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Mary Hilda McPhee

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Mary Hilda McPhee

June 11, 1935 - March 30, 2019

Passed away suddenly at Peterborough Regional Health Centre surrounded by her loving family in her 84th year. Daughter of the late Sarah Catherine McCulloch and John O'Brien of 6th. Kenyan, Greenfield, Ontario. Cherished wife of 54 years to Melvin Joseph McPhee (deceased 2011). Hilda leaves behind, to mourn this devastating loss, her beloved children Catherine Laura (Lee) Dickson, Mary Sandra Dee McPhee, Sheila Marie (Eric) Ainsworth, Allen Ian McPhee and Ewen Melvin (Lisa) McPhee. She will be terribly missed by her ten adoring grandchildren and will be super-duper missed by her three amazing great grandchildren. She will also be missed by her siblings: Donald Ranald (Rita May) O'Brien, Bernard (Ann) O'Brien, Bernice (John) Duggan, Alex O'Brien, twin sister Isabel (the late Billy) Henry, Betty (the late Frank) Travers and her sister-in-law Barb McPhee. Fondly remembered by many nieces, nephews, long-time friends and neighbors. Hilda and Mel loved to socialize and entertain with music and dance. She was a Highland dancer in her youth and they both continued to follow the Highland games throughout their lives. She was an inquisitive and adorable feisty fun loving soul, who loved to prove she could pull one over on us, especially when it came to playing cards. There was nothing better than to see the twinkle in her eye as she beat the pants off us, whether she cheated or not! Hilda spent many years canvassing for the Heart and Stroke Foundation. She was a member of the Catholic Women's League. She volunteered for decades at the Blood Donor Clinic, where she received a volunteer service award from the Canadian Blood Services. Visitation will be held on April 3rd from 2 to 4 pm and 6 to 8 pm at MacCoubrey Funeral Home in Cobourg. Mass of Christian Burial will be held April 4th at 10:30 am at St. Michael's Church in Cobourg followed by a reception at 11:30 am at the Columbus Community Centre (232 Spencer St. East Cobourg). Interment at St. Michael’s Cemetery will follow at a later date. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Kidney Foundation and the Canadian Cancer Society. Condolences may be offered at www.MacCoubrey.com.  

MESSAGES OF CONDOLENCE / DONATIONS

JoAnn Kropf-Hedley - April 21, 2019

I just returned home from a winter vacation and saw your Moms in memoriam. I’m sorry for your loss . I swam with your mom for many years at the y . We became pool friends and I certainly missed her after she left the y . ??

Michael Beech - April 8, 2019

Dear Laura and Sheila and the rest of your McPhee family,I am very sad to hear of the passing of your mother. I was speaking to Ron Taylor from the Cobourg Legion Pipe Band (where I also play again since I moved back to Cobourg a year ago) the other day and I was mentioning you both, Laura and Sheila, and your late father Mel, and I was wondering how your family was. We will miss your mother and father at the Cobourg Highland Games, which I know they always supported and where I remember seeing them over the many years.My deepest condolences to the whole McPhee family.Michael Beech

Colin and Ruth Watson - April 5, 2019

So sorry for your loss. May your many memories help ease your pain.

The Barbara Family - April 5, 2019

Hilda was a dear friend. She will always be remembered for her wonderful spirit and fun sense of humor. Her family was everything to her. Our condolences are with her family today and always. The Barbara Family, Alexandria, Ontario

Scott Tuttle - April 4, 2019

I would like to send my condolences to the McPhee family.Scott Tuttle

Gerald Trottier - April 4, 2019

I would like to extend my deepest sympathies to Hilda's sibblings, children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. I grew up with the O'Brien family on the 6th Kenyon. I have fond memories of our walks to school, and childhood friendships.

Bernard and Georgette St. john - April 4, 2019

On behalf of the Trottier family, from the 6th of Kenyon, we extend our condolences to all of Hilda's family. We have fond memories of her and all her siblings.May she rest in Peace.God BlessBernie & Georgette St.John

Kevin O'Brien - April 4, 2019 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Canadian Cancer Society

Kevin O'Brien - April 4, 2019

Dear Laurie, Sandy, Sheila, Ian and Ewen - we were so very sorry to learn of Aunt Hilda's passing. We will always remember her as full of joy, always doing her utmost to make us feel comfortable and cared for as kids visiting you, and always so caring about our Dad throughout her life. We are sorry that we cannot be with you to celebrate her life, but please know that you have our every condolence and best wish for her remembrance - we will certainly remember her with great fondness and affection. Love from us all - Kevin (with Rachel, Cate & Maggie)

Sandra McEldon - April 3, 2019

Hi Sandra I am sorry to hear about your mom .If you feel like talk please give me a callSandra

Paul and Aileen Henry Beaulieu - April 3, 2019

We are so very sorry to hear of the passing of Hilda, Isobel’s twin sister. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family.With deepest sympathy,Paul and Aileen Henry BeaulieuOttawa

Brenda and Dave Brown - April 3, 2019 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Kidney Foundation of Canada

Brian and Marie Duggan - April 3, 2019

Aunt Hilda was a wonderful, caring and loving woman. She will be greatly missed but thought of often.

The Kerley Family - April 3, 2019 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Canadian Cancer Society

Laurie Harvey & Leo Reyns - April 3, 2019 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Kidney Foundation of Canada

Duane &Rick Hoffman - April 3, 2019 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Kidney Foundation of Canada

Shelley Newton - April 3, 2019

Sheila Eric Skyler & Family,Thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time.

Lynn, Bill & Patrick & families - April 2, 2019

We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. Unfortunately we cannot make it to her celebration of life however we have made a donation to the Canadian Red Cross in her memory. Our thoughts are with you during these difficult times. Love Lynn, Bill & Patrick

Joan & Don Diminie & family - April 2, 2019

We were deeply saddened to learn of Hilda passing on. Having known Hilda for many years, she was a lovely lady and always greeted you with a lovely smile, she will certainly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time.

Lynn Nadler - April 2, 2019 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Charity of Your Choice

Karl Ellis - April 2, 2019 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Kidney Foundation of Canada

Dorenda Turk - April 1, 2019

My sincere condolences to the McPee family especially Ewen & Lisa & family.

Annette Champagne Shoemaker - March 31, 2019

So sorry for the loss of your mother, she was an amazing woman. I remember her very well, I went to school with Shelia and they were very involved in the Highland Games. My parents Art and Jean Champagne spoke so often of both your parents in the highest regard.Your family is in my prayers.

Claudette Cowin - March 31, 2019 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Kidney Foundation of Canada