..of course we saw each other quite frequently. My wife and I extend our deepest sympathy to his immediate family.

Len & Cindy (Cassidy) Murphy - April 20, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Ian's passing, I remember him well, please know that our prayers are with you all at this time. Hugs to all! Be safe. Cindy

The Gill Family - April 20, 2020

Dear McPhee Family, We are so very sorry for the loss of your husband, dad. Please accept our most heartfelt and sincerest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers. The Gill Family

Joan and Don Diminie and family - April 20, 2020

We were saddened to learn of your loss, Ian and family will be remembered by all who knew him. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time.

Jo-Anne Barker - April 19, 2020

Nicki,Alex,Mary,Laura,Sandra,Shelia,Ewen and families, I am so sorry for your loss and send my deepest condolences in this very sad time. I will miss Ian so much. Please take care of yourselves. Jo-Anne Barker

Lisa McCain-Jarrett - April 19, 2020

So sorry to Ian's children and to Linda. Your hearts are empty and hurt so bad right now, but try to remember all the wonderful memories your had with Ian.

Brenda Brown - April 19, 2020 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Palliative Care

Brenda Brown - April 19, 2020

A very sad day for all the McPhee family....our deepest sympathy on the loss of Ian. He was so lucky to have had such a supportive family during the last few years. Ian will always be remembered and in our hearts. Brenda and Dave Brown

Blaine Darling - April 19, 2020

Sorry to hear about Ian, he was always a friendly fella, my thoughts and prayers are with your family at this most difficult time.

Raymond Myher - April 19, 2020

I was shocked to hear of Ian's passing.I had a great respect for Ian as a work associate at Goodyear.He was one of the good guy's with a great sense of humour and integrity.My sincere condolences to his entire family. Ray Myher

Maria Chambers - April 19, 2020

I worked with Ian at Continental. Ian had the most amazing ability to always make everything just better. It didn’t matter what the situation was, he always made things less stressful and just better. I wish I had known him longer. My heart and prayers go out to his family and friends.

Curtis Wilson - April 19, 2020

So sorry to hear of Ian's passing. I worked with Ian in different capacities, during our time at Goodyear. Ian was an ambitious, dedicated, and conscientious coworker. He was easy to get along with. I can still see his smiling face. My heartfelt and deepest condolence to all his family. Curtis Wilson.

Phil Pace - April 19, 2020

Brenda and I offer our condolences. So sorry for your loss.

Lynda Flintoff/Wally Hicks - April 19, 2020

We are so sorry to hear about Ian’s passing. We worked with Ian at Goodyear. He was a great guy and we are fortunate to have known him. With our prayers and sincere sympathy, Wally and Lynda

Janice Gingerich - April 19, 2020

My deepest sympathy to all of you. Hugs to each of you too. I feel Ian is in a better place now and watching over us all. We all have some great memories and will forever cherish having had Ian in our lives. Janice and Peter

Bob Archambault - April 19, 2020

So very saddened to hear of Ian's passing. You could say so many good things about Ian, and still it would not be enough. Ian was a warrior, a gentleman, and a friend. Our most heartfelt condolences to all of Ian's Family. Bob and Lynn Archambault

Rhonda Hobart - April 19, 2020

We are so sorry for your loss at this time. Please accept our condolences. May he rest in Gods hands and suffer no more. God bless, Rhonda and John Paul Hobart

Sheila McPhee Ainsworth - April 18, 2020

I would like to give many hugs and kisses and all my love and admiration to Lindy Kerley and Ian's daughters Nicki and Alex for all they did the last two years of my brother's life to make it special and memorable every hour of every day he had left. Their courageous actions will never be forgotten

Kathy Ugolini - April 18, 2020

Rob and I offer our sincerest condolences to Alex, Nikki, and all the McPhees. Also to Linda for being his best friend until the end. Thank you Alex for your call and knowing that Ian passed peacefully with the rock n roll in his soul. God Bless xo

Nancy Bassutti - April 18, 2020

Dear Sandra and family. I am so sorry to hear of your brother's passing. This is not an easy time for you but I am sending hugs and prayers to you all.

Sandra kirkbride - April 18, 2020

We were very saddened to hear of Ian’s passing We will always remember his laughter RIP Ian Our deepest condolences to the Mcphee family Robert and Sandra kirkbride

Jeff Gillott - April 18, 2020

I'm so sorry this happened. Ian and myself shared many adventures , especially in our younger years. I have watched in awe as he took this sickness head on and greatly admired his strength while enduring this horrible disease. I will remember fondly our many golf rounds with him and Linda and will strive to improve my game in his memory. Listen all you McPhee's, this will be over and we will give Ian a proper send off soon. Love Jeff and Kelli Gillott

Shirley (Lemmon) Mitchell - April 18, 2020

Sorry to hear this sad news. Our family has very fond memories of you all watching you grow up next door. I remember Ian as a little one putting on his boots and coming to help my Dad with clearing a culvert on our driveway. He really was a sweet little guy. He grew to be a very kind man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Please stay safe in this difficult time.

Tiffany Brooks - April 18, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Ian’s passing. He was a great person to work with in the lab— always friendly, fair and took time to talk to all of us. I hope as time goes on your memories will give you comfort.

Anne Jones - April 18, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Allen's death. Even though I didn't know him I did know his mother well. Also some of the family. It is a terrible time we are going through. God bless the family. Stay safe. Anne Jones

Isabel Kentner - April 18, 2020

So sorry to hear of Ian's passing. I worked with Ian at Goodyear. He was the nicest man and taken far too young. Thinking of his family during this very sad time. With Sympathy, Isabel Kentner

Tony and Katherine Kelly - April 18, 2020

To all the family please accept our condolences on the death of Ian. We remember meeting him at Hilda’s funeral. So sorry to read this news. He is now hugging your dear mom and dad and not having any more pain. God bless all of you. Sending love and hugs!❤️🙏🙏. Love Tony and Katherine Kelly

Carmel Scott - April 18, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Ian's passing. I have very fond memories of all of the McPhees. Grade school seems like yesterday. My condolences to the entire family.

Pat Bath - April 18, 2020

My sincere condolences to you Mary and children. So very sorry for your loss and Ian's passing.

Lynn Warford - April 18, 2020

I am so very sad to hear of Ian’s passing. Ian was a great guy and liked by many people at Goodyear. He was my boss for many years and a friend. He was understanding, fair and always had a listening ear when needed. My sincere condolences to his daughters & family, I’m sure he will be missed. RIP Ian